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Why Do So Many People Start Life “Wrong” from the Beginning?

Most people think Yijing is about fortune telling.

But at a deeper level, Yijing is actually about this:

👉 How you begin determines where you end up.

In the famous opening of the Qian Hexagram, Yijing speaks of four words:

Yuan 元 · Heng 亨 · Li 利 · Zhen 贞

These are not just ancient Chinese words.

They are four stages of life, leadership, and success.

Yuan 元 — Return to the Essence

Most people start from problems, emotions, and appearances.

Yijing teaches:

👉 Start from the essence.

The real question is not:
“What happened?”

But:
“What is truly at the heart of this situation?”

Heng 亨 — Move with Flow

Many people work harder and harder… yet life becomes more difficult.

Why?

👉 Because effort without alignment creates friction.

Wise people understand:

  • timing
  • direction
  • when to move
  • and when not to move

Li 利 — Create Value

True success is not about winning alone.

👉 It is about creating benefit for all involved.

“Li” is not selfish profit.

It is sustainable value.

Zhen 贞 — Stay True

Many people today are intelligent…
but unstable.

They change with pressure.
They compromise with temptation.

Yijing reminds us:

👉 Real success requires integrity.

The people who last are the people who stay true.

So Why Do People Understand Wisdom… Yet Still Struggle?

Because knowledge alone is not enough.

What is missing is:

👉 Love Intelligence (LQ)

LQ is not about romance.

LQ is about having the:

  • Care
  • Courage
  • and Connection

to lead humans wisely.

LQ helps us:

  • see the essence (Yuan)
  • move with courage and timing (Heng)
  • create win-win value (Li)
  • and stay grounded in principles (Zhen)

One Final Thought

Yijing gives you direction.

Love Intelligence gives you humanity.

One helps you understand change.
The other helps you remain human while navigating it.

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