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Many people think that LAY ( Love Intelligence , Art of War and  Yijing)  are “lofty classical wisdom”: something abstract, philosophical, even distant from daily life. But if they cannot increase the happiness of ordinary people, then no matter how profound they are, they are meaningless. This is how I usually respond. I am not teaching people how to become more powerful. I am teaching people how to live more clearly. First, Love Intelligence reduces inner conflict. Many people are unhappy not because they are not successful. They are unhappy because there is constant war inside them. Cold wars with spouses. Silent competition with colleagues. Anger toward children. Harsh judgment toward themselves. Love Intelligence is built on three principles: Care. Courage. Connection. When you practice a little more care and a little less blame, when you have the courage to face issues instead of avoiding them, when you seek connection instead of control, conflict decre...

Let me start with a question for everyone watching this from different parts of the world. Why is it that in fast, high-pressure years, some people collapse, some merely survive, and a small group quietly rise — without burning out? 2026 is not an ordinary year. In Chinese metaphysics, it is a Fire Horse year. Fire represents speed, visibility, emotion, urgency. Horse represents movement, independence, restlessness, refusal to be controlled. Put them together and you get a world that: • moves faster than human nervous systems, • reacts before it reflects, • and rewards boldness — but punishes recklessness. Most people respond to this kind of year in one way. They push harder. • More effort. • More meetings. • More KPIs. • More hustle. But here is the uncomfortable truth I have seen again and again over nearly four decades of working life. Burnout does not come from weakness. Burnout comes from fighting the wrong battles, for too long, with the wrong energy. 2026 will not ...

With Sun Tzu Art of War, Yijing & Love Intelligence Let me start with a question for everyone watching this from different parts of the world. Why is it that in fast, high-pressure years, some people collapse, some merely survive, and a small group quietly rise — without burning out? 2026 is not an ordinary year. In Chinese metaphysics, it is a Fire Horse year. Fire represents speed, visibility, emotion, urgency. Horse represents movement, independence, restlessness, refusal to be controlled. Put them together and you get a world that: • moves faster than human nervous systems, • reacts before it reflects, • and rewards boldness — but punishes recklessness. Most people respond to this kind of year in one way. They push harder. • More effort. • More meetings. • More KPIs. • More hustle. But here is the uncomfortable truth I have seen again and again over nearly four decades of working life. Burnout does not come from weakness. Burnout comes from fighting the wrong bat...