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5 Things to Reflect Upon Tonight

If you are like my clients, you don't don't like to reflect upon your past. This is because most people find it painful to reflect upon their past unsuccessful stories. But we know that you can only live well if you reflect well. There are 5 things to reflect upon when you look at the rear view mirror:

1. How close you have been to success and what make you miss your success. This will give you guidance on how to take advantage of future opportunities

2. The friends and family people that went through thick and thin with you, this gives you instant motivation that support is always there.

3. What you did exceptionally well, even though there may be little successes. This reflection gives you confidence that you are already good

4. The difficult decisions that you have to make, but you make them anyway, and now you are enjoying the success of that decision

5. The joy and laughter that sound like yesterday. Such happiness reflection gives you instant smiles now

Remember, you have not wasted any single minute of your past, you just have not reflected upon them well to build upon them for current and future success

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