Let me ask you something uncomfortable. Right now… are you living your life— or performing it? Think about it. The way you speak in front of your boss… the way you behave with your team… the way you show up in social settings… Is that really you? Or is that a version of you: carefully edited, filtered, and controlled? Here’s the truth. Most people are not living. They are performing. And the scary part is… they don’t even realise it. More than 2,000 years ago, Zhuangzi already saw this. He told a story about a highly respected man. This man was flawless: perfect manners, perfect speech, perfect timing. Nobody could fault him. But when he met a wise master, the master shook his head and said: “This man is very good at being what others expect… but he does not know how to be himself.” Let that sink in. Not wrong. Not bad. Just… not real. Now fast forward to today. Look at our lives. In front of leaders, we become agreeable. In front of subordinates, we beco...
by Andy Ng at www.asiatrainers.com (Sales & Management Training) Tel: 65-93672286 Email: andythecoach@gmail.com