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Communicate with Power

How to Communicate with Power

We all communicate. But do we communicate with Power?

Communicating with Power means that there are 5 things. Check to see if you are doing all these 5 things.

First, are you using VOCAL VARIETY?
That means your using different tonality. Your tonality has to be up and down, it cannot be flat throughout.

Next, are you giving people a PLEASANT TONE? "I hate you" , do you feel that I am hating you? On the other hand, when I pull my face down and say "I love you" do you feel there is love? The power of tonality.

The 2nd thing about Communicating with Power is your VOICE. Do you have RESONANCE in your voice? That means speaking from your stomach. Do not speak from your throat, for you will be heard as shouting and your voice is not nice to hear. Speak from your stomach and your voice will have more resonance, it is like you have the speaker woofer.

Third is, are you using this thing called APPRECIATIVE COMMUNICATION? That means that when you communicate, you are actually appreciating another person or something. It is not just about you saying something. For example, I am telling people that I am having lunch at this cafe. Appreciative communication would be like this, "Hello everybody, I am very happy to have lunch at this nice quiet cafe. Notice that there is something I am appreciating about this place.

Of course, that also means that you are able to appreciate other people, and compliment or praise them.

The 4th element of Communicate with Power is to use your BODY LANGUAGE. Your facial expression, your hands, your gestures and your body. You cannot be speaking so still like a zombie. You need to have some vocal variety to be more interesting so that people are more willing to hear what you say. People also like to SEE your communication.

The 5th and most important thing to communicate with power is to BE SINCERE. Speak from your heart, share your heart, share your feelings. Don't just share about things that you see in the newspaper, share your feelings about the news.

For example, I read in the newspaper that inflation is very high. Appreciative communication, Share from your heart, communicating with power would be something like this. With price rising, how am I going to find ways to reduce my expenses? Anybody can tell me? Well, my favourite way is to do things DIY. This is something I share from my heart, I am not just reporting about inflation

Ladies and gentlemen, there are 5 things that you can use to Communicate with Power. Are you using these 5 things?
1. Vocal Variety
2. Your Voice
3. Appreciative Communication
4. Body Language
5. Be Sincere and Speak from Your Heart
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