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No Love in Marriage? Have Love Intelligence

Marriage Ultimately Depends Not on Love, but Love Intelligence We don't really need to envy other people's marriages. The loving photos we see on social media rarely tell the whole story. When two people live together for 10, 20 or 30 years, how can everything possibly remain as exciting as when they first fell in love? People change.  Our bodies change. Careers change. Circumstances change. Needs change. Temptations don't disappear just because we are married, and neither do the pressures of life. So perhaps the hardest part of marriage isn't falling in love with someone . It is this: After loving someone for many years, do you still know how to love that person? Some marriages eventually become less about living together and more about enduring each other .  We endure until we stop arguing. We endure until we compromise.  We endure until the children grow up. And eventually, we may not even know whether we are staying because of love, responsibility, habit, or simply ...

Guys, When Your Good Friend is a Woman, Be Careful of These 5 Rules

Guys, When Your Good Friend is a Woman, Be Careful of These 5 Rules We all have friends of the opposite gender, and sometimes we are so closed to them that we forget that there are 5 rules to stick to when your good friend is of the opposite gender: (note: the opposite is true for girls: rules when your good friend is a guy).  1. Never have any body contact ,  Handshake is only when you guys are new to each other, so don't shake hands after that.  Also, no touching of shoulders or wrist when getting excited in your conversations.  Keep selfies to a minimum.  2. No sending of ambiguous  暧昧  messages or conversations, for these could lead to intimate messages or conversations 3. No two persons alone in one room or enclosed place.   The exception must the lifts or very short durations eg 5 minutes while waiting for something 4. No overcare and concern for each other, especially for their personal or family matters.   5. No talking about ...