You were born a SuperME

Today let me ask you a very simple question. Who are you? I'm not asking you to tell me your name. I'm asking you. Who are you without the title, The pressure, the role and the story you've been repeating for years.

To answer this question, you have to step in front of a mirror, not an ordinary mirror, but a super mirror.

This super mirror is the mirror that tells you who you are, who you really are. This is who you are, this is not what others think about you.

Now take a piece of paper and find a quiet space, breathe deeply and answer. Then answer questions in this mirror moment exercise: who am I without the mask?

1. What do you want people to believe about you?

(This is your true self, not the one that you put on a mask to show people)

2. What are you afraid people would see if you take off your mask?

(This is the inner self, the true self, the one like a child that people would see when you take off your mask. It is often your weaknesses, your fake strengthz that you have been showing people)

3. Who was you before the world told you who to be?

4. Which part of you have you silenced to keep others comfortable?

I gone through this exercise in April 2025, and has become a different person. You can read this at our ebook SuperME Unleashed at https://asiatrainers.org/smuamazon

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