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Shake Your Head to Success: Say No to these 5 things and You'll Achieve Massive Success

You've heard of Handshake to Success, but have you heard of "Headshake" to Success?

In this rapid world of instant connectivity, we have to say No instead of yes if we too want to be successful. There are 5 things that we must say No to:
  1. Say No to Procrastination. Just do it now, and better still, do it yesterday. Napoleon Hill in his latest book "Outwitting the Devil" revealed that procrastination is the number one killer to success in this world. It doesn't matter that what you are not perfect, all it matters is that you start first and the rest will follow.
  2. Say No to Follow the Market. Steve Jobs did not follow the market, he created the market. He also spoilt the market by giving customers more than what they asked for: instead of just a phone, he gave them an MP3, Video Player, Mini Computer, Camera, Video Camera and Photo Editor. 
  3. Say No to Dreaming. Dreaming is having dreams with no timeline and action plan, a dream is a dream with timeline and action plan. 
  4. Say No to 'I Know'.  We know that what we know bring us to where we are right now, what we don't know will stop us from going forward. It's okay to not know, but it's not okay to say 'I know' and stop learning.  In fact, once you say 'I know', your mind automatically shuts off and you will stop absorbing. In this modern world, it is not the fast fish eat the slow fish or the big fish eat the small fish, but the know eat the don't-know.  The fastest way to say no to 'I Know' is to, learn, un-learn and re-learn what you already knew.  You'll be pleasantly surprised that your knowledge will expand rapidly once you stop saying 'I know'.  
  5. Say No to Keeping Knowledge to Yourself. Spread knowledge is the biggest charity that you can do, for knowledge creates wealth and lift people out of poverty. Thomas Edison was poor but he became rich when he gained knowledge from people that so willingly shared to him.  So spread this blog to all your friends as the more you spread, the more you learn. Remember, what goes around comes around.
By Andy Ng of Asia Trainers, no rights reserved. Spread this message via What'sApp, WeChat, Line, SMS, Facebook, Twitter, Linked-in, Wordpress and Blogger. 

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