I increasingly feel that most human interaction in the past was actually “mind versus mind.” The mind is powerful, but also complicated. It operates like a machine-gun bunker — constantly analyzing, defending, calculating, reacting. You say something, I respond. On the surface, it looks like communication. But underneath, it is often a subtle battle. Everyone is thinking: What should I say? What will happen if I say this? How will this affect me? What will others think of me? And so, relationships become a web of mental crossfire. Busy. Fast. Intelligent. But the heart remains closed. Then one day, I experienced something very different. In that moment, I spoke the truth. Not a designed response. Not a strategic statement. Not something calculated for a certain outcome. What I felt inside and what I expressed outside became completely aligned. There was no manipulation. No agenda. No hidden intention. I wasn’t even thinking: “What result will this create?” And in that moment, I felt a ...
by Andy Ng at www.asiatrainers.com (Sales & Management Training) Tel: 65-93672286 Email: andythecoach@gmail.com