How to Be Not Easily Provoked — When You Are a SuperME In today’s world of endless triggers, fast reactions, and constant pressure, one of the most powerful traits a person can develop is emotional stability — the ability to not be easily provoked. We live in a time where people are praised for quick comebacks, strong opinions, and sharp criticisms. But true strength lies in calmness, in grace, and in the ability to respond instead of react. And that is exactly what the SuperME stands for. The SuperME vs The Survival-Me As outlined in SuperME Unleashed by Dr. Vivian Passion Koh (with contributions from Andy Ng), there are 4 versions of “Me” that influence our behavior: 1. Survival-Me – reactive, fear-based, defensive 2. Protector-Me – controlling, over-analytical 3. Small-Me – self-doubting, approval-seeking 4. SuperME – aligned with Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG) When someone provokes us — whether it’s a sarcastic comment, an unfair decision, or a personal attack — our Survival-Me...
by Andy Ng at www.asiatrainers.com (Sales & Management Training) Tel: 65-93672286 Email: andythecoach@gmail.com