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Love isn’t what you think it is. Explain it carefully, because this misunderstanding is destroying relationships. Most people say love is about finding the right person . That’s not love. That’s dependence . A relationship is not love. A relationship is a structure — a role, an agreement, a container. Love is a state inside you. Think about it. Why can a sunset move you? Why can a dog soften your heart? Why can music make you cry? You didn’t negotiate. You didn’t receive anything back. Because love is not something you do . It’s something you become . When your inner state is loving, everything you touch feels lighter, warmer, more meaningful. The dangerous lie we were taught is this: that love only exists because of another person. That belief creates fear, attachment, and control. Here’s the truth from Love Intelligence : If your heart is already loving, when someone enters your life, you share love. And if no one is there, you can sit quietly — and still fe...

Is Love Intelligence really about love? The moment people hear the word love , misunderstandings arise. They ask: How can love possibly be linked to performance? intelligence? How can love resolve conflict? How can love create results? How can love have anything to do with business, management, or leadership? These questions reveal something important. For too long, we have focused only on outcomes, while ignoring how outcomes are actually created. Every result begins not with action, but with the state of the human heart and mind. And the starting point of that state is love. If I do not love my work, how can my inner state be healthy? Without love, I am easily tempted by money. I work for money. I live for money. And eventually, I may even trade my values for money. Love Intelligence is about restoring your original intention. It brings you back to why you started:  before fear, pressure, and incentives pulled you away.

Love Fights Waste and Builds Prosperity Love is the opposite of waste. People who love use resources more wisely, take care of what they have, reduce emotional spending, invest in what brings real value, protect assets, and think long-term. This is why love naturally increases wealth. Case Example: “Service from the Heart”, a Restaurant Story In our training for a F&B chain, we told staff: “Love every plate that leaves your kitchen.” After that, the staff took more pride in presentation, fewer dishes were sent back, complaints dropped, customers returned and daily revenue rose. Love reduced operational waste and increased profit. Real money from real care.

“The Art of Loving” by Erich Fromm (Japan) In his classic work The Art of Loving , Erich Fromm reminded the world that love is not a feeling you wait for, but a discipline you practise. Love is a skill that must be trained, strengthened, and applied with intention . When people learn to love with maturity, through care, responsibility, respect, and understanding, they unlock a way of living that is wiser, calmer, and far more powerful. Fromm’s message: love is mastery. Mastery creates value. Modern Application: Should you marry the woman you love or love the woman you marry?  Most prefer the first. But lasting happiness comes from the second. It is easy to love before commitment; it is maturity to keep loving . Love is a practice. When you practise love, everything grows: your relationship, your career, and your life. Extracted from Love Intelligence book at https://asiatrainers.org/lqbook

Love-Powered Management Every manager needs four core abilities: Leadership, People Management, Communication, and Getting Things Done. What most people don’t realise is that all four are powered by one hidden force: love used intelligently. Not emotional love. Not soft love. But Love Intelligence (LQ): the ability to lead with purpose, clarity and connection. Here’s how it works. 1. Leadership A leader’s job is to influence, inspire and align. Love helps because:  • When you love your mission, people can feel your conviction  • When you love your team, they trust you more  • When you love your values, you make clearer decisions Love creates followability. People don’t follow titles. They follow energy. 2. People Management People are emotional beings. They don’t work well for managers they fear or dislike. Love strategies help you:  • Understand motivations instead of judging behaviour  • Give feedback with care instead of criticism  • Support growth inste...

Warren Buffett always says, “Invest in the future.” And he is right. But my advice goes one step deeper: Invest in your love for the future. Because when you love the future, you automatically move towards it. You make better decisions. You create better relationships. You become more adaptable, more courageous, more alive. This is the heart of Love Intelligence (LQ) . When you love your future, you stop sabotaging yourself. You stop fearing change. You start seeing possibilities instead of problems. Your energy rises, your creativity returns, and your actions become bold but stable. When you love your mission, your work becomes meaningful. You wake up with purpose. You serve people at a higher level, and they feel it. People trust you more, support you more, and follow you more. When you love the people around you, you build alliances, not enemies. Your influence grows. Your networks expand. Your opportunities multiply. When you love yourself, you no longer se...

When Sun Tzu says, “To win without fighting, you must know your terrain, understand your rivals, and above all, master yourself,” he is describing strategy. But strategy alone is not enough. What powers these three elements is love,  not soft love, but intelligent love. Knowing your terrain requires attention, curiosity and sincerity. You must genuinely care about the people you serve. If you don’t love your market, you won’t bother to understand their fears, desires, timing, or energy. Love helps you see what others overlook. Understanding your rivals is not about hatred or fear. Sun Tzu never taught that. He taught respect, awareness, and wisdom. With love in your heart, you don’t attack competitors; you learn from them, partner when possible, and differentiate with grace. Love removes ego, and ego is the biggest cause of unnecessary battles. Mastering yourself is impossible without love. Because mastery requires calmness, discipline, confidence, and emotional ...

Yijing teaches us to be good, to be strong internally, and to be in harmony with nature. So where does love fit into this? Love is actually the hidden energy behind all three. When Yijing talks about being good , it isn’t moral preaching. It means your intentions must be pure. When your heart carries love, real love for people, for your work, for life,  your actions become upright, your decisions become clearer, and your results become smoother.  Love guides goodness. When Yijing talks about being internally strong , that strength is not toughness. It is stability.  A person full of love is emotionally steady. Love calms the mind, relaxes the body, and keeps your Qi flowing smoothly. That is true inner strength, a strength that cannot be shaken by circumstances. When Yijing talks about harmony with nature , it means aligning with the natural flow of life. Love is the highest form of alignment. When your heart is warm, open, and connected, you sense timing bet...

People always ask me, “How can you get rich with love? How can financial success come from something so intangible?” It sounds strange only because we have been trained to chase money, not to understand what creates money. Money doesn’t come from effort alone. Money comes from energy, trust, relationships, reputation, and value creation. And the source behind all of these… is love. When you love what you do, you stay longer, think deeper, notice opportunities others miss. When you love the people you serve, you naturally give more value, and people reward you for that. When you love yourself enough to grow, your skills rise, your confidence rises, and your income follows. When you love your clients, they feel safe with you. Safe people buy more. Safe clients stay longer. When you love your team, they become loyal, creative and committed. That translates directly into profits. So love is not something soft. Love is the fuel behind trust, performance, innovation, and long-term growth. Re...

People often say, “Plan your 2026 now. Set your goals. Decide what you want to achieve.” But I say: plan your 2026 with love. Not just what you want to achieve, but what love you want to live, give, and grow. Because with love, we can do anything. Think about it. Every great invention, every breakthrough in history, did it start with a perfect plan, or did it start with love? Love for discovery. Love for solving human problems. Love for making life better. Edison didn’t invent the lightbulb just to make money, he wanted to bring light to the world. The Wright brothers weren’t just building a machine, they were driven by the love of flight, the dream to help humanity soar. Steve Jobs wasn’t obsessed with technology, he was obsessed with beauty, creativity, and human experience. Love creates energy. Plans create structure. But without love, even the best plan becomes lifeless. So as you look toward 2026, don’t just plan your success. Plan your love. Because when love leads, everything el...

1. Begin every meeting with humanity  Ask: “Is everyone okay today?”  One sentence changes the energy of the room.  2. Correct with care  Say: “Let’s work on this together.”  Not: “Why did you mess this up?”  3. Lead by example  Confucius said: “The virtuous person is a mirror.”  Your behavior teaches more than your words.  4. Build trust through fairness  If people feel you are fair, they will accept tough  decisions.  Lee Kuan Yew is famous for this.   5. Celebrate small wins  This increases team morale and creates  momentum. In my company, we have monthly  small awards, and quarterly bigger awards.   6. Protect the dignity of your people  Never embarrass anyone, not in meetings, not in  emails. Praise in public, reprimand in private.   7. Learn people’s stories  When people feel understood, they feel safe.  Safe people perform better. #love #loveintelligence #L...

Most people think money comes from working hard, being smart, having connections, or catching opportunities. But after working 39 years in finance, management, speaking, training, coaching and consulting leaders and people from all walks of life, I discovered this simple truth: Money follows value, Value follows trust, Trust follows love. This is the real formula of wealth in the modern world, yet it is the one most people ignore. You can be talented but not trusted. You can be educated but not valued. You can be hardworking but underpaid. You can be skilled but easily replaced. But if people trust you, they buy from you, they promote you, they follow you, they refer you. And trust does not come from intelligence. It comes from love. Love is the highest form of intelligence because love creates connection, and connection creates wealth. #love #LQ #loveintelligence

The Secret Behind The Secret People talk about The Law of Attraction. They say, “Whatever you think about, you bring about.” But that’s only half the truth. The real secret behind the secret is love . Not love for love’s sake. But love in an intelligent way — love that creates value, builds trust, and generates profits for you and for others. When you love what you do, you attract the right people. When you love the people you serve, they respond with loyalty, referrals, and opportunities. When you love yourself enough to keep growing, you stop competing and start creating. Love is the energy that turns intention into attraction, and attraction into achievement. That’s what I call Love Intelligence — the new currency of wealth in business, leadership, and life.

The Five Non-Languages of Love per Andy Ng People often talk about the five languages of love. But today, I want to talk about something different: the five non-languages of love. That’s right. Because love is not a communication. It is not a language. So what is love? First, love is a feeling. It is something you feel deep inside, even when you have no words for it. Second, when you express that feeling, it becomes an emotion. That’s when love moves from your heart into your actions, your tone, your eyes. Third, love is a state of mind. When your mind rests in love, you see things differently. You think with compassion, and you act with clarity. Fourth, love is something already inside you. You don’t need to chase it, buy it, or beg for it. It’s there waiting quietly for you to awaken it. And fifth, love is our soul itself. We are not separate from love — we are love. When we forget that, we feel lost. When we remember that, we come home. Love is You.  You are Love

It’s strange, isn’t it? There’s something in this world that is free, or costs almost nothing, yet very few people use it. Everyone is chasing things that cost money, yet they overlook this one tool that can empower, heal, and uplift more than anything else. I’m talking about praise and validation. People who have been married for years may share their problems at home, but rarely do they give each other genuine praise. At work, when the boss praises us, we get suspicious, wondering if more work or expectations are coming. So instead of joy, praise becomes a trigger for worry. That’s why so many people remain emotionally poor, even when they are financially rich. But a genuine praise, one that comes from love, is among the most powerful forces in the world. It has the power to restore faith, to open hearts, and to bring out the best in people. This is why I am persistent, almost obsessed, about becoming a keynote speaker on the topic of love. Because as Whitney Houston once sang,...

📘 Sun Tzu Sales Secrets — 14 mentions of "love" Themes & Contexts: Love as Yin energy (Pg 6): You present love as a soft yet powerful force that “dissolves resistance” — very aligned with the Art of War concept of winning without confrontation. This positions love as a strategic emotional energy , not weakness. PLG (Purpose-Love-Gratitude) Framework (Pg 5, 10, 11): “Love” is a central part of your PLG tool , suggesting it’s a key to dissolving ego, resistance, and creating rapport in sales. You use “love” alongside “purpose” and “gratitude” as a transformational trio . Psychological Insight (Pg 47): You write “Ego loves the last word — give it away.” This is a clever play showing how even ego uses love , and the mature strategy is to let go , again tying to your “win without fighting” philosophy. ✅ Overall : In this book, love is used as a sales advantage — to build trust, reduce resistance, and win with heart. It’s emotional ...

  🌸 1. Love in SuperME Unleashed — Love as a Transforming Power In SuperME Unleashed (by Dr. Vivian Passion Koh and Andy Ng), Love is a conscious choice to connect heart-to-heart and elevate energy. It’s not romance, dependency, or self-sacrifice — it’s the creative force that bridges Purpose and Gratitude . Essence: Love here is energy — it’s what transforms pain into power, judgment into understanding, and fear into flow. Focus: Inner alignment. You love yourself first — your inner child, your growth, your flaws — so that you can love others without expectation or need. Transformation path: You start from Purpose (why you exist), move with Love (how you connect), and end with Gratitude (how you complete the cycle). Love, therefore, is fuel — it’s what makes you “SuperME,” a version of yourself that transcends ego and connects with humanity. 💬 “When you choose love over reaction, you become the calm in every storm.” 💎 2. Love in The Diamond Cutter (...

As we know, the Chinese seldom mention love openly.  The famous song 'More Than I can Say' has a Chinese version, it is 'Love You in My Heart, Hard to Express it Out' already shows us the Chinese is more reserved when it comes to love.  For love is a sacred thing and not something that we say it often.  Love is a feeling.   ⚔️ 1. Sun Tzu’s Art of War — Love in the Language of Wisdom No, Sun Tzu never mentions the word “love” (愛 ài ) directly. But love is implied — not as emotion, but as benevolence (仁, rén) and care for life . Sun Tzu says: “Treat your soldiers as your children, and they will follow you into the deepest valleys. Treat them as your beloved sons, and they will stand by you unto death.” (Chapter 10 — Terrain) This is love in leadership . It’s the love of a general who values his people’s lives more than his own glory. It’s the love that creates loyalty, discipline, and strength — the strategic compassion that transforms fear into unity...

1. There’s No Overdose of Purpose, Love, and Gratitude — But There Can Be Imbalance Purpose, Love, and Gratitude are energies , not substances. You can’t “overdose” on them, but you can misapply them — meaning you express them without awareness or balance. When your Purpose becomes an obsession, you lose rest and presence. When your Love becomes attachment, you lose discernment. When your Gratitude becomes over-pleasing, you lose boundaries. So the goal isn’t to reduce PLG — it’s to anchor PLG with awareness. Yijing calls this “Zhong He” (中和) — balance and harmony in the middle path. 2. Appreciation and Praise Should Uplift, Not Inflate Appreciation is beautiful — it uplifts both giver and receiver. But if we praise without sincerity, timing, or truth, it loses its power. True praise comes from seeing reality with compassion , not illusion. When you appreciate someone’s goodness and see their flaws without judgment, you are practicing mature love — the kind that gro...

How to Love People When You Are Not Yet a SuperME It’s true — when we are still in our Survival-Me, Small-Me, or Protector-Me, love can feel difficult. We may love only if others love us first. We may withhold love, fearing rejection. We may confuse love with attachment, control, or neediness. But here’s the truth: you don’t need to be fully SuperME to start loving. Love is not a distant destination. Love is a practice, a choice you can make today. Three simple ways to begin: 1. Start with kindness. Even a smile or listening ear is love in action. 2. Acknowledge the good. Gratitude shifts your energy and opens the heart. 3. Release perfection. You don’t need to “do love right.” Every small act of care counts. As you practice these, something shifts. Love stops being conditional. Love stops being about getting. Love becomes about being. And here’s the miracle: the more you love, even imperfectly, the closer you return to your SuperME.  Because at your core, you are love. You are not...