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Andy wrote Love Intelligence because he saw a growing problem in modern success culture. For decades, people were taught to focus on IQ (intelligence) and EQ (emotional intelligence) to succeed. Later, businesses became obsessed with KPIs, productivity, and performance metrics . Many people became efficient and successful, but at the same time, they also became stressed, disconnected, and transactional in their relationships . Andy observed something worrying: People were becoming high-performing, but less human . In the AI era, this risk becomes even greater. Machines can already process information faster than humans. If people only rely on logic, speed, and data, they may slowly start behaving like humanoids: efficient but lacking warmth, trust, and meaning . That is why Andy introduced the idea of Love Intelligence (LQ):  the ability to combine care, courage, and connection to create trust, cooperation, and long-term value. Yes, the idea is related to the book SuperME ...

The main motivation behind Vivian Passion Koh writing SuperME Unleashed came from a very personal observation about modern life. She noticed that many capable people were successful on the outside but struggling on the inside . They were intelligent, hardworking, and even respected in their careers, yet they often felt: disconnected from themselves pressured by expectations and KPIs trapped in comparison and competition unsure of their deeper purpose Vivian believed the problem was not a lack of skills or intelligence. The deeper issue was that people were operating from their “Survival Self” rather than their “Super Self.” So she wrote SuperME Unleashed to help people: Reconnect with their authentic self instead of living by external pressure. Lead and live from inner wholeness , not fear or inadequacy. Activate their highest potential —the “SuperME”—which combines purpose, love, courage, and contribution. In simple terms, the book is her way of sayin...

If we are not careful, AI will slowly make us stop thinking. People ask AI everything today. Even small things like what coffee to drink. Thinking is like a muscle. If you don’t use it, it weakens. So the solution is simple: Create a daily routine to train your thinking. Here are five ways to do it without AI. 1. The 10-Minute Thinking Appointment Every day, schedule 10 minutes just for thinking. No phone.  No AI.  No internet. Just one question: “What is the most important thing I should think about today?” You will be surprised how powerful quiet thinking can be. Most breakthroughs happen in silence. 2. Write One Page of Thoughts Thinking becomes clearer when it is written down. Every day, write one page in a notebook. It could be about: a problem you are facing a decision you need to make something you observed about people or life Writing forces the brain to organize ideas. This strengthens thinking. 3. Ask Yourself One Powerful Question Great thinkers ask great questions....

Five Ways to Think More in the AI Era Many people think AI will make humans smarter. But if we are not careful, AI may slowly make humans stop thinking. Today people ask AI everything. Even simple things like which coffee to drink. If this continues, the danger is not that AI becomes smarter. The danger is humans becoming mentally lazy. So the real question is not: “How powerful is AI?” The real question is: “Are you still thinking?” Here are five ways to think more even when you use AI. 1. Think Before You Ask Most people open AI and immediately ask a question. Instead, pause first. Ask yourself: “What do I already know about this problem?” Even 30 seconds of thinking first activates your brain. Use AI after thinking, not instead of thinking. 2. Challenge the Answer AI gives very confident answers. But confident does not mean correct. Always ask yourself: Does this make sense? What assumptions are behind this? What could be wrong? Thinking grows when you question information, not when...

Why do some people with very high IQ remain poor… while others with average intelligence build enormous wealth? Think about it. The world is full of brilliant people who struggle financially. And at the same time, there are people who are not exceptionally smart, yet opportunities seem to flow to them.  So what is the difference? The difference is not IQ .  The difference is WQ — Wealth Intelligence . The fastest way to increase your Wealth Intelligence… is actually through Love Intelligence. Let me share a true observation from the corporate world. Two sales directors were working in the same company. Both were intelligent. Both understood the products well.  Both had strong sales skills. But their results were very different. The first director was aggressive and highly competitive. He pushed people hard, criticized mistakes quickly, and focused only on targets. His team performed… but they were always stressed.   People left the depar...

AI has created a strange world. Everyone sounds intelligent.  Everyone has answers. Everyone can produce content in seconds. But something has quietly collapsed. Trust. Today, information is everywhere.  Insight is cheap. Even wisdom can be generated in seconds. So people are no longer asking: “Who is the smartest?” They are asking something far more important: “Who can I trust?” Because when everything sounds impressive, character becomes the real signal. Trust does not come from clever answers. It comes from three things AI cannot manufacture: • Character • Track record • Values This is exactly why ancient wisdom is becoming more relevant in the AI age. Yijing teaches you how to read change, timing, and patterns in life. It sharpens judgment. Love Intelligence teaches you how to lead with care, courage, and connection. It builds trust. One helps you make better decisions. The other helps people trust those decisions. Together, they give you something rare today: Clarity in...

According to the wisdom of the I Ching , life constantly moves through a cycle: 吉 → 吝 → 凶 → 悔 → 吉 Success  → Regret  → Failure  → Repentance  → Success Success and failure are not permanent. They transform into each other. What determines our long-term success is how we behave at each stage . This is where Love Intelligence becomes the compass. Stage 1 — 吉 (Success) Risk: Ego and complacency When things go well, people may become  arrogant, careless and disconnected from others Love Intelligence Response:  Stay humble. Stay grateful. Share credit. LQ principle: Success should deepen relationships, not inflate ego. Stage 2 — 吝 (Regret, Warning Signs) Risk: Ignoring small problems At this stage, warning signals appear:  tension in relationships, small mistakes,  declining trust Love Intelligence Response:  Listen. Accept feedback. Adjust early. LQ principle: Love notices disharmony ear...

每个人都可以“变现”自己的声音 很多人以为，只有成为 演说家、培训师或教练 ，才能靠声音赚钱。 其实不是。 每个人都可以变现自己的声音。 关键不在于你的职业，而在于 你怎么说话 。 第一，说有价值的话。 只要你的话能解决问题，就有价值。 例如家庭主妇或家政人员，如果提出一个节省水电费的方法，就已经在创造价值。 第二，被问才说。 很多人因为太爱给意见而让人反感。 没有被请教就不断给建议，别人很容易讨厌你的声音。 当别人不喜欢听你说话，你的声音就没有价值了。 第三，说出你的想法。 每个人都有一个强大的潜意识，里面充满想法和洞见。 今天，通过科技，你可以把这些想法变成文章、视频或课程。 例如，我现在直接对着 ChatGPT 说话，就可以整理成文章。 第四，也是最重要的——用爱说话。 在爱的智慧（Love Intelligence）里，说话有三个原则： 关怀（Care） ：让别人感受到你的真心 勇气（Courage） ：敢说正确的话 连接（Connection） ：让人感觉被理解 当你的声音带着 关怀、勇气和连接 ， 人们不仅听见你，更会 信任你 。 而在今天这个时代， 信任，就是最值钱的声音。

We are living in a time when machines are becoming smarter every day. AI can now write articles, analyze markets, diagnose diseases, and even generate strategies faster than most humans. So the question is no longer: “Can AI do the work?” The real question is: “What will make humans still valuable?” Many people think the answer is skills . Others think it is knowledge . But after studying and teaching the wisdom of Yijing for many years, I realized something deeper. What ultimately determines success is not just intelligence. It is energy. Two people can have the same skills, the same knowledge, even the same opportunities. But the one with higher energy, clarity, and alignment with change will always move further. In the language of Chinese wisdom, this energy is called 气 — Qi . And the Yijing teaches us how to cultivate it. Let me share a simple story. Years ago I met two business leaders. Both were highly educated. Both had strong technical expertise....

Sun Tzu Art of War 4 Wisdom:  1. Poverty comes from yielding blindly or constantly clashing. In The Art of War , the principle is clear: Those who do not understand when to advance and when to retreat will fail. Some people struggle in life not because they lack effort, but because they lack strategy. If a person always yields without principles, they lose respect and opportunities. If a person constantly clashes and argues, they create unnecessary enemies. 2. Blessings come from patience and yielding. Sun Tzu teaches that the best commanders do not act out of anger. Great people are not those who are the most aggressive, but those who have the greatest self-control. Patience is emotional discipline. Yielding is a sign of a large heart. 3. Wealth comes from planning and thinking. Sun Tzu said: The victorious army wins first and then goes to battle. People who become truly successful are rarely the busiest people. They are the ones who think the most. Planning means ...

The wisdom of chopsticks is deeper than most people realise.  What looks like a simple eating tool actually reflects thousands of years of Chinese thinking about harmony, balance, and intelligent action. 1. Why only one stick moves When using chopsticks, the bottom stick stays still while the top stick moves. This reflects a profound principle: stability plus flexibility. One hand must provide a stable base. The other must adapt and move. Without the stable stick, the moving stick becomes useless. In life, the same rule applies. You must have one part of yourself that does not move: your values, principles, character. Then another part that moves intelligently: your strategies, methods, and responses. Confucian virtue is the stable stick. Sun Tzu strategy is the moving stick. Yijing change is the movement between them. If both sticks move wildly, nothing can be picked up. Many people today fail not because they lack effort, but because everything in their life is moving: values, op...