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It is often said that we don’t believe people based on what they say,  we believe them based on how they behave . So when someone says, “I never lie,” or “I cannot tolerate exaggeration or dishonesty,” does it automatically mean this person will never lie? Of course not. Words are easy. Behavior is the truth. In fact, people who insist very strongly that they “never lie” are often sincere in small matters,  but when it comes to bigger issues , they may hide, avoid, or distort the truth. Not because they are bad. But because they are human. Fear, shame, insecurity, these are powerful forces. And they make even honest people silent when it matters most. That’s why, as a SuperME , we must understand this simple wisdom: 👉 Judge not by declarations, but by patterns. 👉 Look not at what they claim, but at how they act when stakes are high. 👉 Don’t expect perfection, expect humanity. SuperME is not about pointing fingers. It is about awareness , discernmen...

While Sun Tzu’s Art of War (written around 500 B.C.) doesn’t literally use the words SuperME, Purpose, Love, or Gratitude, it expresses these energies through strategy, leadership, and human nature. Let’s explore where — both directly and symbolically — these ideas live within the text. ⚔️ 1️⃣ Purpose — “Dao” (The Way) Where: Chapter 1: Laying Plans (始计篇) “The Way (道) causes the people to be in harmony with their leaders, so that they will follow them through life and death without fear of danger.” This is the spiritual root of all strategy — Dao, or Purpose. Sun Tzu begins his entire philosophy here: before calculation, before weapons, before war — there must be alignment with The Way. In SuperME terms: Purpose gives meaning to action. Without Purpose, effort scatters. With Purpose, even the smallest act carries power. So, Dao = Purpose — the higher reason why we act, not just what we do. 💖 2️⃣ Love — “Win Hearts Before You Win Battles” Where: Chapter 3: Attack by Stratagem (谋攻篇) “To...

How SuperME + PLG Creates Innovation, Adaptability & Long-Term Growth 1️⃣ Purpose — The Engine of Innovation When you live and lead with Purpose, your creativity comes from meaning, not pressure. People often say they lack innovation, but what they really lack is clarity of why. Purpose aligns your inner compass — it helps you see connections others miss. In Yijing, this is Hexagram 1: Qian (The Creative) — energy that never stops generating. In Art of War, Sun Tzu calls it Dao (the Way) — the moral force that unites people’s hearts. In SuperME, Purpose gives birth to ideas that are not random, but relevant. ✨ When you are connected to your Purpose, you see opportunities before others do — because your energy is already pointing in the right direction. 2️⃣ Love — The Foundation of Adaptability True adaptability doesn’t come from fear of failure. It comes from Love — love for learning, for people, and for possibilities. When you lead with love, you drop resistance. You stop fighting...

SuperME Is Not for Everyone — Although It’s Good for Everyone. Why? Because not everyone is ready to face their real self. SuperME is not about adding more success, power, or happiness on the surface. It’s about removing illusions — all the masks we’ve worn for years: our roles, titles, fears, and the need to prove ourselves. And that can feel uncomfortable. 1️⃣ SuperME Requires Courage, Not Comfort Most people seek comfort, not transformation. SuperME asks you to look into the mirror — not the physical one, but the super mirror — and see both your light and your shadow with honesty and love. That’s not easy. Many would rather stay in familiar pain than face unknown freedom. 2️⃣ SuperME Demands Responsibility, Not Reliance SuperME says: “You are the cause, not the effect.” When you realize you are the creator of your energy, your emotions, your outcomes — you can no longer blame the boss, the spouse, the system, or the past. That truth is liberating… but also confron...

Why the More People Use AI, the More We Need to Be a SuperME The more people use AI, the more we need to awaken our SuperME. Let me explain why — there are three basic reasons. 1️⃣ AI Replicates Intelligence, But SuperME Reflects Consciousness AI can think fast, but it doesn’t feel. It can generate answers, but not awareness. AI copies data; SuperME creates meaning. When everyone depends on AI to think, the real value will come from those who can feel deeply, discern truth, and connect with humanity. That is what SuperME does — it awakens the heart behind the logic. 2️⃣ AI Gives You Options, But SuperME Gives You Direction AI can show you a hundred paths — but it cannot tell you which one is yours. Only your Purpose can. Without SuperME, you’ll drown in possibilities. With SuperME, you act with clarity, love, and gratitude — turning noise into navigation. AI gives you the map. SuperME gives you the compass. 3️⃣ AI Can Replace Roles, But It Can Never Replace the Real You Mac...

🌏 Beyond Greatness — The SuperME Way After “Make America Great Again” and now “Make Japan Great Again,” many nations, companies, and people are chasing greatness. But as a SuperME, we realize we don’t need to make ourselves great. Because we already are. We are not defined by achievements, titles, or recognition. We are defined by our authenticity — by being who we truly are. When you are fully yourself, you don’t need to compete or prove. Your presence itself radiates quiet strength, compassion, and truth. Being yourself is not less than greatness. It is greater than being great. Because greatness fades. But authenticity — that never ends.

That’s exactly what every human heart desires — to be seen not for what we have , but for who we are . When we strip away the layers of background, education, status, and roles, what remains is our essence — the true self, or what I call the SuperME . The SuperME does not need to prove, compare, or defend. It simply is — authentic, enough, and quietly powerful. In Yijing, this is like the balance between Qian (Universe) and Kun (Earth): one creates, the other nurtures; both exist harmoniously in truth.  In the Art  of War , this is called “winning without fighting.” Because when you are your true self, there’s no need for struggle — people naturally feel your sincerity and strength. So, let us all do what Li Yipeng said — be seen for who we truly are, not for what the world labels us to be. And when we live this way, we don’t just find peace — we also give others the permission to be real , and that, perhaps, is the greatest gift we can offer the world....

How to Make Relationships Last — The SuperME Way People often ask me, “Andy, why do some people fall out after being good friends for so many years?” They could have been close partners, business collaborators, even life partners — but one day, they just stop liking each other. So the real question is: how can we build relationships that last? After studying and teaching all over the world, and after experiencing both singlehood and marriage,   I’ve learned one simple truth — for relationships to last, we must return to three timeless principles. 1️⃣ Never Take Things for Granted. Always say thank you. Always be grateful. When I discovered SuperME, I started sending personal gratitude messages — small notes, sincere words — to people who have touched my life. And you know what? Those messages don’t just warm others’ hearts — they heal mine too. Gratitude is the bridge that keeps hearts connected. 2️⃣ Never Impose on Anyone. SuperME teaches that every person is good in their ow...

Today let me ask you a very simple question. Who are you? I'm not asking you to tell me your name. I'm asking you. Who are you without the title, The pressure, the role and the story you've been repeating for years. To answer this question, you have to step in front of a mirror, not an ordinary mirror, but a super mirror.  This super mirror is the mirror that tells you who you are, who you really are. This is who you are, this is not what others think about you.  Now take a piece of paper and find a quiet space, breathe deeply and answer. Then answer questions in this mirror moment exercise: who am I without the mask? 1. What do you want people to believe about you?  (This is your true self, not the one that you put on a mask to show people) 2. What are you afraid people would see if you take off your mask? (This is the inner self, the true self, the one like a child that people would see when you take off your mask. It is often your weaknesses, your fake strengthz th...

How SuperME Made Me a Better Entrepreneur Some people are surprised when I tell them… I was teaching Entrepreneurship more than 20 years ago! But in truth, entrepreneurship has been in my blood since I was a boy. I grew up in Chinatown — my family were hawkers selling clothes and towels. From young, I was already serving customers, arranging displays, and yes — closing sales. We’d test new bundles, new ideas, new ways to attract people. Looking back, I realize I wasn’t just helping in a stall — I was already an entrepreneur in training. Over the years, I learned that entrepreneurship isn’t about making money. It’s about adding value. Money is just the result. Value is the reason. Anyone can sell a product — but a true entrepreneur transforms people’s lives by solving problems and serving from the heart. Even as a Chartered Accountant, I knew — you can’t audit your way to value. You must create it. Now, at 62, I’ve come full circle. Through SuperME , I’ve discover...

💼 Why I Chose Creation Over Convention As a Chartered Accountant, I began my career in 1987 as an auditor with one of the Big Four firms. On paper, I was doing well — everyone thought I’d stay on and eventually become a partner. But after just two years, I quit. People were shocked. They asked, “Andy, why give up such a good career?” And I told them something simple yet true:  “I don’t like to be the hindsight person.” You see, auditing is about checking what has happened — finding mistakes, pointing out what went wrong. But I’ve always preferred to be on the creation side — to build businesses, create value, shape the future. That’s why, when I joined KPMG in 1991, I didn’t return to auditing. I joined KPMG Management Consulting, where I could help companies design strategies and make things happen. Over the years, many of my classmates rose to become managing partners of Big Four, Accenture or big local Public Accounting Firms. They sit at the top of the corporate ladder — and I...

🌸 The Secret of the SuperME: Just Bloom People often ask me, “Andy, how can a SuperME keep going — doing good things even when no one notices, no one appreciates?” And I tell them this: It’s just like a flower. A flower blooms whether anyone is watching or not. It doesn’t bloom to impress — it blooms because that’s its nature. Or think of a child. When children play, they don’t ask, “Is someone clapping for me?” They just play — with joy, with innocence, with presence. That’s how a SuperME lives. We don’t do things to please others. We do what our heart desires — what feels right, true, and alive. Because if we rely on appreciation, we’ll always be chasing approval. One day they applaud, the next day they don’t — and our peace goes up and down with them. But when we act from Purpose, Love, and Gratitude, we bloom quietly, beautifully, naturally. Whether anyone notices or not — doesn’t matter. Because a flower never stops blooming… and a SuperME never stops being. So my friends — just ...

How Andy Ng Uses SuperME in Speaking, Training, and Coaching In a world filled with endless tools, techniques, and frameworks, Andy Ng chose to center his life’s work around one core truth: That every person already has within them what it takes to thrive. They simply need to awaken their SuperME. Developed by Dr. Vivian Passion Koh and incorported into the book SuperME Unleashed, SuperME is not a motivational slogan. It is a transformational system grounded in: 🎯 Purpose – clarity of direction 💖 Love – authenticity in connection 🙏 Gratitude – the energy of resilience and joy In Speaking Andy’s keynote speeches are known for moving hearts and shifting minds. He doesn’t just give information — he sparks transformation. Using SuperME, he guides audiences to: See the difference between Survival-Me and SuperME Recognize emotional triggers and reframe them with PLG (Purpose, Love, Gratitude) Leave the room feeling empowered, not just inspired One person said after Andy’s talk: “It’s like...

How to Find Your Heart with SuperME In today’s world, we think too much and feel too little. We chase achievements, but lose touch with the one thing that makes us truly alive — our heart. The SuperME way brings us back home to it. 1. Purpose reconnects you to why your heart beats. When you know your purpose, every challenge becomes meaningful. Your heart starts guiding instead of hiding. 2. Love opens the locked doors. When you love yourself as much as you give love to others, your heart softens — and strength returns. 3. Gratitude keeps your heart light. You stop carrying regrets and start seeing blessings. Gratitude turns wounds into wisdom. So how do you find your heart? You don’t search outside. You slow down, breathe, and listen within — to that still voice whispering, “You are enough. You are loved. You are home.” That’s your SuperME — alive, awake, and whole again.

Finding your voice through SuperME is not about speaking louder — it’s about speaking truer . It’s about reconnecting with who you really are, so that every word, decision, and expression flows from your authentic self. Let’s explore it using the SuperME framework — Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG) — just like how SuperME Unleashed describes the process of “coming home to your true voice.” 1. Purpose: The Compass That Points to Your True Voice “When you know your why, your words no longer seek approval — they seek alignment.” — SuperME Unleashed , Ch. 3 Your voice begins with your purpose . When you are disconnected from purpose, your voice wavers — you speak to please, to prove, or to survive. When you rediscover your purpose, your voice becomes clear, calm, and confident. Example: In the book, Andy describes how after co-writing the book SuperME Unleashed, his voice changed — literally. It softened. It became more heartfelt. When he spoke about growth and gratitude , ...

As a SuperME, I am guided by nature. Yijing's Bagua (8 Trigrams) provide me with guidelines on my interactioins with people as follows:  1.   Dui (Joy): Bring love, fun and joy to people, preferably on a daily basis 2.   Gen (Stability): Provide stability and comfort when people have challenges 3.   Zhen (Action): Action speaks louder than words, don’t over-promise under-deliver 4.   Xun (Gentleness): Be gentle in your behaviour, speech and thoughts.  Never be harsh 5.   Li (Enthusiasm and Beauty): Have taste in your presentation, show enthusiasm and support wherever possible 6.   Kan (Challenges) : Be upfront when confronted with challenges, be open to sharing when needed 7.   Kun (Support): Protect, support and Nourish people as much as possible. "I'm here" is the most powerful phrase 8.   Qian (Leadership): Lead with values and beliefs, but always with gentleness, never imposing

How to Be Not Easily Provoked — When You Are a SuperME In today’s world of endless triggers, fast reactions, and constant pressure, one of the most powerful traits a person can develop is emotional stability — the ability to not be easily provoked. We live in a time where people are praised for quick comebacks, strong opinions, and sharp criticisms. But true strength lies in calmness, in grace, and in the ability to respond instead of react. And that is exactly what the SuperME stands for. The SuperME vs The Survival-Me As outlined in SuperME Unleashed by Dr. Vivian Passion Koh (with contributions from Andy Ng), there are 4 versions of “Me” that influence our behavior: 1. Survival-Me – reactive, fear-based, defensive 2. Protector-Me – controlling, over-analytical 3. Small-Me – self-doubting, approval-seeking 4. SuperME – aligned with Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG) When someone provokes us — whether it’s a sarcastic comment, an unfair decision, or a personal attack — our Survival-Me...

How Andy Ng Added “Juice” to Every Training with SuperME and Purpose-Love-Gratitude For years, I conducted training courses and gave talks that were insightful, structured, and well-received. But something was missing. Then, something shifted. When I started integrating the SuperME framework — especially the essence of Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG) — everything changed. It was no longer just about teaching skills. It became about touching souls. The Difference Was Enormous Instead of just... Tips on communication, people learned to connect with authenticity Strategies for leadership, they discovered how to lead with love Problem-solving techniques, they learned to align with their true purpose And I could feel it: The eyes stayed longer The hearts opened wider The results went deeper Because this wasn’t just another talk. This was transformation — real, human, and lasting. ❤️ Why People Love It Now Because it’s no longer about being impressive — it’s about being impactful. It’s no...

Being a Good Person is the Real Gain When I was young, my mother used to say: > “Study hard, so you can get a good job and have a good life.” It made sense. Back then, life was about security. But today, I tell my children something different: > “Study hard — not just to get a good job — but to become a good person.” Why? Because schools rarely teach us how to be a good person. When we step into the corporate world, most training programs focus on how to be a good manager… A good salesperson… A good leader… But they often forget the most important foundation: > How to be a good human being. That’s why, since 2022, I’ve been conducting this course — A course not just about performance or productivity… But about Purpose, Love, and Gratitude — the foundations of being good. And now, with full integration of the SuperME framework, this course has become even more impactful.  See at https://asiatrainers.org/smu1d Because I believe, with all my heart: > Being a good person is...