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There are no shortcuts in WeChat Friends

Many people want to get the most number of WeChat friends in the shortest time possible, for they know that the more friends you have on WeChat, the easier will be for you to do your WeChat marketing.

But there is simply no shortcut in getting WeChat friends.  Typical shortcuts include:
  1. People Nearby.  Some people think that if you just go to many places and just people add from 'People Nearby' feature at the Discover page, you will get many friends.  The truth is that unless you have a pretty face as your profile photo, the chance of people accepting you is as low as 1%.  To increase your acceptance rate, you need to have an impressive profile photo and a good write-up. You also need to have quality posts on your Moments as people will take a look at your Moments to decide if you are worthy of being their friend
  2. Exchange groupchats with friends and simply add people from there.  The chance of people accepting you is very low because you are a stranger to the groupchats. You need to be seen in the groupchats for people to accept you as a friend
  3. Blindly add people from blindly searching for their mobile numbers. Because people don't know you, the chance of them accepting you as their friend is very low
If there are no shortcuts, then how to have many friends as fast as possible?  Since WeChat is a social media tool, you need to make people like you before they can be your friend.  The way to make people like you so that they will add you as friend includes:
  1. Attractive profile photo
  2. Impressive album photo in your Moments page
  3. Good 'what's up' in your 'Me' page description
  4. Post regularly on Moments, at least 1 to 3 times a day
  5. Have quality posts on Moments
  6. Send caring messages to your friends via Message Broadcast
  7. Contribute to group chats with energy-boosting posts
  8. Be sincere and likable as what you will do in the offline world
  9. Don't be boring, have a life other than your work.  Share your life's moments with your friends
  10. Don't boast or praise yourself
  11. Like other people genuinely and they will in turn like you
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