Most people spend their lives chasing the first and settling for the second. But both approaches are incomplete because they rely on luck or willpower . If you want a relationship that is truly "unbeatable," you need to stop choosing a side and start applying LQ (Love Intelligence). The IQ and EQ Approach: Why They Fail In my book, Love Intelligence , I explain that most people approach marriage with their IQ or EQ: The IQ Approach: You treat marriage like a contract. You "calculate" compatibility. You look at status, background, and "logic." It’s efficient, but it’s cold. The EQ Approach: You "manage" the relationship. You use communication tactics to avoid fights. It’s better, but it’s often just a way to keep the peace. The LQ Solution: Love is a Verb, Not a Result Love Intelligence teaches us that the question itself is flawed. In the world of LQ, "Love" is not something that happens to you; it is a frequency you generate . 1. M...
by Andy Ng at www.asiatrainers.com (Sales & Management Training) Tel: 65-93672286 Email: andythecoach@gmail.com