In 《论语·季氏篇》,, "君子有九思”, meaning a virtuous person must have 9 Reflections: 1. 视思明 (When seeing, think clearly) See things objectively and accurately. Do not jump to conclusions based on assumptions. LQ Connection: Care Love Intelligence begins with truly seeing people rather than judging them. 2. 听思聪 (When listening, listen wisely) Listen deeply and understand what is being said — and what is not being said. LQ Connection: Connection Many people hear words. Few people hear emotions. LQ teaches us to listen with both ears and heart. 3. 色思温 (Keep your expression warm) Your facial expression should bring comfort rather than fear. LQ Connection: Care A smile, gentle eye contact, and warmth create emotional safety. Trust starts here. 4. 貌思恭 (Maintain respectful conduct) Treat others with dignity and respect. Respect is not weakness. It is strength under control. LQ Connection: Courage + Connection 5. 言思忠 (Speak truthfully and sincerely) Before speaking, ask: "Is this true?" ...
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