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How to Love People When You Are Not Yet a SuperME

How to Love People When You Are Not Yet a SuperME

It’s true — when we are still in our Survival-Me, Small-Me, or Protector-Me, love can feel difficult.

We may love only if others love us first.

We may withhold love, fearing rejection.

We may confuse love with attachment, control, or neediness.

But here’s the truth: you don’t need to be fully SuperME to start loving.
Love is not a distant destination. Love is a practice, a choice you can make today.

Three simple ways to begin:
1. Start with kindness. Even a smile or listening ear is love in action.
2. Acknowledge the good. Gratitude shifts your energy and opens the heart.
3. Release perfection. You don’t need to “do love right.” Every small act of care counts.

As you practice these, something shifts.
Love stops being conditional.
Love stops being about getting.
Love becomes about being.

And here’s the miracle: the more you love, even imperfectly, the closer you return to your SuperME. 

Because at your core, you are love.
You are not learning to love — you are remembering it.

This is why SuperME Unleashed is so powerful: it doesn’t wait for you to be perfect. It helps you begin, wherever you are, and grow step by step into your authentic self — a self that loves naturally, freely, and fully.

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