LQ = 3C: The Moment I Truly Understood Care “When the world has LQ, we are living in heaven on earth.” It sounds like a nice statement. Until one moment makes it real. On Sunday, 19 April 2026, I was in a room of about 250 people. One speaker on stage shared something that stopped the room. He had been in the hospital for 9 months. Many of those weeks were spent in ICU. You could feel the silence. Not the polite kind. The kind where people are thinking, “I didn’t expect this.” After the talk ended, I did something simple. I walked up to him. I told him, “I didn’t know you went through so much.” He looked at me, and without any performance, just shared. After his wife passed away, he was deeply affected. The grief hit him hard. Then his health collapsed. He mentioned heart issues. And a few other illnesses. I have known him since 2007. That’s almost 20 years. But in all those years, we had never really spoken. Not like this. That shor...
这29年来，是什么让我一直走下去？ 最近，有人对我说了一句话： “吴老师，我照着你的课程去做，真的有结果。” 就这一句话，深深打进我心里。 因为，这正是我坚持到今天的原因。 从1996年开始讲课、培训、辅导成人， 2001年全职投入，29年了。 这一路，有高峰，也有低谷； 有满场的掌声，也有冷清的教室； 有被追捧的时候，也有被忽略的时候。 我看过太多潮流来来去去—— NLP、情绪管理、到今天的AI。 但有一件事，从来没有改变： 人，始终想成长。 人，始终想活得更好。 也有过怀疑的时候。 我问过自己： 我做的，还有意义吗？ 但每一次，当我想停下来的时候， 总会有人发信息给我： “你的课，让我重新看见自己。” 或者 “我照你说的去做，真的改变了。” 那一刻，我知道这条路，还活着。 我也慢慢明白： 最好的教学，从来不是完美， 而是真实。 如果你也在问，如何在工作、人生、关系中，继续燃烧你的那一团火， 可以看看我的书《爱的智慧》：https://asiatrainers.org/lqbook 这不是一本讲理论的书， 这是一本让你醒过来的书。 它提醒你, 你要的力量，其实一直都在你里面。 你只是，还没有释放出来。