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Win Friends and Influence People — The SuperME Way

How to Win Friends and Influence People — The SuperME Way

The world doesn’t need more charm.

It needs more clarity, compassion, and connection.


Here’s how SuperME changes the game:


🧭 1. Lead with Purpose, Not Performance

People don’t follow titles. They follow truth.

When you’re aligned with your Purpose—why you do what you do—you become magnetic.

You don’t need to impress. You just need to express.

SuperME Tip: Before you speak, ask: Is this aligned with who I truly am?


💖 2. Love People Without Needing to Fix Them

True influence begins when people feel seen, not sized up.

SuperME reminds you: You don’t need to change others to love them.

You just need to listen without judgment and care without control.

SuperME Tip: Replace advice-giving with presence.

Ask, “How can I walk with you in this moment?”


🙏 3. Practice Gratitude, Even When It’s Hard

Gratitude isn’t just saying “thank you”—it’s choosing to see the good in people, even when they’re difficult.

It shifts your energy. It softens theirs.

And that’s how true bridges are built.


SuperME Tip: End every interaction (even challenging ones) with a silent or spoken “thank you.”


🌱 4. Be Authentically Vulnerable

People are drawn to realness, not perfection.

SuperME says: You don’t have to be strong all the time. Just be sincere.

It’s your humanness, not your highlight reel, that draws hearts closer.


SuperME Tip: Share your growth, not just your glory.


🌀 5. Turn Conflicts into Super Choices

Disagreements don’t have to divide.

In SuperME, we embrace Super Conflicts—where we face fear and choose alignment.

You don’t avoid tension—you rise through it.


SuperME Tip: Ask, “What’s the loving thing to do here?”

Not, “How do I win?”


🌊 Final Word:

You don’t win friends by being the loudest.

You win them by being the clearest, kindest, and most grounded version of you.


And you influence people—not by pushing, but by rising.

When you live as your SuperME,

you don’t just make friends…

You make ripples that heal the world.


#SuperME #PurposeLoveGratitude #PLG #WinningWithHeart #VivianPassionKoh #AndyNg

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