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Confused by Confucius 9 Thougts Jiu Si

In 《论语·季氏篇》,, "君子有九思”, meaning a virtuous person must have 9 Reflections: 1. 视思明 (When seeing, think clearly) See things objectively and accurately. Do not jump to conclusions based on assumptions. LQ Connection: Care Love Intelligence begins with truly seeing people rather than judging them. 2. 听思聪 (When listening, listen wisely) Listen deeply and understand what is being said — and what is not being said. LQ Connection: Connection Many people hear words. Few people hear emotions. LQ teaches us to listen with both ears and heart. 3. 色思温 (Keep your expression warm) Your facial expression should bring comfort rather than fear. LQ Connection: Care A smile, gentle eye contact, and warmth create emotional safety. Trust starts here. 4. 貌思恭 (Maintain respectful conduct) Treat others with dignity and respect. Respect is not weakness. It is strength under control. LQ Connection: Courage + Connection 5. 言思忠 (Speak truthfully and sincerely) Before speaking, ask: "Is this true?" ...
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我人生回报率最高的一项投资

我人生回报率最高的一项投资 这些年,我投资过股票、信托,课程、事业和书籍。 但回头看,我回报率最高的一项投资,不是股票,也不是房地产,而是——爱的智慧(LQ)。 因为它本金很低。 一句关心的话,一次真诚的倾听,一个善意的举动,都可以开始。 但它的回报却很高。 它让我建立信任,收获友谊,创造机会,也让更多人愿意与我合作。 更重要的是,它像 复利一样增长 。 今天帮助一个人,明天影响更多人,信任不断流动,价值不断扩大。 股票可能下跌,市场可能波动。 但关爱、理解和利他所创造的价值,却会一直留在人们心中。 经过近30年的培训与辅导,我越来越相信: 财富从来不只是金钱,而是人与人之间的信任流动。 AI可以生成内容,却无法真正关心一个人。 AI可以分析数据,却无法建立真诚的连接。 因此,我相信未来最值得投资的,依然是爱的智慧。 理解、包容和利他, 就是爱的智慧。

The Best Investment I Made is not Nvidia or Alphabet

The Best Investment I Ever Made Over the years, I’ve invested in stocks, courses, books, and businesses. But the best investment I ever made was in Love Intelligence (LQ). Recently, I saw a slide listing the traits of a good investment: low capital, high return, compounding growth, low risk, easy access, and happiness. It struck me that Love Intelligence fits them all. It requires very little capital. A kind word, a listening ear, or a genuine act of care costs almost nothing. Yet the returns can be enormous. LQ has helped me build trust, deepen relationships, create opportunities, and connect with people in ways money alone never could. Like compound interest, the effects keep growing. A person you help today may help someone else tomorrow, and years later that goodwill may return in ways you never expected. Unlike stocks or property, the value of kindness never crashes. Even if no one repays you, you become a better person through the act itself. Most importantly, it brings...

Love Intelligence Manager in Conflicts

Practical Tools to Apply Love in Conflict and Teams (from “The Love Intelligence Manager”)  1. The Love Conflict Method  Use when tension rises:   Pause your reaction   Name the real emotion   Show grace (“I understand why you feel this  way”)   Look for a common purpose   Decide together  2. The 3-Minute Connection Ritual  Start meetings with:   a thank you   a short acknowledgment   a shared intention  The room energy changes instantly.  3. The “Ally Reframe”  Instead of asking:  “How do I win?”  Ask:  “How do we win together?”  This single question dissolves the ego and reveals  solutions.

Sun Tzu Art of Winning Without Fighting Team-Building Strategies for the Modern Organization

Sun Tzu Art of Winning Without Fighting Team-Building Strategies for the Modern Organization Course Overview In today's fast-changing and AI-driven business environment, organizations can no longer rely solely on authority, hierarchy, or control to achieve results. The most effective leaders know how to align people, build trust, manage conflict, and create collaboration without unnecessary confrontation. Drawing on the timeless wisdom of Sun Tzu's Art of War and enhanced with modern insights from Love Intelligence (LQ), this highly practical program shows leaders how to build high-performing teams by winning hearts rather than forcing compliance. Participants will discover how to transform workplace friction into cooperation, create alignment across diverse stakeholders, and cultivate a culture where people willingly contribute their best. This program is ideal for leaders, managers, team leads, and professionals who want to strengthen influence, improve collaboration, and ac...

AI is Replacing Mechanical Jobs, Not Humans

AI is Replacing Mechanical Jobs, Not Humans A few months ago, I asked AI to write an article for a government-linked organization.  Thirty seconds later, it produced something better than what many people could write in three hours. I was impressed.  Then I was worried. Because if AI can write articles, answer questions, compose songs, generate images, create presentations and even write computer code... What happens to us?  Are humans becoming obsolete? Today, I want to suggest something very different. AI is not replacing humans. AI is replacing mechanical jobs. Let me show you through a few stories. The first story is from my own life. I was married for almost thirty years. Imagine if I had an AI assistant twenty years ago.  The AI could have reminded me of birthdays.  It could have drafted romantic messages. It could have planned holidays.  It could have suggested gifts. But there was one thing it could never do. It could not care for my wife.  Bec...

The Master Key to Riches

Love Intelligence: The Master Key to Riches Many people ask me why I spend so much time studying and teaching Love Intelligence. The answer came to me after connecting three seemingly different sources of wisdom. First, I studied Sun Tzu.   Sun Tzu said: "To win without fighting is supreme excellence." The highest form of victory is not defeating others. It is creating conditions where conflict becomes unnecessary. You influence without forcing.   You lead without controlling.  You win hearts before you win deals. Second, I studied Yijing. Yijing teaches us that when we understand ourselves and align with the laws of nature, things begin to flow. Instead of forcing outcomes, we cultivate the right conditions. Instead of changing the world first, we reflect on ourselves first. When we change within, the world around us responds differently. Third, I reflected on the lessons from SuperME Unleashed by Dr. Vivian Passion Koh. Its central message is simple yet profou...

Don't Waste TIme on Love

Why I Chose Love Intelligence People often tell me: "Andy, don't waste time on topics that don't make money." They say the hottest topics today are AI, TikTok marketing, automation, and the latest technology. I understand where they are coming from. In fact, I teach AI myself. But after years of studying business, leadership, human behavior, Chinese wisdom, and technology, I have come to a simple conclusion: Behind every successful application of AI, marketing, leadership, sales, or management lies one invisible force: Love Intelligence. AI can generate content. TikTok can generate views. Marketing can generate leads. But none of them can generate trust. Only people can. And trust is built through Care, Courage, and Connection. That is why I continue to focus on Love Intelligence. Not because it is the easiest path. Not because it is the most popular topic. But because I believe it is the most important one. The more I study Love Intelligence, the mo...

Money follows value. Value follows trust. Trust follows love.

  The Most Memorable Quotes from Love Intelligence by Andy Ng Love is not soft. Love is power with a heart. People may forget what you did. They never forget how you made them feel. When trust rises, everything costs less. Care creates trust. Courage creates change. Connection creates results. Win hearts, and you don't have to fight for control. The future belongs not to those who know more, but to those who care more. AI can process information. Only humans can create meaning. Love is seeing the person, not the problem. The strongest person in the room is often the one who cares the most. Connection is the currency of the AI age. Stop performing. Start being. LQ turns relationships into results and trust into wealth. Love is not something you feel. Love is something you practice. Signature Quotes Win hearts, and you don't have to fight for control. Connection is the currency of the AI age. The AI code that no machine can write is L...

When Audience Participation is NOT Interaction

The Biggest Myth About Public Speaking Many presentation and public speaking courses teach the same thing: A speaker must keep interacting with the audience. Ask questions. Get people to raise their hands. Make them clap. Get them to move around. And most importantly, make them laugh. These techniques certainly have their place. But are they really interaction? Think about radio for a moment. When you listen to a great radio DJ, there is no way to interact. You cannot raise your hand. You cannot answer their questions. You cannot clap. Yet somehow, you feel as if the DJ is speaking directly to you. Why? Because true interaction is not about what happens physically. True interaction is about what happens emotionally. A person can sit silently in a room and still be deeply engaged. A person can be clapping, laughing, and participating in activities, yet remain emotionally disconnected. This is where Love Intelligence (LQ) comes in. Many speakers focus on interaction techniques. But the ...

Warning by CTO of Meta

"No One Should Be Using AI Just for the Sake of Using It." That was the recent warning from Meta's Chief Technology Officer. And he is right. Today, many people proudly say they are using AI. They use AI agents to run errands for them. They use AI agents to creating marketing campaigns They use it to generate reports. But if we are honest, many are simply using AI because everyone else is using AI. Using AI alone does not create value. Just as owning a gym membership does not create fitness. Just as buying a piano does not create music. The real question is: What are you using AI for?  Whatever AI can do, it  cannot determine what truly matters to you. cannot decide what is right when values conflict. cannot build genuine trust between people. This is where Love Intelligence (LQ) becomes essential. LQ is the human capability to create trust, exercise judgment, and build meaningful connections. When AI is combined with LQ: AI provides speed.   LQ provides wisdom. AI p...

The Secret Whispered at Waterloo Street

Hear My Prayers, Guan Yin Pusa If you walked past the Guan Yin Thong Hood Cho Temple at Waterloo Street during the late 1990s or early 2000s, you would have been swallowed by a sea of thick incense smoke, the rhythmic clattering of divination lots, and hundreds of devotees bowing in prayer. But if you looked closely at the altar, you would have seen a scene that is permanently seared into my memory. An elderly man in his late 70s, his body worn down by decades of grueling labor at the Chinatown stalls, was kneeling humbly on a red cushion. His hands were pressed tightly together, his eyes closed, and he was bowing his head vigorously before the statue of Guan Yin Pusa—the Goddess of Mercy.   That man was my father. Back then, nobody in the family asked him what he was praying so fervently for. We never asked if he was drawing divination lots, or what silent burdens he was laying down at the feet of the Pusa as he offered his flowers and fruits. We just watched him from a dista...

Love Intelligence in Service: How Heart-led Care builds Trust and Loyalty

Service excellence is collapsing everywhere. Customers are more demanding, staff are overwhelmed, and complaints are rising. If your team is still relying on cold, rigid SOPs to handle tension, you are burning out your people and losing your customers. In a landscape of tighter budgets and lean teams, pressure isn't slowing down—it's increasing. Yet one truth remains completely unchanged: People will forget what you say, but they will never forget how you made them feel. Think about a standard frontline meltdown. A customer is shouting, a team member is getting defensive, and the entire atmosphere turns toxic. Traditional customer service training tells your staff to "follow the script." But scripts don't calm human anger, they infuriate it. When a Singapore healthcare frontline team faced skyrocketing friction, they threw out the rigid scripts and activated Love Intelligence (LQ) . By s hifting from "doing service" to truly being of service through hea...

Win Hearts, So You Don't Have to Fight for Control

Win Hearts, So You Don't Have to Fight for Control One of Sun Tzu's most powerful teachings is: “致人而不致于人” A simple translation is: Influence others to move according to your strategy, instead of being forced to move according to theirs. In today's world, many people understand the strategy but struggle with the execution. How do you influence without manipulation? How do you lead without force? How do you resolve conflict without creating enemies? Sun Tzu gives us the strategy. Love Intelligence (LQ) gives us the "how." Through the 3Cs of Care, Courage, and Connection: • Care reduces resistance. • Courage builds trust. • Connection creates alignment. When people feel understood, respected, and connected, they move willingly rather than reluctantly. That is 致人而不致于人 . That is Win Without Fighting . And in the AI era, where technology can automate tasks but cannot replace trust, this may be one of the most valuable leadership skills of all. If you want to learn more,...

When the World's Most Popular AI Tool Speaks, We Listen

Even Sam Altman Admits AI Can’t Replace the "Human Part" of Work! OpenAI CEO Sam Altman recently reversed his grim predictions about a global "jobs apocalypse". His big realization? Tech predictions were right, but his economic intuitions were off because humans deeply care about interactions with other humans , which AI simply cannot replicate. While AI automates execution, the corporate world is realizing that technical skills are just the baseline. To protect your career, multiply your business profits, and thrive during this disruption, you need a different kind of edge: The LQ Edge (Love Intelligence). LQ focuses on exactly what Sam Altman says is irreplaceable: meaning, judgment, trust, and deep human connection. 🧠 The LQ Edge: Success Beyond IQ in the AI Age In this exclusive 1-hour masterclass, discover how to leverage LQ to command your field: The Irreplaceable Edge: Learn why cultivating trust and meaning protects you from tech displacement. The 3Cs ...