Best Definition of Love Intelligence: Make People Better than Themselves

In my Love Intelligence talks, I always say this:

Validate people. Appreciate people. Celebrate their achievements.

And every time, someone will raise a hand and say,
“Andy, how to appreciate? These people are doing everything wrong!”

Let me explain something most leaders don’t realise.

Love Intelligence is not about complimenting perfection.
It is about energising potential.

When someone is doing the wrong things, I don’t reward the mistake.
I don’t praise the result.
But I do appreciate the effort.

Because imagine this:

If you try your best, even though you didn’t get it right,
and I say, “Thank you for trying. I see your effort,”
what happens to you?

Your energy rises.
Your heart opens.
You feel your hard work is worthwhile.
You become willing to improve.

That is the power of energy through love.

Now imagine the opposite.

You actually achieved something. You made progress.
And instead of acknowledging it, I criticise you.
I make sarcastic remarks.
I downplay your achievement.

What happens?

Your energy drops.
Your confidence collapses.
You lose motivation to try again.

This is why I always say:
Energy is everything.
When I use love, I am giving people energy.
When I withhold love, I am taking energy away.

But let’s be very clear:
I don’t use love blindly.
I don’t use love to pamper.
I don’t use love to excuse poor behaviour.

I use love intelligently.

Love Intelligence means:
• I honour effort.
• I encourage potential.
• I empower growth.
• I see the human being behind the behaviour.

Love Intelligence is not soft.
It is strategic.
It is about using love to help people rise, not remain small.

And this is the definition I want all of you to remember:

Love Intelligence is the ability to use love as energy
to make people better than who they were yesterday.

That is how we lead.
That is how we teach.
That is how we transform lives.

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