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Care about the Difference

“Why are you so different from me?” This is what most people feel the moment they meet someone who doesn’t think, act, or behave like them. I am careful. The other person is careless. I plan. They improvise. And immediately, the mind wants to judge. But this is exactly where Love Intelligence begins. Care comes first. Care means we don’t rush to label the difference as right or wrong. We become curious instead of critical. We care enough to ask, “What shaped this person to be this way?” Courage comes next. It takes courage to accept that people do not need to be like us to be valuable. Difference does not threaten us — insecurity does. When we are strong inside, we can allow others to be who they are. Then comes Connection. Connection does not mean agreement. It means alignment at a deeper level. Two very different people can still be connected if they: Share a common goal Hold similar values Want the same outcome, even if they walk different paths When we focus only on differences, se...