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Being a Good Person is the Real Gain

Being a Good Person is the Real Gain

When I was young, my mother used to say:

> “Study hard, so you can get a good job and have a good life.”

It made sense.
Back then, life was about security.

But today, I tell my children something different:

> “Study hard — not just to get a good job — but to become a good person.”

Why?

Because schools rarely teach us how to be a good person.
When we step into the corporate world, most training programs focus on how to be a good manager…
A good salesperson…
A good leader…

But they often forget the most important foundation:
> How to be a good human being.

That’s why, since 2022, I’ve been conducting this course —
A course not just about performance or productivity…
But about Purpose, Love, and Gratitude — the foundations of being good.

And now, with full integration of the SuperME framework, this course has become even more impactful.  See at https://asiatrainers.org/smu1d

Because I believe, with all my heart:

> Being a good person is not just the right thing to do.
It’s the greatest gain of all.

Because I am not just teaching. I am awakening hearts — and the world needs more of that.

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