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Not Size but Depth of Deal

It’s Not the Size of the Deal — It’s the Depth of the Heart

Some people say,

“Don’t waste time with small deals or small classes.
A speaker should speak to hundreds, not to one or two.”

But to me, it’s never about the number.
It’s about the meaning, the energy, and the intention we bring.

When I teach one person, I’m not just training one mind —
I may be transforming a future leader, a parent, a changemaker.
That one heart, touched deeply, can touch hundreds more.

From the lens of YAS — Yijing, Art of War, and SuperME
there is no big or small battle, only worthy or unworthy ones.

  • From Yijing, we learn that every small seed holds the pattern of Heaven and Earth.
    The smallest hexagram line can shift an entire destiny.

  • From Art of War, we know that victory lies in choosing the right ground,
    not the largest one.

  • From SuperME, we act with Purpose, Love, and Gratitude.
    When the heart is pure, even a small act creates infinite ripples.

So, I no longer ask, “How many people will attend?”
I ask, “Will what I share truly help them?”
Because when we serve from the heart, the size of the audience no longer matters —
the impact multiplies invisibly through time, through hearts, through lives.

🌿 “Do not measure your worth by numbers.
Measure it by how much love you bring into every moment.”

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