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9 Minutes is All It Takes

LQ = 3C: The Moment I Truly Understood Care “When the world has LQ, we are living in heaven on earth.” It sounds like a nice statement. Until one moment makes it real. On Sunday, 19 April 2026, I was in a room of about 250 people. One speaker on stage shared something that stopped the room. He had been in the hospital for 9 months. Many of those weeks were spent in ICU. You could feel the silence. Not the polite kind. The kind where people are thinking, “I didn’t expect this.” After the talk ended, I did something simple. I walked up to him. I told him, “I didn’t know you went through so much.” He looked at me, and without any performance, just shared. After his wife passed away, he was deeply affected. The grief hit him hard. Then his health collapsed. He mentioned heart issues. And a few other illnesses. I have known him since 2007.  That’s almost 20 years. But in all those years, we had never really spoken. Not like this.  That shor...

No Reason is the Best Reason

Most people still argue using reason . But if you observe real experts, those who lead well, influence without force, and create long-term results, they’ve already moved beyond arguments. Because reason alone only convinces the mind . Care opens the heart. Courage moves action. Connection sustains results. That is why real experts no longer waste energy arguing. They practise Love Intelligence . In leadership, service, sales, and even strategy, outcomes don’t change because you are more logical. Outcomes change because people feel cared for, trust your courage, and stay connected to purpose. As we enter a new season and a new year, this is the real upgrade, not more intelligence, but better intelligence . Love Intelligence (LQ): Care · Courage · Connection — Andy Ng Author of Love Intelligence & Yijing Explained