Why People Never Achieve their New Year Goals?

The reason people never achieve their new year goals is due to the lack of belief in their subconscious mind.

We know that your subconscious mind is more powerful than your conscious mind, for it controls your conscious mind but you may not even be aware that it exists.

Your subconscious mind does not lie, it is your mind, the deep side of your mind. When you set the new year wish or goal that is too big and you have no means to achieve it, or you yourself do not believe that you are worthy of the goal, your subconscious mind does not believe it at all. That's why you can never achieve such goals.

Such goals are just fantasies and include wishing to earn 10 million in a year when you are just a salaried worker earning a few thousand dollars a month.

A better way is to set a goal that your subconscious mind believes in it. It need not be a small goal, it can be big as long as you have the means and ways to achieve it. For example, you can set a goal to earn 10 million when you are just a salaried worker if you know of such high flyer start-up shares that you can invest in.

So the key is your congruence between what you want and the belief (in your subconscious mind) that you can achieve what you want.

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