Test on Are You Living as SuperME or Stuck in Survival-Me?

‘Am I Living as my SuperMe… or stuck in my Survival-Me?’

For each statements, score from 1 to 5. (1 = Not true at all, 5 = Very true)

Survival-Me Statements

I often feel like I’m running on empty — busy, but unfulfilled.
I make choices based on fear — fear of losing out, fear of what others think, fear of making mistakes.
I feel disconnected from what truly matters to me.
I say “yes” too often, even when I mean “no,” just to keep the peace or avoid conflict.
I measure my worth by achievements, titles, or approval.

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SuperMe Statements

I wake up with a sense of purpose and clarity about who I am becoming.
I feel emotionally grounded and can return to peace quickly, even during chaos.
I express love freely — to my work, people around me, and myself.
I am deeply grateful, not just when things go well, but even in life’s detours.
I make decisions from alignment, not pressure

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Reflect

Now, look at both scores.
Which one is higher?
Where are you currently living from — Survival-Me or SuperMe? Share your answers in the comments below. Thank you

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