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Training People to Feel Good

Training People to Feel Good

We know that people are not bad in themselves, they behave badly because they are not getting what they want, they are facing difficulties in their life, and most likely they have negative feelings and bad moods. 

How many times have you come across an uncooperative colleague, unreasonable bosses, demanding customers and people that are impatient on the roads?  Obviously, people are not feeling good.  They don't feel good due to poor health and the above reasons.  When they don't feel good, they cannot be behaving gracefully, be courteous and helpful. They will likely be unreasonable, full of hatred and in a foul mood to do things that they may not normally do. 

Therein lies the importance of feeling good.  One way to make people feel good, even when the situation or environment is bad (like caught in traffic jams and in the middle of a war), is to train people to feel good.  There are many ways that you too can train yourself to feel good, without incurring money or getting too many pleasures.  Today let's look at music.  The psychology of music at here


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