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How Love Intelligence Creates Wealth in the AI Era

AI Is Replacing Jobs Faster Than You Think. What Will Protect Yours ? AI doesn’t take jobs. It replaces people who rely only on skills, logic, and speed . What AI cannot replace is human influence, trust, emotional leadership, and meaning . That is why the real wealth in the AI era is not technical skill — it is Love Intelligence (LQ) . How Love Intelligence Creates Wealth in the AI Era The One Human Capability That Ensures Your Survival 📅 7 February | 9.30 – 11.00 AM 🌐 Live Online via Zoom 🎟 Only $19.90 (Includes FREE $38 Love Intelligence Book) 🚨 Limited to 20 seats Why This Session Is Different This is not a motivational talk. This is not a tech tutorial. This is a practical human survival strategy for the AI age. While others teach: more tools more techniques more productivity hacks This session teaches you how to stay valuable when machines get smarter than humans . What You Will Experience (Not Just Learn) ✔ Your Personal LQ Score A 10-ques...

How a High-LQ Person Becomes Wealthy in the Fire Horse Year

How a High-LQ Person Becomes Wealthy in the Fire Horse Year The Fire Horse year rewards speed, courage, and visibility . But it punishes impulse, ego, and emotional reaction . Most people will move fast. High-LQ people will move well . That difference is where wealth is created. 1. Use Fire to Create Momentum — Not Chaos (CARE) Fire Horse energy amplifies stress, ambition, and conflict. Low-LQ people burn bridges. High-LQ people build trust under pressure . Wealth strategy: protect key relationships calm anxious partners, clients, teams become the person others rely on when emotions run high In Fire years, money flows toward stability . People pay those who make them feel safe. 2. Make Fewer but Braver Moves (COURAGE) Fire Horse tempts people to: overtrade overexpand overpromise chase every opportunity High-LQ courage is not reckless. It is selective . Wealth strategy: choose one or two big moves say no to ego battles walk away from ...

How to Get Everything Without 'Love to Fight to Win'

When You Stop Chasing, Everything Starts Flowing Dressing well isn’t to attract love. It’s to honour the happy version of yourself. Making money isn’t to prove anything. It’s to earn the freedom to say no. And the moment your face no longer screams “I want, I lack, I need” — your magnetic field begins to align. Many people feel stuck between love and money. Relationships feel forced. Opportunities feel hard-earned. They try harder. Push more. Want more. Yet nothing truly flows. What they don’t realise is this: It’s not about effort. It’s about inner order. In Confucian wisdom, this is called Zheng Xin Cheng Yi:  align the heart, clarify intention, cultivate the self, and flow follows. When the heart is calm, energy stabilises. When energy stabilises, presence strengthens. When presence is strong, people and resources move toward you naturally. This is Love Intelligence. LQ is not desire. It is inner fullness. Care without neediness. Courage without force. Connection without chasing...

The World is a Mirror of Love Intelligence

The World Is a Mirror. What Are You Projecting? The world is the biggest mirror you’ll ever face. The people you meet reflect your energy. The money you earn reflects your value. And what we call “luck” is rarely luck at all. People ask me why some attract great relationships while others struggle. Why some attract opportunities, money, and support — while others keep pushing but stay stuck? It’s tempting to blame timing, connections, or fate. But the pattern is always the same. What shows up outside is a projection of what’s operating inside. “Romantic luck” is not about love. It’s relational attraction . “Financial luck” is not about money. It’s resource attraction . Both follow the same rule: 👉 They depend on the capacity and magnetic field of the person . If your inner container is small, unstable, or fearful, even good people and good opportunities can’t stay. This is where Love Intelligence (LQ) changes everything. LQ is not being nice. It is the ability to ...

The Power of Your Mind Reframed Through Love Intelligence (LQ)

The Power of Your Mind Reframed Through Love Intelligence (LQ) In today’s AI-driven world, we are told that intelligence is everything — data, algorithms, fast thinking, accurate models. But what if your greatest power does not lie in what you know ? What if it lies in how you use your mind to shape reality, relationships, and destiny ? This is the essence of Love Intelligence (LQ),  the strategic use of the mind with heart, courage, and connection . 1. Your Mind is an Instrument, Not Your Identity Ancient wisdom from the Yijing (Book of Changes) reminds us that the mind is powerful, but it is still only a tool, not the self itself. When we identify with every thought, we become trapped in: looping patterns judgment comparison fear of what’s next LQ teaches you to observe your mind without becoming owned by it . When your mind becomes present-aware instead of reactive, you step out of fear and into choice. Your thoughts become weather, not your ruler. 2....

What's LQ Got to Do With Me?

  Why Love Intelligence Matters in the Age of AI “What’s this got to do with me?” That is often the first reaction when people hear the word love in a business or leadership context. Love, after all, seems far removed from performance, productivity, or profit. Yet this question itself reveals a deeper misunderstanding of how results are actually created. For decades, we have been taught that success comes from intelligence, hard work, strategy, and now technology. In the age of artificial intelligence, that belief has intensified. We are told to upskill, reskill, and optimise faster than ever before. But look more closely at what is happening in organisations today. Why do people with similar skills produce vastly different outcomes? Why do some teams thrive under pressure while others collapse into conflict and burnout? Why do capable professionals stall, while others keep attracting opportunities? The difference is not competence. It is human state . Every outcome begin...

3-min Speech: Who Can You Trust?

Let me ask you a dangerous question. In the age of AI, when everyone sounds like an expert, who do you actually trust? Today, with one prompt, anyone can sound intelligent. Anyone can create slides, frameworks, even speeches. AI has not just created more information. It has created a crisis of trust. If you look at human evolution, we started with very little information. Back then, trust was simple. Whoever had information was an expert. We listened because we had no choice. Today, we have gone from no information to over-information. AI gives everyone answers instantly. Everyone looks confident. Everyone looks right. So the question is no longer, who has the best information? The question is, can this person actually do what they say? As speakers and trainers, this hits us directly. Our audience is no longer impressed by knowledge. They are quietly asking one thing. Can I trust you? This is where Yijing gives us a powerful insight. Yijing teaches that in times of great change, virtue...

Most People Spend their Entire Lives Training to Win at Standardised Work

Most people spend their lives training to win at standardised work. Clear rules. Known answers. Measurable benchmarks. That is exactly the kind of work AI devalues first. What remains valuable now is work that is: – messy – human – ambiguous – dependent on trust – shaped by judgment, intuition, and meaning Grades matter less. IQ matters less. Pure intelligence is becoming cheap. AI is the engine. Humans must provide the direction. The winners won’t be the smartest. They will be the ones who can: • define the right problem • ask better questions • architect systems • lead humans and machines together When intelligence becomes cheap, thinking is no longer the advantage. Meaning is the advantage. Direction is the advantage. Leadership is the advantage. That’s why Love Intelligence (LQ) matters. LQ gives us meaning when answers multiply. Direction when options explode. Leadership when expertise alone is no longer enough. With LQ, you don’t compete with AI — you lead it. And that’s why, in ...

Become The Person All Look Up To

Most people spend their entire lives training to win at standardised work. Clear rules.  Known answers.  Predictable outcomes.  Measurable benchmarks. Ironically, that is exactly the category of work AI devalues the fastest. AI is exceptionally good at: structured tasks known problems repeatable analysis standardised outputs The work that remains valuable today is the opposite. It is: not fully knowable in advance messy and ambiguous political and human dependent on trust and judgment shaped by intuition and creativity built on meaning, not just answers That is the new frontier of value. As this shift accelerates, several uncomfortable truths emerge. Grades matter less. IQ benchmarks matter less. Pure technical mastery has a shorter shelf life. What matters more is: tool literacy human judgment sense-making ethical discernment the ability to work with uncertainty AI becomes the engine. Humans become the direction. The winners will not be the smartest people in the room. T...

Is AI Replacing Human or Machine Tasks?

This fear is real — and it is rational. But it is also incomplete. AI is not replacing humans. AI is replacing tasks, roles, and behaviours that have already lost their human edge. This is exactly where Love Intelligence (LQ) becomes the stabilising force. Let me explain clearly and calmly, without hype. Why the Fear Exists (and Why It Feels So Strong) The billboard says: “Stop Hiring Humans.” That triggers fear because many people unconsciously built their identity on: being efficient being accurate being knowledgeable being fast being compliant AI now does all of that better. So the fear is not really: “AI will replace humans.” The deeper fear is: “If what I do can be automated, what value do I still have?” How Love Intelligence (LQ) Directly Addresses This Fear LQ does not fight AI. LQ moves the human to a level AI cannot reach. 1. LQ Redefines Human Value Beyond Productivity AI is good at output. Humans are irreplaceable at: trust-building moral judgement emotional courage meaning-...

Future-Proofing Leadership in the AI Era with Love Intelligence (LQ)

AI has accelerated decision-making, automation, and performance measurement. What it has not improved is trust, alignment, or human judgment. As a result, many organizations are facing: Technically capable leaders who cannot mobilize people Faster execution with higher internal friction Smart strategies that fail due to emotional blind spots This is not a skills gap. It is a human intelligence gap. The Insight When pressure increases, leadership weaknesses surface. AI does not replace leaders. AI exposes weak leadership. The next competitive advantage is not IQ or digital capability. It is Love Intelligence (LQ) — the ability to lead with Care, Courage, and Connection. The Framework: Love Intelligence (LQ) Care Builds trust, psychological safety, and clarity of intention. Courage Enables decisive action under uncertainty and moral pressure. Connection Aligns people, systems, and purpose for sustained execution. LQ is not “being nice.” It is precision leadership in complex environments.

People Seldom Listen to What You Want To Do

Why Love Intelligence Will Be the Must-Read Book of 2026 2026 will not be about learning faster. It will be about staying human . AI will optimise tasks. Systems will accelerate decisions. But what will quietly break organisations, families, and leaders is the inability to handle people, pressure, and ourselves. That’s why Love Intelligence matters now. I didn’t write this book from theory. I wrote it after 39+ years in the corporate world , 29+ years in training, coaching, and education , watching capable people sabotage themselves, leaders burn out, teams fall apart, and relationships fail, not from lack of skill, but from lack of Care, Courage, and Connection . I’ve been the finance director, the trainer, the coach, the author. I’ve seen success up close — and emptiness behind it. And I realised this: IQ gets you hired. EQ helps you cope. But Love Intelligence determines whether success lasts . This book is not about romance. It is about: making success sa...

How to Stop Shrinking and Start Growing

Many people don’t fail because they lack ability or opportunity. They fail because of self-sabotage. Notice this pattern: When things start going well, they pull back. Opportunities appear, they find excuses. Someone offers help or coaching, they retreat. Money increases, they unconsciously waste it away. This isn’t laziness. It’s an identity problem. Success feels unfamiliar, so the old self tries to regain control. This is where Love Intelligence (LQ) changes everything. 1. Care Stop attacking yourself for feeling hesitant. Nothing is wrong with you. You’re just entering new territory. 2. Courage Give yourself permission to succeed. Most people don’t fear failure — they fear outgrowing who they used to be. 3. Connection Reconnect with your future self. Ask: If I truly loved my future self, what would I do today? Money sabotage is the clearest signal. When money exceeds self-worth, people rush decisions, bad investments, and overspending. Pause. Let your identity catch up before actin...

Stop Attacking Yourself and Win Now

Self-sabotage is not stupidity. It is not laziness. It is not lack of opportunity. Self-sabotage is a lack of Love Intelligence. People don’t destroy success when things are bad. They destroy it when things start going well. Why? Because success threatens their old identity. The Root of Self-Sabotage People don’t fail because they can’t succeed. They fail because success feels unfamiliar, unsafe, and undeserved. So when: An opportunity appears, they find excuses A mentor offers help, they retreat Money increases, they unconsciously get rid of it Things flow, they create drama They are not rejecting success. They are protecting their old self-image. Love Intelligence allows us to end this pattern permanently — not by force, but by inner realignment. Step 1: Care — Stop Attacking Yourself Self-sabotage always begins with self-rejection. People say things like: “I’m not ready yet” “I don’t think I can handle this” “Maybe later” “This feels too risky” These are not logical thoughts. They a...