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When Do Our Inner Wars End? Not the wars in the world. But the wars within us. The war between doing what is right… and doing what feels right. Between loving… and wanting to be loved. Between giving… and taking. These wars do not end by winning. They end by understanding . Inside every conflict, there are not two enemies. There are two needs. The need to be true. And the need to be seen. The need to give. And the need to receive. Most people choose one side and fight the other. That is why the war never ends. But with Love Intelligence (LQ) , something changes. You stop choosing sides. You start integrating . You do what is right with compassion.  You give without losing yourself. You receive without guilt. You love without needing to control how you are loved back. This is where the war softens. Not because everything becomes perfect. But because you are no longer divided within yourself. In Dao De Jing ,  Laozi reminds us: What i...

Human beings like to fight even though they know very well from past history that fighting never work for any parties.  Just look at the devastation World Wars I and II and the on-going wars today and you'll realize how silly we are. Psychologists said that fighting is an animal instinct, for people have this scarcity mentality and they are too attached to the notion of having things and that's why we cannot let go. Yet wisdom from over 2,000 years of ancient civilisation including Sun Tzu Art of War, Zhuang Zi, Confucius, Lao Zi and Sidharta Gotama 'Pali Canon' told us that at the end of the day, the winner is the one that wins EVEN WHEN HE DOESN'T FIGHT .  In fact smart companies like Facebook, Twitter, Google and Apple know and practised these No-War Strategies.  In particular, Facebook is a latecomer in social media but they did not go out to fight head-on with pioneers like MySpace and Friendster.  Instead Facebook created a perfect photo-sharing and time-l...