Acknowledgements & Appreciation

To my late parents. My mother, who taught me the power of persistence, and my father, whose quiet strength and values continue to guide me every day. To my sisters and brother, thank you for the bond.

To my three children and ex-wife. Your love, patience, and support have been the silent force behind my journey. No matter where life has taken us, I carry deep gratitude for all the moments we’ve shared.

To my dearest friend and strategic business partner, Dr. Vivian Passion Koh. Through your ripples, you awaken my spirit and inspire me to give my best on every stage and in every classroom. Thank you for believing in me. Your tribute book, Man Behind the Quiet Goodness, remains the most meaningful gift I’ve ever received.

To Brad Sugars, founder of ActionCOACH. My years as Singapore franchisee (2001–06) laid the foundation for everything I do today in training and coaching.

To the hundreds of organizations and tens of thousands of participants who have attended my talks and trainings, both on-site and online. You are the reason AndyTheCoach exists.

To my training partners: JobsCentral, Dun & Bradstreet, CCISG, CBS, Gongxi Education, CEO Strategic Alliance, Aventis, RCN, Legend Training, and many others. Thank you for your trust and unwavering support and collaboration all these years from 2001.

Andy Ng

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