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This is the one and only way to be emotionally intelligent

Know this and you will be emotionally intelligent. To me, emotional Intelligence is simply to think of others before you do anything. It's simply to put yourself in the other person's shoes. We are not asking you to wear the person's shoes. We ask you to put yourself in the other person's shoes for a short while .  We know that when you put yourself in the other person's shoes, you will not be forcing or manipulating people. You also would not be doing tricks to lure people for you know that such tricks are common and people could also apply those tricks onto you.   Putting yourself in the other person's shoes is not about influencing people or attracting people to you. It's a genuine way of thinking of the other person before you do anything.   When you do this, you will be very effective in whatever you do. People will say that you are a nice person and they will like and respect you. We know that when people like and respect you, they will believe and...

How to be Happy All the Time with 'Search Inside Yourself'

"Search Inside Yourself" is the most rewarding training program Google has ever created for its employees.  Now you too can share in this discovery for this Search Inside Yourself method is now available to all in the form of cheap e-books (only S$5 at Google Playstore).  Search Inside Yourself works in 3 easy steps: Attention Training Self-Knowledge and Self-Mastery Creating Useful Mental Habits Attention Training Attention training is the basis of all abilities.  You train your attention so that you can relax and yet be alert at the same time: relaxed so that your mind is calm and clear and alert so that you are alert to that attention .   Self-Knowledge and Self-Mastery Using your trained attention you can observe your thought stream and your emotions with high clarity and from a third-party objectivity.  With this you will not be attached to your own feelings, you will develop a sense of equanimity and with that you will develop self-mas...