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Do You Marry the Woman You Love, or Love the Woman You Marry?

Most people spend their lives chasing the first and settling for the second. But both approaches are incomplete because they rely on luck or willpower . If you want a relationship that is truly "unbeatable," you need to stop choosing a side and start applying LQ (Love Intelligence). The IQ and EQ Approach: Why They Fail In my book, Love Intelligence , I explain that most people approach marriage with their IQ or EQ: The IQ Approach: You treat marriage like a contract. You "calculate" compatibility. You look at status, background, and "logic." It’s efficient, but it’s cold. The EQ Approach: You "manage" the relationship. You use communication tactics to avoid fights. It’s better, but it’s often just a way to keep the peace. The LQ Solution: Love is a Verb, Not a Result Love Intelligence teaches us that the question itself is flawed. In the world of LQ, "Love" is not something that happens to you; it is a frequency you generate . 1. M...