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Let me start with a question: When was the last time you won someone’s heart — without fighting for it? Most people think The Art of War is about battle, competition, and conflict. But after studying and teaching it for over twenty years, I discovered something Sun Tzu never said directly — That every true warrior wins through love , not aggression. Years ago, when I was in sales, I tried to convince people. I fought for every deal: more calls, more pressure, more follow-up. One day, I lost my biggest client not because I did something wrong, but because I didn’t understand something deeper. Later I reread The Art of War,  slowly, line by line, and one sentence struck me: “The greatest victory is that which requires no battle.” That’s when it hit me — What Sun Tzu called strategy , I now call love in action . Because real love, like real strategy, seeks harmony, not control. It listens, understands, and positions itself so that both sides win. That idea became th...