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Yin and Yang

Yin and Yang are concepts in Chinese philosophy and culture that describe the complementary nature of opposite forces or qualities.  Yin is typically associated with femininity, darkness, and stillness, while yang is associated with masculinity, light, and movement. The idea is that these opposing forces are interconnected and interdependent, and that they constantly interact to create balance and harmony in the natural world.  The symbol of yin and yang is a circle divided by a curved line into two equal-sized teardrop shapes, one black and one white. The black side represents yin and the white side represents yang. The presence of yin within yang and yang within yin in the symbol of yin and yang is meant to represent the idea that these opposing forces are not absolute, but rather are relative and interconnected. It suggests that every yin contains a seed of yang, and vice versa. This means that within darkness there is the potential for light, and within light there is the potential

Why is Liu Bei Considered a Good Person?

L iu Bei is a figure from Chinese history and is considered a hero and a good man by many people because of his actions and characteristics. He is known for his loyalty, generosity, wisdom, and compassion. He is considered to be a model of Confucian virtues and a symbol of righteousness. Liu Bei is most famously known as the founding emperor of the Han dynasty, which followed the period of the Three Kingdoms in China. He is also known to be a good leader, who is always willing to help his people and other people in need, despite his own difficult circumstances. He was also a great military strategist and commander, who lead his armies to many victories. Another reason why Liu Bei is considered a good man is that he was a follower of Confucianism, which emphasizes virtues such as loyalty, filial piety, and compassion. Liu Bei was known to be a man of strong moral character and integrity, who always acted in the best interests of his people. In literature Liu Bei is also portrayed as a t

How to Win Friends and Influence People in Tik Tok

T ikTok is a popular social media platform that allows users to create and share short videos. To win friends and influence people on TikTok, you can try the following: 1.     Create engaging content: Make sure your videos are interesting, entertaining, and relevant to your audience. Use humor, creativity, and storytelling to capture people's attention. 2.       Connect with other users: Follow other users and engage with their content by commenting, liking, and sharing. Collaborating with other users can also be a great way to expand your reach and gain new followers. 3.     Use hashtags: Use relevant hashtags to make your videos discoverable to a wider audience. 4.     Be consistent: Posting regularly and consistently can help you build a loyal following. 5.     Be authentic: Be yourself, and be genuine in your interactions with others. People appreciate authenticity and will be more likely to engage with you if they feel a connection with you. 6.     Interact with your

Rabbit year forecast for the 12 Zodiac

Rabbit year forecast for the 12 Zodiac The Chinese zodiac assigns a different animal to each year in a 12-year cycle. The year 2023 is the Year of the Rabbit, according to the Chinese zodiac. Here are some general predictions for how the different zodiac signs may fare during the Year of the Rabbit: Rat: This year may be a challenging one for Rats, but they should focus on building a strong foundation and working on long-term goals. Ox: Oxen may experience some ups and downs during the Year of the Rabbit, but they should stay focused and persistent to achieve their goals. Tiger: Tigers may feel a bit restless during the Year of the Rabbit, but they should focus on self-improvement and avoid making impulsive decisions. Rabbit: Rabbits may experience good luck and success in their career and relationships during the Year of the Rabbit. Dragon: Dragons may feel a bit conflicted during the Year of the Rabbit, but they should stay calm and focused to achieve their goals. Snake:

Why Must We Know The Three Kingdoms?

  Understanding the Three Kingdoms period of Chinese history is important for several reasons. It provides insight into the political and military strategies of ancient China, which can be applied to modern leadership and governance. It gives a glimpse into the cultural and societal dynamics of ancient China, which can be used to better understand the development and evolution of Chinese culture and society over time. It provides a historical context for understanding the literature, philosophy and ethics of ancient China. It helps to understand the Chinese geography and topography and how it was influenced by the war events and strategies. It gives a sense of perspective on the long-term consequences of political decisions, which can be applied to current events and decision-making processes. It improves the ability to read and interpret historical texts and primary sources, which can be useful for students of history, literature, and other related fields. It gives an understanding of

31 Benefits of Knowing Yijing (I-Ching) Book of Changes

The 31 Benefits of Knowing Yijing (I-Ching) Book of Changes  1.      Understandng the principles of balance and harmony in the universe 2.      Gaining insight into the cyclical nature of change and events 3.      Developing intuition and decision-making skills 4.      Improving communication and relationships with others 5.      Understanding one's own strengths and weaknesses 6.      Gaining a deeper understanding of Chinese culture and philosophy 7.      Enhancing one's understanding of metaphysics and the nature of reality 8.      Improving problem-solving and conflict resolution abilities 9.      Gaining a sense of perspective and understanding of the interconnectedness of all things 10. Improving creativity and inspiration 11. Enhancing self-awareness and self-cultivation 12. Improving ability to navigate and adapt to change 13. Understanding the concept of fate and how it can be influenced 14. Gaining insight into the relationship between

31 Benefits of Knowing Sun Tzu Art of War

31 Benefits of Knowing Sun Tzu Art of War Sun Tzu's "The Art of War" is an ancient Chinese military treatise that is widely studied for its insights on strategy, tactics, and leadership. Here are the 31 benefits of studying "The Art of War": Developing strategic thinking: "The Art of War" teaches how to think strategically, to plan ahead and to anticipate the moves of your opponents. Understanding the nature of conflict: The book presents an understanding of the nature of conflict, and how to use that understanding to gain an advantage. Improving leadership: "The Art of War" emphasizes the importance of a clear chain of command, effective communication, and the ability to inspire and motivate troops. Improving decision-making: The book teaches how to make decisions quickly, accurately, and with confidence. Understanding the importance of intelligence: The book stresses the importance of gathering and analyzing intelligence, and using it to ma

THE CHINESE 12 ZODIAC AND YOU

THE CHINESE 12 ZODIAC AND YOU (written by Andy Ng at AsiaTrainers) As we know, the 12 Zodiac animals is derived from Yijing and they are in 6 pairs of 2 animals each.  Yijing Yin and Yang complement each other and so are the animals.  Note: To know your zodiac animal, know your birthday per lunar calendar.  Note that the zodiac year starts from Li Chun, which is either Feb 4 or 1st day of the lunar new year, WHICHEVER IS EARLIER.   Also, the time to start is 11 pm on the previous night.   So, for Rabbit year 2023, it starts from 11 pm on 21 Jan 2023 (because 1st day of lunar new year is 22 Jan 2023) Rat and Ox : Rat being Clever and Fast, need to balance with Ox's Hardworking and Dedication Tiger and Rabbit : Tiger is Daring and Fierceful, rabbit is On the Ground and Detailed-Oriented.   Dragon and Snake : Dragon represents Going for the Sky, while snake is about Flexibility and Feel the Ground.   Horse and Goat : Horse is about Charging Forward to reach the destination or goal, wh

What I learned from Strengths Finder 2.0

1. While you need to be very clear on your weaknesses, know that your weaknesses will never develop into your strengths 2. A person can perform only from strength. One cannot build performance on weakness, let alone on something one cannot do it at all 3. Are you building a career and life through attempting to fix your weakness or through developing and applying your strengths? 4. 

Simple 3-Steps to Up Performance

No need to go for counseling or motivational talks, just follow these 3 proven steps and you can improve the performance of anyone in this world, including yourself: 1. Find good now .  Regardless of how bad or good the performance is right now, say good things about it.   If currently, the performance is no good, say, "I feel that there is one more thing you want to do to be better, right?  By having this thought you are already better than many people". The will feel elevated that finally someone sees the good in him.  If he is doing well now, such praise is also welcomed The key is to do this sincerely and not just go through the motion 2. Ask if there is anything new that the person is attempting.   If none, say, "You are focused".  If there is something new, say you look forward to it 3. End your communication with another praise, the time round can be more specific and use the magic phrase, "I believe in You" The above has worked for myself and my co

Power of Intention: Much Bigger than Goals or Aspirations

Power of Intention: Much Bigger than Goals or Aspiration s Many people confused intention with goals and aspirations.  An intention is something that you intend to do, which means, you want to do it.  It is much bigger than a goal, for a goal is a target that you set.  A goal is more specific, whereas an intention is more general, but it is an indication of where to want to go.  For example, I intend to go to China for tour, but this is not a goal for a goal will have more specifics including when, where and how.  You must set an intention first before you can set a goal.  Many times our goal is not a goal but just a wish or fantasy.  An intention is not a wish, for it is something that you want to do, deep from your heart.     At the end of the day, your intention must be pure and good .  Pure means your intention cannot be mixed with other things, like what you want in return.   For example, you want to treat your customers well, that is a pure intention, for you have no other goal

Thank you for Your Kind Words....(Are You Real?)

Thank you for Your Kind Words....(Are You Real?) I have 2 Facebook accounts and 2 WeChat Accounts.  Combined, I have over 13K friends, plus another few thousand in WhatsApp groups, LinkedIn, etc.   The common reply I get from my social media friends is "Thank you for your kind words".   It seems that I never give negative comments, never criticize and seldom ask the question 'Why?"  Many times I am the only person commenting on their posts and the only one that praises them.  Some people asked me, Andy, are you real?  Why do you only praise and never criticize? There are 5 reasons for my kind words Firstly, people already know their weaknesses, so criticizing serves no purpose other than being annoying Secondly, there are always 2 views: when I criticize, I could be wrong. But when I praise, I can never be wrong, simply because everyone loves praises Third, when I criticize other people, I may attract in return criticisms in my posts.  So to protect myself, I don

Your Top Questions on WeChat Answered

Your Top Questions on WeChat Answered 1. Do I have to use WeChat when I am already a lot into WhatsApp? The purpose of WeChat is to reach out to new markets, the people that you cannot find on Facebook, Instagram, Tik Tok, LinkedIn and WhatsApp.  The people from China cannot use any of the Western social media tools (other than LinkedIn).  They only use WeChat.  So if you want to reach out to them, you have no choice but to use WeChat 2. How Do I Replicate the Success of my Facebook on WeChat? Just copy and paste your Facebook posts into WeChat with 2 changes: use Chinese words on top of English words, and to trim your article to no more than 350 words 3. How Do I Market on WeChat? You have to use Moments-Chats-Broadcast and Group chats, in this order 4. People are now using Tik Tok.  Is WeChat outdated? WeChat has a Tik Tok pure video feed, called Channels.   But WeChat Channels allow you to post up to 30 minutes long videos , which is 3 times longer than Tik Tok videos.  Furthermor

People Set the Wrong Goals and Achieve Them!

People Set the Wrong Goals and Achieve Them!  The worse thing that ever happens to anyone is NOT to never set goals, or to set goals and never achieve them, but to set the wrong goals and achieve them!  Many people don't even know that they set the wrong goals.  Sun Tzu in the Art of War first sentence said that the Art of War is very important, for it determines your life and death.   The entire chapter 1 of the Art of War talks about planning. It says that you must do this right or you will die.  He listed the 5 criteria for any goals.  They are Dao Tian Di Jiang Fa.  So when you set the wrong goals, you are on the wrong path.  Worse still is to achieve your wrong goals!  What are wrong goals? 1. Make a lot of money ($xxx) this year  2. Get promoted in my career 3. Get elected as President of my association 4. Get my child to score A in his exams 5. Slim down 5 kg The above are examples of wrong goals.  To know if your goals are right or wrong, come for our zoom seminar WINNING W

Doing Good with Charity?

In my class How to Be a Good Person, I asked the audience to tell me what they can do in their daily lives to be a good person One person said, don't do harm.  Another say, don't cheat. One say, do charity.  I asked him what is charity.  He said usually it means to donate money.  I told him charity means helping people when they need help.  It could be money or other things but not necessarily donation of money.  If they don't that help, that is NOT charity.  It is just your act of service.   I also told him that if he donates money, make sure that the beneficiary really needs the money.  If not, that donation is of little value to the beneficiary and is not really charity.  It is just for you to claim 2.5 times tax deduction.  There is almost no merit accumulated by you.   He asked, what can I do?  I told him, do charity in your daily work.  Being a Grab driver, I told him if you provide sincere heart-to-heart service, that is already a big charity.  If you are not calcula