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No need to try harder because....

You need to try harder, you just need to… No. That’s the voice of your Protector-Me talking. The one who believes love must be earned, worth must be proven, and rest is weakness. But the SuperME in you doesn’t need to try harder. It needs to trust deeper. You don’t need to hustle to become enough. You need to remember that you already are. You just need to: Pause long enough to hear your inner truth Look into your Super Mirror without judgment Choose from alignment, not fear Lead with Love, not pressure Be grateful for the process, not just the result The world says, “Push more.” Your SuperME whispers, “Return home.” Because real breakthroughs don’t come from forcing. They come from flowing — from Purpose, Love, and Gratitude. So no, you don’t need to try harder. You need to trust the SuperME within you to rise. By AndyTheCoach #SuperMEUnleashed  #andythecoach  #VivianPassionKoh #PurposeLoveGratitude
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You Don't Need to Be a SuperME, You just need to...

You Deserve the Best. Not because you’ve earned it. But because you were born worthy . You don’t need to become someone else to be loved. You just need to return to who you truly are . And who you are… is already a SuperME . The clarity, the courage, the compassion—it’s all within you. Buried, maybe. Forgotten, possibly. But lost? Never. You don’t have to chase it. You don’t have to prove it. You just need to pause , breathe, and come home . Come home to your Purpose . Come alive with Love . Come back into Gratitude for the person you’ve always been. So today, whisper this to yourself: “I am enough. I am seen. I am SuperME.” You were never broken. Just waiting to remember . #ReturnToYourSuperME #PurposeLoveGratitude #YouDeserveThis #VivianPassionKoh #AndyNg #SuperMEUnleashed

Whitney Houston sang SuperME in 1985

Whitney Houston’s “The Greatest Love of All” is deeply aligned with the SuperME and PLG (Purpose, Love, Gratitude) philosophy — perhaps more than people realize. Let’s break down the key lyrics and how they reflect the core teachings of SuperME Unleashed by Dr. Vivian Passion Koh: 🎶 “I believe the children are our future…” SuperME Interpretation: This reflects the SuperWE vision — that our inner work isn’t just for ourselves, but ripples into future generations. A SuperME lives with Purpose that serves not just the moment, but legacy. 🎶 “Teach them well and let them lead the way…” PLG Lens – Purpose & Love: This speaks to leading with Love, not control. In the SuperME way, we don’t mould people—we mirror truth so they can rise on their own. 🎶 “Show them all the beauty they possess inside…” Super Mirror in action. We reflect back to others the strength, worth, and light they forget they have. This is Love—not as emotion, but as awakening presence. 🎶 “Learning to love yourself, i...

To the Reader: I Choose Hope and I Believe in You

From the Author Dr Vivian Passion Koh To the Reader:  This book is for you. For the quiet givers. For the ones who’ve led in silence. For the dreamers who doubt, and the healers who hurt. May you remember: You are not broken. You are not behind. You are becoming. With Purpose, With Love, With deep and endless Gratitude—   This book is lovingly dedicated to you. Truly, there would be no reason to write this book if not for you. In my journey of meeting many people from all walks of life, I’ve seen something that breaks my heart — so many individuals, filled with untapped potential, give up. Not because they aren’t capable, but because life, expectations, or circumstances convinced them to shrink instead of shine . Some stop trying. Some stay silent. Some tell themselves, “This is just how life is.” But I choose hope. I believe in the breakthrough that still awaits you . If this book finds its way into your hands, it’s for a reason. You are meant to discover something you’ve been se...

How to Close EVERY Sale with SuperME and PLG

How to Close EVERY Sale with SuperME and PLG (Purpose, Love, Gratitude Framework) Tired of chasing leads that ghost you? Feel like your sales pitch is falling flat no matter how persuasive you are? It’s time to stop “selling”… and start connecting. With SuperME and the heart-based power of Purpose, Love & Gratitude (PLG), you can close more sales—authentically, consistently, and with soul. 🧭 1. PURPOSE: Sell from Intention, Not Desperation People can smell desperation. But when you approach a sale with clarity of purpose, people trust you. ✅ Ask yourself before any sales conversation: “Am I here to close a deal… or open a possibility?” “How will my product truly serve this person?” 🎯 When you know why you're doing this, you'll say the right things without forcing. 💖 2. LOVE: Lead with Care, Not Control Old-school sales = manipulate to win. SuperME sales = connect to serve. ✅ Be curious. Listen deeply. Understand what really matters to your customer. ✅ Don’t just focus on...

How to Score Well in Exams Using SuperME and PLG

How to Score Well in Exams Using SuperME and PLG Most people think doing well in exams is about more notes, more tuition, and more stress. But what if there’s a smarter, calmer, and more powerful way? That way is through your SuperME — the version of you that operates not from fear, but from Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG). 🧭 1. PURPOSE: Know Why You’re Studying When you study just to pass, it’s easy to lose motivation. But when you study with purpose, everything changes. Ask yourself:  “Why does this subject matter to me?” “What kind of person am I becoming through this learning?” “How will this help me contribute in the future?” 🔑 Purpose gives you fuel that lasts longer than coffee or panic. 💖 2. LOVE: Learn with Passion, Not Pressure SuperME teaches you to learn with love, not just fear of failure. Love doesn’t mean you’ll enjoy every topic—but it means you show up with care. Love the fact that you get to learn. Love yourself enough to rest and not burn out. Love the jour...

People come and go, but SuperME stays

  “ People come and go, but SuperME stays ” — this isn’t just a poetic line. It’s a profound truth rooted in the heart of SuperME Unleashed by Dr. Vivian Passion Koh. Let’s break it down: 🌪️ People Come and Go… Yes, even the ones you never imagined losing. The colleague who once believed in you The friend who used to understand your soul The partner who walked with you through storms Even your own moods, desires, and dreams… they shift and change. Relationships, jobs, environments—they’re all external variables . They rise , they recede , and sometimes they disappear without warning . 🧭 But SuperME Stays. Because SuperME is not someone else’s opinion of you . It is not a role, a title, a success story, or a failure you regret. It is the part of you that never leaves — The part that’s rooted in Purpose , That gives out Love without fear , That holds Gratitude even in pain . SuperME is: The clarity that returns when you’re lost The calm that ri...

Win Friends and Influence People — The SuperME Way

How to Win Friends and Influence People — The SuperME Way The world doesn’t need more charm. It needs more clarity, compassion, and connection. Here’s how SuperME changes the game: 🧭 1. Lead with Purpose, Not Performance People don’t follow titles. They follow truth. When you’re aligned with your Purpose—why you do what you do—you become magnetic. You don’t need to impress. You just need to express. SuperME Tip: Before you speak, ask: Is this aligned with who I truly am? 💖 2. Love People Without Needing to Fix Them True influence begins when people feel seen, not sized up. SuperME reminds you: You don’t need to change others to love them. You just need to listen without judgment and care without control. SuperME Tip: Replace advice-giving with presence. Ask, “How can I walk with you in this moment?” 🙏 3. Practice Gratitude, Even When It’s Hard Gratitude isn’t just saying “thank you”—it’s choosing to see the good in people, even when they’re difficult. It shifts your energy. It softe...

Want Better Health? Start with Your SuperME

Want Better Health? Start with Your SuperME You don’t need more pills. You need more Purpose, Love and Gratitude. That’s what being a SuperME is all about. And when you live as your SuperME, your body listens. Here’s how: 1. Sharper Mind, Deeper Memory When you're constantly in fight-or-flight (aka Survival-Me mode), your brain is just trying to protect you. No space to remember. No space to think. But when you shift to SuperME mode, your nervous system calms down. Clarity comes in. Your memory deepens. Your thoughts sharpen. 2. Sleep Like You Mean It SuperME people sleep better—not because they’re perfect, but because they’ve released the mental noise. When your day is lived with Purpose, and your heart is full of Love, and your spirit is grounded in Gratitude, you rest easy. No more mind racing at 2am. Just peace. 3. Stronger Immunity, Less Sickness Chronic stress suppresses your immune system. SuperME reduces stress from the inside out. It doesn’t fight the world—it flows with i...

How SuperME Elevates Teamwork

The Heart-Based Advantage Behind Winning Teams Team disunity is not just a soft issue—it’s a strategic risk. In boardrooms, business units, and family enterprises, the lack of alignment and shared ownership is a leading cause of failure. Brad Sugars’ 6 Keys to a Winning Team offers a proven structure. But without inner alignment , even the best frameworks collapse. This is where SuperME Unleashed , founded on the principles of Purpose, Love, Gratitude (PLG) by Dr. Vivian Passion Koh, provides a competitive advantage by transforming not just processes, but people from the inside out .   1. Strong Leadership → SuperME-Centered Leadership Strong leaders don’t dominate. They align, energize, and humanize. SuperME activates leaders to lead from authentic purpose , with self-awareness and emotional clarity . The result? Less control, more trust. Less fear, more influence.   2. Common Goals → Purpose-Driven Alignment SuperME teams don’t just agree on KPIs—they...

It's Not That they Don't Believe You, It's that they are a Small-Me

When someone refuses to believe something—even when it is verifiable, logical, or obvious —it often has less to do with facts and more to do with their inner state . Why Small-Me Resists Truth The Small-Me operates from: Fear of being wrong Fear of losing control or certainty Fear of looking foolish Habitual skepticism rooted in past disappointments In this state, even truth can feel threatening . Not because it’s untrue, but because it challenges the safety of what the Small-Me has built its identity on. How Being a SuperME Changes That When you shift from Small-Me to SuperME , everything changes—not because the world changes, but because you’re no longer viewing truth through a lens of fear. Here’s how SuperME helps: 1. Purpose Grounds You in Openness When you live with purpose, you no longer need to defend your ego. You seek alignment, not dominance. So when someone shares truth with you, your first reaction becomes: “Let me understand…” Not: “Let ...

What Is Love in PLG Purpose Love Gratitude?

  What Is Love in PLG Purpose Love Gratitude? Love in PLG is not affection or attachment, per Dr Vivian Passion Koh. It’s not romance. It’s not craving. It’s not obsession. Not just a feeling.  Love in PLG is a posture of the heart. Love is the compassionate acceptance of self and others —with care, kindness, and clarity.   Love has 4 divine qualities: 1.      Care & Compassion – Genuinely feeling for another’s pain 2.      Joy – Rejoicing in others’ happiness, without jealousy 3.      Equanimity – Loving without attachment or control 4.      Presence – Being fully here, without agenda Love vs Passion, Enthusiasm & Interest Love ·        Love feels calm, deep, and accepting ·        Love is rooted in Connection ·        Outcome of Love is sustained, non-egoic giving...

You Don't Live Out Your Purpose by just Living

How Can I Live Out My Purpose? Knowing your purpose is not enough. Living it daily is the real work—and the real joy. Here’s how: 1. Anchor Daily Set intentions each morning based on who you want to be, not just what you want to do. “Today, I bring clarity and calm to my customers.” “Today, I nurture instead of control.” 2. Use the PLG Compass Let Purpose guide your direction, Love guide your relationships, and Gratitude guide your reflection. 3. Say No to Misalignment If something doesn’t serve your purpose, let it go. Even if it’s profitable. Even if it’s popular. A purposeful life is not busy—it’s aligned. 4. Serve Beyond Self Your purpose always involves others. Ask: How does my life improve someone else’s? Then build from there. Final Thought You don’t “create” your purpose. You remember it. You don’t have to chase it in the mountains or in success seminars. It’s already in your heart, whispering through your joys, your wounds, your gifts. When you live your Purpose with Love and ...

Who have I Met to fulfill my Ikigai and Purpose?

What Is Your Ikigai? purpoSE? Ikigai is a beautiful Japanese word. It means “reason for being”—the thing that gets you out of bed with light in your heart. It’s not just what you do for a living… It’s what makes your life worth living. In SuperME Unleashed, we call that Purpose. Because when you live with Purpose—anchored in Love and lifted by Gratitude—you no longer just function. You feel alive. For me, my Purpose is simple but sacred: To help people harness their potential. I live this out through coaching, teaching, and creating spaces where people come home to who they truly are. But my journey changed profoundly when I met someone whose presence embodies this Purpose every single day. She doesn’t just teach transformation. She lives it. Not through performance or perfection—but through authenticity, service, and silent strength. Her life’s experiences, her journey of healing and empowerment, are now beautifully shared in her book, “SuperME Unleashed”—a work I’m deeply honored to ...

How to Be Grateful when nothing good is happening?

That quote— “It is not joy that makes us grateful, but gratitude that makes us joyful” —is at the very heart of SuperME and the Purpose, Love, Gratitude (PLG) philosophy by Dr. Vivian Passion Koh. Let’s explore how to be grateful daily, and how being a SuperME helps make this not just a mindset, but a living reality: 🙏 How to Be Grateful on a Daily Basis 1. Begin Your Day with a Gratitude Anchor Before checking your phone or thinking about your to-do list, place your hand over your heart and say: “Thank you—for this breath, this body, this new beginning.” This simple pause sets your emotional tone for the day. 2. Notice the Small Good Things Gratitude isn’t just for big wins. It’s found in: A stranger holding the lift The smell of morning coffee A kind word from a colleague Daily gratitude is about training your eyes to see what your heart would otherwise miss . 3. Practice the “3 Gratefuls” Reflection Each Night Every evening, ask: What went well t...

7-min Transformational Speech: SuperME Unleashed with Purpose Love Gratitude

🗣️ SuperME Unleashed with Purpose, Love & Gratitude (PLG) 7-Minute Transformational Speech (Opening – Pain of the World Today) Let’s be honest—many of us are not okay. You may look strong on the outside, but inside… you’re tired. Not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually tired. ·        You’re stressed, even when you’re resting. ·        You work hard, but feel like you’re not enough. ·        You climb the career ladder, yet feel stuck on the inside. Some of you are worried about job security, AI, rising costs, or whether your work still matters. And when you try to share… people say, “Be strong. Move on.” But what you really want is to be seen, to be heard, and to feel real again. (What Can Save Us – SuperME & PLG) That’s where SuperME comes in. SuperME is not about being superhuman. It’s about returning to who you truly are—beneath the noise, be...