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Correcting People's Mistakes Make People Stupid

SuperME Doesn’t Correct Mistakes — It Awakens Right Action They say the more you correct other people’s mistakes, the more mistakes they make.     Why? Because constant correction — especially in public, or over small things like parking, or daily routines — does not build confidence. It creates fear. Fear shrinks people. Fear makes them second-guess every move. Fear turns simple tasks into mountains, because the person is no longer acting from their heart, but from a desperate attempt to avoid being wrong. This is the way of the Survival-Me — always watching, judging, criticizing, and operating in lack. But the SuperME ? It does not rush to point out flaws. Instead, it creates a climate where right action blossoms naturally. ✨ With Purpose — people know why they are doing what they do, so clarity replaces confusion. ✨ With Love — they feel safe enough to grow, experiment, and even fail without shame. ✨ With Gratitude — they learn from every outcome, seein...

When a Mistake is Not a Mistake, it is THE Biggest Mistake

It's inevitable that we make mistakes at work and in life. Some are small, like calling the wrong number, while others are big, like allowing fraud to happen or even committing fraud. Of course no one in this world intentionally want to make mistakes, and everyone dislike mistakes. This is because mistakes create confusion and doubts and leave us feeling inadequate and embarrassed. Because of this, we tend to treat mistakes more as enemies than teachers.  We want to annihilate mistakes at all costs.  Since mistakes already made cannot be undone, we often end up covering mistakes, and worst still, justifying mistakes . There was this guy that I know from my training assignments.  He was a Vice President of a large MNC, and he is very skilled at avoiding responsibility and placing blame. For example, if his department is spending over the budget, he would 'calmly' recall that he had make an adjustment to his budget 6 months ago and was 'surprised' that the acc...