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Your Life is NOT about You

We are often told to live a life of design.  When it comes to life's realizations, we find that the world does not stop and start at your expense.   For people to care about You and what you want to do with your life, you have to care first.  Most people wake up each day think about all the things they need to do.  Very few take time to truly understand what other people value.  Before you call your staff meeting and tell your people what they need to do in this week or day, take a minute to really find out what do your people really care.  It is not that our goals and priorities are not important.  At the end of the day, the people who prioritize being the best friend, parent and partner consistently do well for themselves.   Helping people carve their own path is the best way to carve your own.  For me, it is a sign that you are ahead of the game when you realize that life is not about You.  Although personal freedom is the key to a good life, personal connection is what leads yo

10 Life Lessons from Lucy

Life was given to us a billion years ago. Now you know what you can do with it. Ignorance brings chaos, not knowledge We humans are more concerned with having than with being. What we learnt that one plus one equals to two is incorrect I am everywhere We never really die When things move really fast, they are not moving at all Humans only use the most 10% of their brain.  Imagine if they can use 100% of their brain, interesting things will happen Time is the only true unit of measure, it gives proof to the existence of matter.  Without time, we don't exist The best way to do with the knowledge that you accumulate is to pass it on "Lucy" is a movie by Scarlet Johansson. By Andy Ng , more quotes at: One plus one is never two How to use more than 10% of your brain The 7 lessons from 2,600 years ago Believe nothing and yet believe everything Dependent Origination made easy A faster way to problem solving

The 7 Fetters of Highly Effective People

It pains me to see some people that are so talented and yet they did not achieve much.  In fact they have what we called 7 Fetters of Highly Effective People.  Face the fetters and take action today to remove them and you will be on a different path.  The 7 Fetters are: Having No Goals.  Alas, this is so old-fashioned but really if you have no goals, you will just be living your life on a roller coaster - many ups and downs but you end up where you begin - no improvement at all.   Having Too 'Ambitious' (Unrealistic) Goals.  This is the opposite of Having No Goals, but is more than that. These people are unrealistic, they are going for the moon when right now they can't even swim in the Pacific Ocean. Such people are not grounded, they live in dreams and often they are impractical. Having No Friends.  No man can succeed alone and friends can be a great leverage at the right time. Some people said that it is better to have a few enemies but many friends than to have