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Why Am I Promoting this dialect movie  Dear You ? People often ask me, "You are a leadership and management trainer. Why do you keep recommending the movie Dear You ?" The answer is simple.  I am not promoting a movie. I am promoting some of the finest values of Chinese culture that deserve to be passed on to future generations. Dear You reminded me of three timeless values that many of us have gradually forgotten. 1. Qing Yi, Not Just Romance Many people think the movie is a love story.  I don't. To me, it is a story about Qing Yi (情义) . Nan Zhi helped Mu Sheng during his lifetime. Even after Mu Sheng passed away, she continued writing letters and sending money to his wife in China for nearly twenty years. What makes this extraordinary is that Nan Zhi never fell in love with Mu Sheng. Their relationship was never romantic. It was built on trust, responsibility and Qing Yi. Today, many people believe that a man and a woman cannot have a deep relationship without romance....

Why has *Dear You* become such an extraordinary phenomenon? People are not simply watching the movie. They feel they have a stake in it. The film spreads almost entirely through word of mouth. Many people return to the cinema to watch it a second or even third time. That rarely happens because of clever marketing. It happens because people see part of their own lives reflected on the screen. They remember someone they once loved. Someone they lost. Someone they never had the chance to thank. Someone they wish they had spent more time with. The movie is not telling someone else's story. It is reminding us of our own. That is why audiences cry. Not because the story is sad, but because it awakens feelings that have been buried beneath the busyness of modern life. Love,  Loss,  Distance,  Care,  Gratitude,  Connection,  Courage. These are not just emotions. They are what make us human. In a world where AI is becoming increasingly intelligent, we often ask what...

Looks Fade, Wealth Fluctuates, but Only One Thing Determines How Far a Relationship Will Go We live in a world that often teaches us to choose partners based on short-term indicators. Is he attractive? Is she successful? How much does he earn? Will he make me look good in front of others? These questions may matter at the beginning of a relationship, but they become far less important when life unfolds over decades. Because every meaningful relationship is, in reality, a long game. And in every long game, the rules are different. In short-term games, people can pretend. They can impress. They can hide their flaws and exaggerate their strengths. After all, if there is no expectation of a future together, there is little incentive to be completely authentic. But long-term relationships reveal everything. Time has a way of exposing character. Pressure has a way of revealing integrity. Difficulties have a way of uncovering what lies beneath the surface. The person who appeared perfect duri...

Love Intelligence is simple: Care. Courage. Connection. Yet many relationships become confusing, chaotic, and even deceptive because these three qualities are used wrongly. 1. When Care loses its boundaries, it becomes control. "I only want what's best for you" becomes an attempt to tell the other person how to live. 2, When Courage loses its wisdom, it becomes attack. "I'm just being honest" becomes criticism, blame, and hurtful words. 3. When Connection loses its independence, it becomes dependency. "I can't live without you" becomes fear, clinginess, and the loss of self. This is why many relationships suffer. Care turns into control. Courage turns into conflict. Connection turns into dependency. And love slowly turns into confusion, chaos, and cheating—not necessarily cheating with another person, but cheating ourselves by hiding our true feelings and pretending everything is fine. True Love Intelligence is different. It is: Care without co...

Why I Chose Love Intelligence People often tell me: "Andy, don't waste time on topics that don't make money." They say the hottest topics today are AI, TikTok marketing, automation, and the latest technology. I understand where they are coming from. In fact, I teach AI myself. But after years of studying business, leadership, human behavior, Chinese wisdom, and technology, I have come to a simple conclusion: Behind every successful application of AI, marketing, leadership, sales, or management lies one invisible force: Love Intelligence. AI can generate content. TikTok can generate views. Marketing can generate leads. But none of them can generate trust. Only people can. And trust is built through Care, Courage, and Connection. That is why I continue to focus on Love Intelligence. Not because it is the easiest path. Not because it is the most popular topic. But because I believe it is the most important one. The more I study Love Intelligence, the mo...

Service excellence is collapsing everywhere. Customers are more demanding, staff are overwhelmed, and complaints are rising. If your team is still relying on cold, rigid SOPs to handle tension, you are burning out your people and losing your customers. In a landscape of tighter budgets and lean teams, pressure isn't slowing down—it's increasing. Yet one truth remains completely unchanged: People will forget what you say, but they will never forget how you made them feel. Think about a standard frontline meltdown. A customer is shouting, a team member is getting defensive, and the entire atmosphere turns toxic. Traditional customer service training tells your staff to "follow the script." But scripts don't calm human anger, they infuriate it. When a Singapore healthcare frontline team faced skyrocketing friction, they threw out the rigid scripts and activated Love Intelligence (LQ) . By s hifting from "doing service" to truly being of service through hea...

For a long time, people believed intelligence meant logic, memory, and reasoning. Who could calculate faster. Who could analyze better. Who could solve problems more efficiently. But AI is now doing all of that, faster than most humans ever could. So the real question becomes: If machines can reason, what exactly makes human intelligence unique? The uncomfortable truth is this: Much of what we call “intelligence” in human society is actually the ability to navigate, influence, predict, and sometimes outsmart other minds. A large part of human intelligence is not pure truth. It is strategy. That is why deception sits so close to intelligence. The smarter someone is, the more capable they are of manipulating perception. People can use intelligence to: persuade without sincerity perform without authenticity signal virtue without living it gain trust without deserving it And now AI is beginning to do the same. AI can mimic empathy. Simulate confidence. Generate...

A parent lied about an address to get a child into a “better” school. Why? Because of love? Yes. But also because of fear. Fear of losing out. Fear that “if I don’t do this, my child will fall behind.” This is where most people get it wrong. They think: “If I’m doing this for my child, it must be right.” But Love Intelligence is not just about intention. It is about alignment between care, courage, and truth . In this case: There is care (wanting the best for the child) But there is no courage (to accept the system, or find another path) And there is a break in integrity and connection (lying, bending rules) So this is not Love Intelligence at its highest. This is love mixed with fear . Real Love Intelligence would look different: It would ask: “What kind of example am I setting for my child?” “Am I teaching them to win… or to win at all costs?” “Will this decision make them stronger, or just more dependent on shortcuts?” Sometimes the hardest tr...

Love Intelligence is a practical and provocative guide to succeeding in a world where intelligence alone is no longer enough. The core idea is simple but powerful: Love Intelligence (LQ) defined through Care, Courage, and Connection (3Cs) is the missing link between intention and real-world results. While IQ helps you think and EQ helps you feel, LQ determines whether people trust you, follow you, and do business with you. The book argues that in an AI-driven world, where information is cheap and abundant, trust becomes the ultimate currency. And trust is built not through techniques, but through genuine care, the courage to act and speak truthfully, and the ability to create meaningful human connections. The author Andy Ng challenges the reader to rethink success: it is not about pushing harder, competing more, or mastering more tools. Instead, it is about aligning who you are with what you do. When LQ is applied, transactions become relationships, ideas turn into value, and value na...

We all want to become better. Stronger. Smarter. More successful. That is where SuperME Unleashed begins:  helping you move from survival… to your higher self. But here is the quiet truth many people don’t see: Becoming your SuperME is not the final destination. It is the beginning. Because when you truly grow, something changes inside you. You become more aware of others. More patient. More real. You stop proving. You start understanding. You stop competing. You start connecting. That is when Love Intelligence (LQ) is born. Not from theory. But from transformation. When you become your SuperME, you naturally begin to live with: Care — because you see people more clearly Courage — because you are no longer afraid to be real Connection — because you value relationships over ego So the journey is simple, but powerful: You don’t chase love first. You become someone who can give it. And when you do… Love is no longer something you look for. It becomes something you live. That is the re...

When there is no love, there is no life. A person may still be breathing, working, earning, and performing. But without love, that person is only existing, not truly living. That is why Love Intelligence matters. Because Love Intelligence is not just about love in a soft or romantic sense. It is made up of Care, Courage, and Connection . Without Care , people become cold. Without Courage , people become fearful. Without Connection , people become isolated. So when a person lacks Love Intelligence, they do not just lack love. They also lack the courage to speak, to act, to stand up, to forgive, to try again, and to live fully. Why? Because courage often comes from love. You fight because you love. You protect because you care. You speak because the relationship matters. You rise again because something in life is still worth living for. Without love, courage becomes weak. Without courage, life becomes small. So yes, this is the deeper truth: No love, no life. No Lo...

People say, Andy, you are a corporate speaker and trainer coach for over 29 yeas, why talk about love? Isn't this too soft and not relevant for business? That’s a fair question. I’ve heard it many times. “Andy, you’ve been a corporate speaker and trainer for nearly three decades. Why talk about love? Isn’t that too soft for business?” Let me answer directly. If love were just romance, emotion, or sentimentality, then yes, it would be irrelevant to business. But that is not what I mean by love. When I talk about Love Intelligence, I am talking about the disciplined ability to build trust, inspire courage, and create value through human alignment. Tell me, what business succeeds without trust? You can have strategy without trust. You can have technology without trust. You can even have funding without trust. But without trust, nothing sustains. Deals collapse. Teams fracture. Talents leave. Partnerships weaken. For 29 years in corporate training and leadership development,...

This book addresses three very real challenges: First: In the AI era, how do you remain irreplaceable? As technology grows stronger, human value no longer lies in “working faster,” but in the ability to influence, unite, and mobilize people. Love Intelligence is precisely the core capability that AI cannot replicate. Second: Why doesn’t effort always lead to reward? Many capable individuals remain stuck, not because of lack of skill, but because of relationships, trust, emotions, and timing. This book clearly explains that the true bottleneck is often not competence, but misapplied love, caring in the wrong way, at the wrong time, or without clarity. Third: How do you turn goodwill into results instead of exhaustion? Love Intelligence is not weakness. It is strength with boundaries, principles, and strategy. This book provides a clear framework that allows you to lead with warmth,  and still deliver measurable outcomes. If you care about: • Long-term career competitiven...

How Love Intelligence (LQ) Came About, and Why It Emerged in the AI Era Love Intelligence (LQ) did not begin as a concept. It emerged as a pattern, observed repeatedly over decades of work, teaching, and lived experience. After writing eight books on leadership, strategy, Yijing, and human development, including co-writing SuperME Unleashed with Dr Vivian Passion Koh, one truth became impossible to ignore: No matter how smart people were, how strategic they became, or how powerful their tools were, their outcomes were always limited by how they related to themselves and others. That limitation was not intellectual. It was human. The Invisible Thread Across 8 Books Across topics as diverse as: Sun Tzu’s Art of War Yijing decision-making leadership strategy wealth and influence purpose and inner mastery The same invisible thread kept appearing: People failed not because they lacked intelligence They failed because they lacked trust, courage, and connection People succeeded not because th...

What Connection Really Is — and Why It Is the Outcome of Love Intelligence In the previous two articles, we looked at Care and Courage. We saw that when you ask questions without care, your questions become stupid — not because of the words, but because people feel you are not truly interested. We also saw that courage without care often backfires. You may be honest, but people ignore you because the truth was delivered without safety. Now let’s look at the third C — Connection. Many people misunderstand connection. They think connection is about: how long they’ve known someone whether they worked together before family ties or blood relationships shared history or common background But we all know this is not true. You can be related by blood and still feel distant. You can work with someone for years and still feel disconnected. You can meet someone once and feel deeply understood. This tells us one thing: Connection has nothing to do with status, history, or proximity. What Connecti...

What Is Real Courage — and Why Courage Without Love Intelligence Breaks Relationships In the previous article , we examined what CARE truly means in Love Intelligence. We saw that when questions are asked without care, they become stupid questions, not because of the words, but because of the intention behind them. People feel it immediately, and they respond by ignoring you. Today, let’s talk about COURAGE. Many people misunderstand courage. They think courage means: speaking bluntly being brutally honest saying whatever is on their mind “telling it like it is” pushing through resistance That is not courage. That is ego disguised as bravery. Real courage is not loud. Real courage is anchored. Why Courage Without Love Intelligence Is Dangerous Courage without Love Intelligence often destroys relationships because it lacks care and awareness. You may be telling the truth, but: you ignore timing you ignore emotional readiness you ignore context you ignore the other person’s state And whe...