How can SuperME tell the truth without hurting people? Do SuperME tell lies so as not to hurt? A SuperME, as defined in SuperME Unleashed by Dr. Vivian Passion Koh, does not lie to avoid hurting others — but also doesn’t weaponize truth. The SuperME way is truth with Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG). Here’s how: 1. Purpose: Why Are You Telling This Truth? A SuperME doesn’t speak to prove, shame, or control. Instead, they ask: “Is this truth shared to uplift, heal or realign… or is it to defend, attack or escape?” Purpose shapes the tone. A harsh truth shared without purpose becomes a sword. But with purpose, it becomes a bridge. 2. Love: How Can I Deliver This With Compassion? Love is not silence — it is sensitivity. A SuperME shares difficult truths by: Listening first Speaking gently and with care Acknowledging emotions (theirs and yours) Example: Instead of “You’re not pulling your weight,” say: “I care about our shared goals, and I noticed you’ve been quieter lately. I...
by Andy Ng at www.asiatrainers.com (Sales & Management Training) Tel: 65-93672286 Email: andythecoach@gmail.com