Business and Money Tips

Many people don’t fail because they lack ability or opportunity. They fail because of self-sabotage. Notice this pattern: When things start going well, they pull back. Opportunities appear, they find excuses. Someone offers help or coaching, they retreat. Money increases, they unconsciously waste it away. This isn’t laziness. It’s an identity problem. Success feels unfamiliar, so the old self tries to regain control. This is where Love Intelligence (LQ) changes everything. 1. Care Stop attacking yourself for feeling hesitant. Nothing is wrong with you. You’re just entering new territory. 2. Courage Give yourself permission to succeed. Most people don’t fear failure — they fear outgrowing who they used to be. 3. Connection Reconnect with your future self. Ask: If I truly loved my future self, what would I do today? Money sabotage is the clearest signal. When money exceeds self-worth, people rush decisions, bad investments, and overspending. Pause. Let your identity catch up before actin...

Self-sabotage is not stupidity. It is not laziness. It is not lack of opportunity. Self-sabotage is a lack of Love Intelligence. People don’t destroy success when things are bad. They destroy it when things start going well. Why? Because success threatens their old identity. The Root of Self-Sabotage People don’t fail because they can’t succeed. They fail because success feels unfamiliar, unsafe, and undeserved. So when: An opportunity appears, they find excuses A mentor offers help, they retreat Money increases, they unconsciously get rid of it Things flow, they create drama They are not rejecting success. They are protecting their old self-image. Love Intelligence allows us to end this pattern permanently — not by force, but by inner realignment. Step 1: Care — Stop Attacking Yourself Self-sabotage always begins with self-rejection. People say things like: “I’m not ready yet” “I don’t think I can handle this” “Maybe later” “This feels too risky” These are not logical thoughts. They a...