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10 Ways to Get People to Change Happily and Willingly

Whenever you use force to open your friend's tightly clenched fist, he will resist you even more and be more motivated to defend his position.  This is a metaphor of the difficulties in getting people to change, where the clenched fist represents the stubbornness of the person.  Instead of using force, you can use the following 10 ways effortlessly: Persuade and Influence with Win-Win. Such softness will overcome all harshness. Distract that person and when catch him when he is in a weak moment. Common distractions include phone, food and news Give that person a benefit.  This works all the time and benefits can be tangible or intangible.  You can sincerely praise him in 10 ways, see the article at here Get a more friendly person to do it. This is because no one can resist a friend's request Wait for a Better Timing .  Offer Your Help.  This will reduce their resistance immediately Take Away. When you tell people 'don't change', they will cha...