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People look at me at sixty-two. Still active. Still speaking. Still training. Still looking for business. They ask me, “Andy, when are you going to stop? Isn’t AI doing your job better? AI can create content, deliver content, translate content into 120 languages. Do you still think you’re relevant?” I always smile. I don’t argue. I ask them one simple question: “Do you love your child… or do you just want your child?” Because wanting someone and loving someone… are two different worlds. Let me share a small story. Years ago, my youngest son was at his naughtiest stage. He refused instructions, talked back, challenged everything. I would scold him, threaten him, push him harder. And the more I pushed, the more rebellious he became. Then one day, after a meditation course, something shifted in me. I looked at him — really looked — and for just one second, I held him in my heart with love instead of frustration. Immediately, he sensed it. He asked, “Daddy… what’s wrong?” I said, “Nothing ...

Everyone is talking about AI. People fear losing jobs, losing relevance, losing their edge. But let me tell you something: The greatest risk today is not AI. The greatest risk is a human heart that forgets how to love . Because when love dies, energy drops, creativity disappears, and life becomes mechanical. Not long ago, someone asked me, “Andy, why do your students keep returning to your classes even after 20 years?” My answer shocked them. They don’t come for the content. They come for connection . They come to feel seen . They come to feel loved . Adults are not hungry for information. They are hungry for inspiration, courage and hope. And only love can deliver that. Let me give you the core of Love Intelligence. 1. Care — See people, not just problems. When you show genuine care, people trust you.  I conduct lessons even when the attendance falls below the minimum attendance, and I hardly make money from it.  2. Courage — Say the truth with kindnes...

Many people today are worried about the future. AI is getting smarter. The world is moving faster. Stress is rising everywhere. And people ask me, “Andy… in a world like this, what can we still rely on?” My answer is very simple. There is only one thing that has never failed humanity in 5,000 years. Only one energy that can calm the mind, strengthen the heart, and transform a life. Only one power that even AI can never replace. That power is love,  but not the romantic love we see in movies. I am talking about Love Intelligence … the skill of leading your life with Care, Courage and Connection. Let me share a very personal moment. In 2023, when I was going through one of the most difficult seasons of my life, emotionally and financially, I met a teacher who asked me a question I will never forget. “Andy, when did you stop loving your own future?” I was shocked. I had spent so much time worrying about the future… that I had forgotten to love it. That question woke ...

In today’s AI-driven world, IQ, EQ, and AQ can all be replicated or enhanced by technology , but Love Intelligence (LQ) cannot. IQ (Intelligence) AI already surpasses human IQ in: processing power memory calculation analysis Anything based on IQ becomes automated. EQ (Emotional Recognition) AI can simulate empathy: detect emotions mirror tone generate supportive responses But simulation is not the same as sincerity. AQ (Adaptability) AI adapts instantly to: new data new patterns new environments AI learns faster than humans. But AI cannot do LQ — and never will. Love Intelligence (LQ) is the one capacity that requires a human heart , not algorithms. LQ involves: genuine care real trust moral courage human presence meaningful connection emotional safety intuitive understanding These are not skills. They are human intentions , and no machine has intentions. Summary IQ = replaced by AI EQ = simulated by AI...

  Love Intelligence LQ Success in the AI Era 1. What is Love Intelligence? Why LQ Is Your Secret to Success ·        The real formula behind wealth: Love → Trust → Value → Money ·        Why LQ is stronger than IQ, EQ, and AQ in the AI era ·        The 3Cs of Love Intelligence:  Care, Courage, Connection ·        How LQ helps you see clearer, act braver, and lead better 2. How to Re-place AI, Not Be Replaced by AI — Using LQ ·        The ONE thing AI can never replicate ·        How LQ protects your job and future ·        The LQ strategy for becoming  irreplaceable ·        How to work  with  AI instead of against it ·        The 7 tasks humans will always do better than mac...

When Robert Cialdini’s 6 Principles of Influence Meet Love Intelligence (LQ) Have you ever felt this before? You speak with logic, but people don’t listen. You give good advice, but your team doesn’t follow. The more you explain, the more they resist. It’s not because you lack ability. It’s because you haven’t tapped into the real force that makes people listen, trust, and follow. And that force is not IQ. It’s not EQ. It is Love Intelligence — LQ . When I combined Cialdini’s Influence with Love Intelligence In my 29 years of training, I’ve studied almost every influence model out there. The most famous, of course, is Robert Cialdini’s 6 Principles of Influence : Reciprocity Commitment & Consistency Social Proof Authority Liking Scarcity These principles are powerful. But I discovered something important: Without love, influence becomes manipulation. With love, influence becomes inspiration. People are not persuaded by pressure. People are move...

  爱的智慧 3C：关心、勇气、连接 —— 领导者在新时代最重要的能力 在人工智能迅速发展的时代，人们常说未来属于掌握工具的人。但我认为，真正属于未来的，是掌握 爱的智慧（Love Intelligence） 的人。 爱的智慧不只是一种情感，它是一种力量，一种领导力，一种可以提升团队表现、改善关系、增强信任的实际能力。而爱的智慧核心，就是 3C ： 关心（Care） 勇气（Courage） 连接（Connect） 一个领导者能否运用这 3C，往往决定团队是否愿意追随、学习与成长。 下面，让我们用一个真实可行的例子来说明： 一个老板，如何在日常管理中运用 3C？ 一、Care 关心：人不是机器，他们需要被看见 关心，不是溺爱，也不是讨好。 真正的关心，是让团队感受到： “老板不是只看结果，老板在乎我这个人。” 例子： 老板看到团队最近加班频密，并没有马上问：“什么时候完成？” 而是先问一句： “大家最近很辛苦吧？身体还好吗？有没有什么我可以帮忙的？” 这看似一句简单的话，却能让团队瞬间放下戒心，感到被理解、被看见。 关心让团队产生安全感； 安全感让团队发挥最好。 二、Courage 勇气：敢于讲真话，也敢于让团队变好 勇气的爱，是“硬的爱”。 不是骂，而是敢于指出问题，敢于帮助团队成长。 例子： 有位员工表现下降，老板不是用情绪责备，而是用爱指出问题： “我知道你有能力，你以前的表现很好。现在我更希望你找回最好的自己。如果你需要支持，我随时在。” 这不是客套，而是勇气。 勇气去讲真话。 勇气去拉人一把。 勇气让团队变得更强。 三、Connect 连接：建立信任、方向与共同使命 连接不是开会，而是让团队感觉“我们在一起做一件有意义的事”。 例子： 老板定期与团队开一个短短 10 分钟的“连接会”， 内容不是工作，而是： 最近哪一件事值得感恩？ 最近谁表现得很好，让你很欣赏？ 未来一周，我们一起想完成哪一件对客户有意义的事？ 这种“连接”，会让团队产生一种力量： “我不是孤军作战，我在一个有温度、有价值的团队里。” 有连接，才有愿景； 有愿景，团队才会愿意一起冲。 结语：3C 是新时代领导者的超能力 在 AI 能替代技能、程序、流程的时代， 唯有 关心、勇气、...

How a Little-Known Company, iJooz, Used Love Intelligence to Go Global Most people think expansion requires huge capital, aggressive marketing, or a famous founder. But sometimes, a company grows because it understands something much deeper, something that money cannot buy. iJooz, the orange-juice vending machine created in Singapore, is one such example. On the surface, it looks like a simple business: fresh oranges, squeezed on the spot, in a bright orange machine. But beneath it lies one of the best real-life examples of Love Intelligence (LQ) in action. Their success didn’t come from being the cheapest or the biggest. It came from how deeply they understood, cared for, and connected with the people they served. Let’s break down how this small Singapore company quietly expanded from HDB heartlands to Japan, South Korea, the Middle East, Europe, and beyond — powered by LQ. 1. They Loved the Customer Enough to Solve a Real Problem Most vending machines sell sugar. iJooz sold health, f...

People hold on to old versions of us because it’s safer for them. It’s familiar. It doesn’t threaten their worldview. They see you where you were, not where you are. I get this all the time. People still ask me, “Andy, when is your next WeChat course?” They forgot that I’ve already moved on, expanded, grown, written new books, entered new spaces like Love Intelligence, Yijing leadership, and corporate transformation. At first, I felt frustrated. But later, I understood one thing: People are not resisting you. They are resisting the discomfort of updating their mental picture. That is where the 3Cs become so powerful. Care Care means we don’t fight their outdated perception. We don’t attack it. We understand that they only remember the version of us that once helped them. So I care enough to let them take time. Instead of saying, “I don’t do WeChat anymore,” I say, “Thank you for remembering that season of my work. Today my focus has shifted to Love Intelligence and leadership transform...