The 30 Things That Destroy Love Intelligence Love Intelligence is Care, Courage & Connection 10 Things NOT to Do with Care Care is not control. 1. Don't try to fix everything for the other person. 2. Don't treat adults like children, and vice versa. 3. Don't assume you know what is best for them. 4. Don't give unsolicited advice all the time. 5. Don't use guilt to make them change. 6. Don't sacrifice yourself and expect repayment. 7. Don't keep score of what you have done. 8. Don't confuse rescuing with caring. 9. Don't make their happiness your responsibility. 10. Don't use "I'm doing this for you" as a justification for control. Care without boundaries becomes control. 10 ...
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