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Do SuperME tell lies so as not to hurt?

How can SuperME tell the truth without hurting people?  Do SuperME tell lies so as not to hurt? A SuperME, as defined in SuperME Unleashed by Dr. Vivian Passion Koh, does not lie to avoid hurting others — but also doesn’t weaponize truth. The SuperME way is truth with Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG). Here’s how: 1. Purpose: Why Are You Telling This Truth? A SuperME doesn’t speak to prove, shame, or control. Instead, they ask: “Is this truth shared to uplift, heal or realign… or is it to defend, attack or escape?” Purpose shapes the tone. A harsh truth shared without purpose becomes a sword. But with purpose, it becomes a bridge. 2. Love: How Can I Deliver This With Compassion? Love is not silence — it is sensitivity. A SuperME shares difficult truths by: Listening first Speaking gently and with care Acknowledging emotions (theirs and yours) Example: Instead of “You’re not pulling your weight,” say:  “I care about our shared goals, and I noticed you’ve been quieter lately. I...

Don't Believe What You Were Told: The 7 Myths of Life

A myth is something that we think is true because most people believe or wish that it is true. In reality a myth is just a lie .  There is a market for myths because people like to have a better world. The following are the 7 Most Common Myths in Life:  Newspaper is about history and not about news at all .  A news is something that is very new and has not been over yet. So all newspapers should be renamed Historypapers because they report what has happened in the past. In fact they are not history but distorted history, for they reflect the views of the people controlling the media.  In Singapore, there is this free newspaper called "TODAY", and this 'newspaper' is definitely not about today and should be renamed 'YESTERDAY'.  On the other hand, what you do now is news because you are in the creation process of creating something new.   Your Bank Savings Account is Actually a Depleting Savings Account .  This is because the very low interest that...