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Beyond AI Videos

Go Back to Basics: Your Content Is Your Real Power Everyone today is obsessed with being creative, being interesting, being impressive. They use AI to generate videos. They turn photos into animations. They design beautiful slides with tools like Canva . Everything looks polished. Everything looks professional. But let me say something that may not be popular: Most of it doesn’t matter. I say this not as a critic, but as someone who has spent over 40 years working, and more than 26 years training professionals across industries. We are entering a time where people are confusing presentation with substance . A stunning video does not mean a strong message. A beautiful slide does not mean meaningful content. A smooth delivery does not mean real impact. Let’s be honest. You can have the most visually impressive presentation, but if your message doesn’t move people, nothing changes. No decisions are made. No behaviour is shifted. No value is created. So what’s the ...

Bagua: The Hidden Pattern of People

Why is it that sometimes people listen to you… and sometimes they don’t? Same words. Same intention. Different result. It’s not what you say. It’s how you are wired. In Yijing, we say there are 8 types of human energy . If you use the wrong approach on the wrong person, even the best strategy will fail. 2-Minute Bagua Quick Test “Write down A, B, C or D for each question. Don’t overthink, choose what you actually do , not what sounds good.” 1. When facing a challenge, you… A. Take control immediately B. Support and stabilise others C. Step back and analyse D. Express ideas and energise people Q2. In a team, you are usually… A. The decision maker B. The dependable supporter C. The cautious thinker D. The communicator Q3. When things go wrong, you… A. Push harder B. Stay patient C. Re-evaluate and analyse D. Talk it through Q4. Your natural strength is… A. Driving results B. Supporting people C. Seeing risks D. Influencing others Q5. Your common weakness… A. T...

Qing Ming: Not Just Remembering the Dead, But Awakening the Living

Qing Ming is one of the purest expressions of Love Intelligence. You show Care — by remembering those who raised you. You show Connection — by gathering as a family. And quietly, you show Courage — by facing something most people avoid: impermanence. Because when you stand before a grave, one truth becomes clear: Life is limited. And that truth demands courage. Courage to love more. Courage to forgive. Courage to stop living like a machine. Qing Ming and SuperME Qing Ming is also a mirror. It asks you a silent question: When your time comes… what will people remember about you? Your title? Your bank account? Or your character? This is where SuperME comes in. SuperME is not about becoming more successful. It is about becoming more real, more human, more alive. Qing Ming reminds us: You are not here just to survive. You are here to become someone worth remembering. A Simple but Powerful Truth Qing Ming is not about the dead. It is about the living who are sti...

Your subconscious mind is already controlling more of your life than you think.

Harness Your Subconscious Mind — Or It Runs You Your subconscious mind is already controlling more of your life than you think. Every hesitation. Every repeated mistake. Every “I don’t know why I did that.” That’s not logic. That’s programming. The question is simple: Are you using it — or is it using you? 1. Get Clear — or Stay Stuck Your mind hates vagueness. Not: “I want a better life.” But: “I speak confidently.” “I earn more without fear.” “I live with purpose.” Clarity is direction. Without it, your mind defaults to old habits. 2. Spot Your Pattern Look at your life. Where do you keep repeating? Silence in meetings? Undercharging? Avoiding conflict? Feeling irrelevant after retirement? That’s not coincidence. That’s conditioning. 3. Expose the Hidden Belief Behind every pattern is a belief: “If I speak, I’ll be judged.” “If I charge more, I’ll lose clients.” “If I’m older, I matter less.” Change the belief, or the pattern stays. 4. Install a Better T...

AI Isn't Just Replacing Jobs. AI is stealing the Experience that Creates Experts

Here's why that changes everything. Everyone is asking the same question about AI. "Will it take my job?" That's the wrong question entirely. The real threat isn't that AI replaces the expert. It's that AI eliminates the entry level job that CREATES the expert. Think about how a radiologist is made. Years of reading thousands of scans. Learning to spot the subtle patterns only experince teaches. AI can now read those scans. So hospitals need fewer juniors. Same thing is happening to translators. AI handles the routine translation work that junior translators used to cut their teech on. The boring work was the TRAINING. Same thing with writing. Junior copywriters used to learn by doing the grunt work. Product desciptions. Email blasts. Internal reports. Now AI writes those in seconds. The grunt work was the apprenticeship. Here's the part nobody talks about. You can't become a senior rad...

It is Not No Money No Life

When there is no love, there is no life. A person may still be breathing, working, earning, and performing. But without love, that person is only existing, not truly living. That is why Love Intelligence matters. Because Love Intelligence is not just about love in a soft or romantic sense. It is made up of Care, Courage, and Connection . Without Care , people become cold. Without Courage , people become fearful. Without Connection , people become isolated. So when a person lacks Love Intelligence, they do not just lack love. They also lack the courage to speak, to act, to stand up, to forgive, to try again, and to live fully. Why? Because courage often comes from love. You fight because you love. You protect because you care. You speak because the relationship matters. You rise again because something in life is still worth living for. Without love, courage becomes weak. Without courage, life becomes small. So yes, this is the deeper truth: No love, no life. No Lo...

起点，决定你看到的世界

起点，决定你看到的世界同样一件事： “我迟到了。” 和 “我迟到了，但我还是出现。” 事实没有改变，但意义完全不同。这正是《易经》给我们的一个重要启发—— 👉 从哪里开始看一件事，决定了你会如何理解它。在易经中，一个卦由上下两个三爻组成：下卦：代表内在（心态、意图、能量）上卦：代表外在（环境、事件、他人）阅读时，是从下往上看。这意味着： 👉 先看内在，再看外在。同样的事实，不同的起点我们习惯从“外在”开始判断： “她在KTV工作。” “他爱上了别人的妻子。” “我迟到了。” 这些都是外在标签。但如果换一个起点： “她是一个努力读书、靠自己打工的学生。” “他爱上了一个已经结婚的女人。” “我迟到了，但我依然选择出现。” 你会发现： 👉 世界没有改变，是你的理解改变了。企业中的“起点错误” 这种“起点问题”，每天都在企业里发生： “团队很抗拒” → 你会用力推动 “团队有顾虑我还没理解” → 你会开始倾听 “客户在抱怨” → 你会防御 “客户在表达未被满足的需求” → 你会改进 “业绩在下滑” → 你会焦虑 “客户在做新的选择” → 你会重新思考 👉 同样的数据，不同的起点，带来完全不同的决策与结果。这不是正向思维很多人会误解，这是“换个角度看事情”。但这不是鸡汤。 👉 正向思维，可能是在逃避现实 👉 爱的智慧，是更真实地看见现实如果没有内在的成熟：你会用“换个说法”来自我安慰甚至扭曲事实但当你具备“爱的智慧”（Care、Courage、Connection）： 👉 你不是在美化现实 👉 你是在更深入地理解现实真正的关键问题当事情发生时，我们习惯问： “发生了什么？” 但更重要的问题是： 👉 “我是从哪里开始看这件事的？” 结语人生不会因为事情改变而改变，人生会因为你改变“起点”而改变。这，正是易经真正的智慧—— 不是预测未来，而是改变你看世界的方式。

I’m Late, but I Still Show Up: The Yijing Way of Seeing Reality

Most people think Yijing is about prediction. But at a deeper level, it is about how you see reality—and therefore how you act. And yes, one of its biggest lessons is this: 👉 Reverse the lens. Read from the inside before the outside. 👉 Change the sequence, and you change the meaning. 1. Why Yijing Reads “Inside → Outside” A hexagram is made of two trigrams: Lower trigram = inner state (mind, intention, energy) Upper trigram = outer situation (environment, events, people) So the logic is: Your inner world shapes how the outer world unfolds. Most people read life like this: “What happened to me?” Yijing reads like this: “What is happening within me, that shapes what is happening outside?” 2. The Power of Inversion ( 反看 / 反思 ) Example 1 Normal framing (external first): “She works in a KTV bar.” → Judgment, labels, assumptions. Yijing framing (internal first): “She is a student who chooses to work part-time to support herself.” → Disc...

Leadership in the AI Era with Yijings Inversion

Most people don’t have a reality problem. They have a starting point problem. This is one of the most misunderstood lessons from the Yijing. In Yijing, a hexagram is read from the bottom up. Lower trigram first. Then upper trigram. Why? Because life is meant to be read from: inside → outside. Not the other way round. But today, almost everyone lives inverted. A girl works in a KTV bar. That’s what people see. But what if you start from inside? She is a student. Who chooses to work part-time to support herself. Same person. Different world. A man loves another man’s wife. Sounds wrong. But invert it. He fell in love with a woman… who happens to be married. Same situation. Different human understanding. “I am late for work.” That’s failure. Invert it. “I am late… and I still choose to show up.” Now it’s responsibility. Nothing changed. Not the facts. Not the events. Only this changed: 👉 Where you start the story, And that changes everything...

3 Questions to Ask

People, when under pressure to deliver results, often succumb to ethical issues. We are not saints, but we can be more mindful of the following 3 most questions: “In your operations, where do people feel pressured to deliver results at all costs?” “Have there been situations where people had to choose between targets and people?” “What kind of behaviours worry you but are hard to address?” With Love Intelligence, we can help to address the above concerns

Love Intelligence in the AI Era

Love Intelligence in the AI Era How Organisations Build Trust, Make Better Decisions, and Perform Without Burnout The Problem (Why Now) Low trust across teams Slow or poor decision-making Resistance to change Compliance vs innovation tension Burnout despite high performance pressure The Real Gap The problem is how people think, decide, and relate. The Solution Build trust fast Make decisions under uncertainty Influence without authority Align teams without conflict Powered by Care Courage Connection What Makes This Different Integrates The Art of War (strategy) Integrates Yijing (timing & change) Built on real corporate experience (Finance Director, 39 years) Business Impact Faster decision cycles Stronger cross-team collaboration Higher trust with clients Reduced internal friction Better leadership presence Program Options 45-min Lunch Talk (awareness & engagement) Half-Day Workshop (practical tools) 1-Day Corporate Training (deep transformation)...

Tik Tok Says I'm among the Top 10% But I Am Not Happy

Most people are chasing views. TikTok told me I’m in the top 10% of creators. Why? Because some of my videos crossed 300 views. Sounds impressive… until you realise: 300 views doesn’t pay your bills. So I looked deeper. In the last 4 months: I grew my LinkedIn from 700 to 2,780 connections That’s about 100 new connections every week. In 2025 alone: I wrote and sold 6 books: • Love Intelligence • 爱的智慧 • Win Without Fighting with Sun Tzu Art of War • Sun Tzu Sales Secrets • Yijing Explained (2025 Edition) • SuperME Unleashed (co-author) And now I’m building: • A course using 10 popular songs to teach decision-making • A one-day Ethics & Leadership program • A subconscious mind course for performance and clarity Then it hit me: In the AI era, content is everywhere. But very few people can do 3 things well: Turn content into trust Turn trust into influence Turn influence into revenue That is the real game. This is what I call Love Intelligence (LQ). Not romance. But the ability to: bui...