When Sun Tzu says, “To win without fighting, you must know your terrain, understand your rivals, and above all, master yourself,” he is describing strategy. But strategy alone is not enough. What powers these three elements is love, not soft love, but intelligent love. Knowing your terrain requires attention, curiosity and sincerity. You must genuinely care about the people you serve. If you don’t love your market, you won’t bother to understand their fears, desires, timing, or energy. Love helps you see what others overlook. Understanding your rivals is not about hatred or fear. Sun Tzu never taught that. He taught respect, awareness, and wisdom. With love in your heart, you don’t attack competitors; you learn from them, partner when possible, and differentiate with grace. Love removes ego, and ego is the biggest cause of unnecessary battles. Mastering yourself is impossible without love. Because mastery requires calmness, discipline, confidence, and emotional ...
by Andy Ng at www.asiatrainers.com (Sales & Management Training) Tel: 65-93672286 Email: andythecoach@gmail.com