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When people reach the end of life, their regrets are rarely about money, status, or achievements. They are about love not lived, courage not taken, and connection not honoured. That is why the Top 5 Regrets, observed by Bronnie Ware, are in fact a lack of Love Intelligence. 1. “I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself.” This regret is fundamentally a Courage issue. People live according to: expectations, fear of disapproval, and social pressure Love Intelligence trains courage that is quiet but firm: the courage to listen inwardly and live authentically. LQ in action: You regularly ask: “Is this my life — or someone else’s expectation?” People with high LQ don’t wait until old age to reclaim their life. They do it early, gently, and consistently. 2. “I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.” This is a Care failure — not for work, but for life. People overwork not because they love work, but because they neglect caring for family, relationships, health and presence Love Intellige...

At the end of life, people don’t regret lack of success. They regret the lack of love lived. Love Intelligence (LQ) prevents regret by strengthening: 1. Care To live a life true to yourself, not expectations. To prioritise people, not just performance. 2. Courage To express what matters before it’s too late. To choose authenticity over approval. 3. Connection To stay close to friends, family, and yourself. To remember that happiness is allowed. When Care, Courage, and Connection guide daily choices, there is nothing left to regret. Love Intelligence is not about feeling good. It’s about living right. Andy Ng Author of Love Intelligence & 爱的智慧