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Sun Tzu Art of Love


Let me start with a question: When was the last time you won someone’s heart — without fighting for it?

Most people think The Art of War is about battle, competition, and conflict.
But after studying and teaching it for over twenty years, I discovered something Sun Tzu never said directly —
That every true warrior wins through love, not aggression.

Years ago, when I was in sales, I tried to convince people.

I fought for every deal: more calls, more pressure, more follow-up.
One day, I lost my biggest client not because I did something wrong,
but because I didn’t understand something deeper.

Later I reread The Art of War, slowly, line by line, and one sentence struck me:

“The greatest victory is that which requires no battle.”

That’s when it hit me —
What Sun Tzu called strategy, I now call love in action.
Because real love, like real strategy, seeks harmony, not control.
It listens, understands, and positions itself so that both sides win.

That idea became the foundation of my two books:
📘 Win Without Fighting with Sun Tzu Art of War — how to lead, negotiate, and influence without pressure.
📙 Sun Tzu Sales Secrets — how to turn resistance into relationship, and competition into collaboration.

And recently, I wrote Love Intelligence: showing that the highest strategy of life and business is actually the strategy of love.

Think about it:
When you truly care for your audience, you win attention.
When you care for your client, you win loyalty.
When you care for your team, you win their hearts.

That’s Sun Tzu Art of Love
Win without fighting.
Persuade without pressure.
Influence without ego.

This is not soft. It’s smart.
It’s the strategy that builds lasting results — in business, in relationships, even in speaking.

So if you want to win more hearts in your speeches, your sales, or your leadership —

Take home these two books.

Each sells for S$35,
but for you, the two together are just S$39.90
because I believe knowledge shared with love should be affordable.

And to friends here who help speakers reach more stages, 
if you believe we need more heart-driven strategists in the world,
I’d be honored to bring The Sun Tzu Art of Love message to your audiences.

Because in the end, my friends,
the most powerful weapon is not the sword: it’s the heart that knows when not to use it.

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