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Living in a World of Transactional Love

When someone tells you they haven’t felt unconditional love in years, what they’re really saying is that they’ve been living in a world of transactions — love that comes with strings, acceptance that depends on performance, worthiness tied to results.

That’s exactly why SuperME Unleashed feels so magical to those who read it.

From the very first pages, the book doesn’t demand you become anything before you’re worthy. It invites you, with warmth and zero judgement, to remember who you already are — someone enough, lovable, and whole.

Dr. Vivian Passion Koh’s words and reflections carry the rare quality of presence — you feel like someone is sitting with you, listening deeply, and holding space for your truth. Through Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG), she guides you to notice the quiet ways you’ve already been loved by life — and to start loving yourself in that same unconditional way.

Readers have said the book feels like “having a conversation with someone who truly sees you, without wanting to fix or change you.” And once you taste that kind of love, you carry it forward — it empowers your decisions, softens your relationships, and expands your sense of possibility.

Why haven’t more people heard of it?
Because it isn’t a marketing machine chasing headlines — it’s a heart project. It grows by invitation, not hype. It’s not the loudest voice in the room, but the most genuine one — and those who read it often become its most passionate ambassadors.

If you’re reading this, maybe this is your invitation to taste that love for yourself.  Grab it at https://asiatrainers.org/smubook

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