We know that nothing ever happens to us is a good thing or bad thing from its own side , because, if it were, then everyone would experience it that way as well. For example, we may find someone irritating in the workplace, as if his 'irritating-ness' were something inside him that was flowing out and flying across the room to us. That of course is not true. That person's irritating-ness was just our perception . In reality there is almost always someone who finds this person to be good and lovable. In short, people have no quality within themselves. People are neutral, blank or empty. What we experience is just our perception. What causes our perception? It is a combination of factors: our own experience, the environment, our opinion, others' opinion and most importantly, our own state of mind . If we are in a joyful or loving state of mind, we will have positive perceptions. If we are in an angry or hatred state of mind, we will h...
by Andy Ng at www.asiatrainers.com (Sales & Management Training) Tel: 65-93672286 Email: andythecoach@gmail.com