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How Coaching Become Scolding

Many managers and leaders, in their attempt to coach their people, often end up scolding or de-moralising them.

If you are doing any the below 10 things, you are not coaching, but merely de-motivating people:
  1. Asking "What's wrong?" in a questioning tone
  2. Saying, "Let's talk" and look at them in a demanding way
  3. Offering your help, "Just see me any time you have problem" and then make yourself unavailable when they seek your help
  4. Asking Yes or No questions like, "Are you still in?" instead of asking questions that open up possibilities like "How do you find yourself inside this picture?"
  5. Becoming an expert and start giving advise before they ask for it
  6. Impatient, look at targets and nothing else
  7. Look at the negative side of things, like, "How come nobody volunteers?" and then start appointing people instead without giving people time to respond
  8. Picking up losers as examples
  9. Picking up winners as examples, and most people don't feel with the winners
  10. Start a formal coaching session. Most people find coaching to be negative and they see that if the boss wants to coach them, that means they have problems. Since they don't want to be seen as problematic, they will resist coaching. You can just start by having a chat session to get them to open up. Once they are opened up, you can uncover problems and lead them to solutions that they want. That is what coaching is about. Period

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