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Some people say Love Intelligence  (LQ) is based on  Yijing (I Ching). That is not entirely wrong — but it is incomplete . Yijing was never really about fortune-telling. At its core, it teaches three things: understanding change, adapting to change, and making the right decisions at the right time . Love Intelligence applies this wisdom to human beings . In Yijing : Ren (仁) is about understanding and caring for life Yi (义) is about doing the right thing at critical moments Zhong (中) is about maintaining balance amid change Translated into Love Intelligence, these become: Care — seeing and understanding people Courage — acting rightly when it matters Connection — sustaining relationships through change Yijing teaches us: True wisdom is not about controlling change, but guiding it. Love Intelligence is exactly that — using care to guide human emotion, using courage to guide direction, and using connection to create long-term outcomes...

People Don’t Remember What You Achieved — They Remember How You Made Them Feel People don’t remember your titles. They don’t remember your possessions. They don’t even remember most of your achievements. What they remember is who they were when they were with you . They remember: how you treated them as a human being, not a role how safe they felt to speak, fail, or be themselves whether they felt respected, seen, and valued whether someone cared for them, even at moments when they didn’t care much for themselves This is not sentiment. This is reality. In leadership, business, family, and life, emotional memory lasts longer than intellectual memory . You may impress people with your competence, but you earn their trust with your care. You may influence people with your authority, but you gain their loyalty with your courage to stand with them. And you may be admired from afar, but you are remembered up close, in how you listen, respond, and show up when it matters. That is why, in an A...

5 Signs You’re Being Taken Over by AI (and Don’t Realise It) 1. You know AI makes mistakes — yet you still obey it Every AI page says clearly: “AI can be wrong. Verify important information.” Yet you make decisions, judgments, even life choices based on AI output, without much questioning, sensing, or validating. That’s not efficiency. That’s outsourcing thinking. 2. You can’t write 200 words without AI anymore Not because you lack time, but because your inner voice has gone quiet. AI has become your first move, not your assistant. When expression disappears, originality soon follows. 3. You’re constantly chasing the next new AI tool Gemini today. Another model tomorrow. You’re busy learning tools, not mastering thinking. When the tool excitement fades, there’s nothing solid underneath. 4. For two years, the only thing you’ve learned is AI No philosophy. No leadership. No psychology. No ethics. Just prompts, plugins, models, upgrades. Your skills expanded — but your dep...

Most people spend their lives chasing the first and settling for the second. But both approaches are incomplete because they rely on luck or willpower . If you want a relationship that is truly "unbeatable," you need to stop choosing a side and start applying LQ (Love Intelligence). The IQ and EQ Approach: Why They Fail In my book, Love Intelligence , I explain that most people approach marriage with their IQ or EQ: The IQ Approach: You treat marriage like a contract. You "calculate" compatibility. You look at status, background, and "logic." It’s efficient, but it’s cold. The EQ Approach: You "manage" the relationship. You use communication tactics to avoid fights. It’s better, but it’s often just a way to keep the peace. The LQ Solution: Love is a Verb, Not a Result Love Intelligence teaches us that the question itself is flawed. In the world of LQ, "Love" is not something that happens to you; it is a frequency you generate . 1. M...

You graduated at the top of your class (IQ). You know how to read a room and mirror body language (EQ). Yet, you still find yourself struggling with "ghosted" sales calls, high staff turnover, or a personal life that feels like a series of empty transactions. Why? Because you are missing the Third Pillar: LQ. The "Smart" Trap We’ve been conditioned to believe that if we are smart enough and "likable" enough, the world will reward us. But in 2026, those are just the "entry stakes." IQ (Intelligence Quotient) is your Utility . It’s what a computer does better than you. If you rely only on IQ, you are a commodity. Commodities are easily replaced. EQ (Emotional Intelligence) is your Management . It’s about controlling the situation. People can feel when they are being "managed" or "handled." It lacks soul. The LQ Difference: From Management to Magic LQ (Love Intelligence) is your Humanity. It is the ability to act from a place of...

In the world of sales and business, we are often taught to be "hunters." We chase the lead, we wine and dine the prospect, and we do everything possible to "close the deal." But what happens the morning after the contract is signed? For most companies, the romance dies instantly. The attention vanishes. The "love" was purely transactional. In short: You treated your client like a one-night stand. If you want a business that survives the AI revolution and the volatile markets of 2026, you need to stop chasing transactions and start building LQ—Love Intelligence. Why IQ and EQ Are No Longer Enough For decades, we relied on IQ (to build the product) and EQ (to manage the customer's mood). But in an age where AI can write your emails and bots can handle your service calls, "Emotional Intelligence" has become a commodity. LQ (Love Intelligence) is different. It is the "Unbeatable Advantage." While EQ is about managing emotions, LQ is...

Love isn’t what you think it is. Explain it carefully, because this misunderstanding is destroying relationships. Most people say love is about finding the right person . That’s not love. That’s dependence . A relationship is not love. A relationship is a structure — a role, an agreement, a container. Love is a state inside you. Think about it. Why can a sunset move you? Why can a dog soften your heart? Why can music make you cry? You didn’t negotiate. You didn’t receive anything back. Because love is not something you do . It’s something you become . When your inner state is loving, everything you touch feels lighter, warmer, more meaningful. The dangerous lie we were taught is this: that love only exists because of another person. That belief creates fear, attachment, and control. Here’s the truth from Love Intelligence : If your heart is already loving, when someone enters your life, you share love. And if no one is there, you can sit quietly — and still fe...

Many people still believe that money comes from working harder, being smarter, or having the right strategy. That belief is outdated. In today’s world, especially in the age of AI, wealth flows less to those who push harder —and more to those whom people trust, choose, and stay with . That is where Love Intelligence (LQ) comes in. And no, Love Intelligence is not about being soft, sentimental, or “nice.” It is about understanding how human energy, trust, and emotional safety directly influence money. Money Has Always Followed Trust Here’s a simple truth we often ignore: Money is rarely earned by force. It is given—by choice. Clients choose who to buy from. Partners choose who to collaborate with. Teams choose who to follow. Behind every financial transaction is a human decision. And behind every human decision is an emotional state. When people feel:  safe,  respected,  understood,  valued They stay longer, pay more, refer others, and open doors. ...

这是一个 很多人听了会愣住、但一想就醒来的问题 —— 爱的智慧，凭什么帮我们发财？ 一句话先说穿真相 钱，从来不是被“拼命赚”来的， 而是被“人愿意交给你”而来的。 而“人愿意把钱交给你”的核心能力， 不是技术，不是背景， 而是—— 爱的智慧（Love Intelligence, LQ） 。 一、爱的智慧，决定你能不能“接得住钱” 很多人不缺能力， 但一有机会就搞砸关系。 说话太冲 情绪失控 不会倾听 一被质疑就防御、攻击或退缩 钱是顺着信任流动的。 而信任，来自情绪安全感。 👉 没有爱的智慧的人， 机会来了也会被自己吓跑。 二、爱的智慧 = 把“关系”变成“长期现金流” 真正有钱的人，很少只靠一次交易。 他们靠的是： 客户复购 朋友转介绍 团队愿意追随 合作伙伴愿意让利 这些都不是靠“聪明”， 而是靠 让人舒服、安心、被尊重 。 👉 爱的智慧，让你从“一次性赚钱”， 升级成“持续被选择”。 三、在 AI 时代，爱的智慧是“不可被取代的生产力” AI 可以： 算得更快 做得更准 成本更低 但 AI 做不到 ： 真正的关心 情绪共鸣 人性的判断 在关键时刻站在你身边 👉 未来的钱， 会越来越流向“有人味”的人。 你不是输给 AI， 而是输给了 比你更有温度的人 。 四、爱的智慧的 3 个“直接变现点” 1️⃣ Care 关爱 → 客户愿意留下 被理解的人，不轻易离开。 2️⃣ Courage 勇气 → 你敢开口、敢定价 很多人赚不到钱，不是没价值， 而是 不敢要钱 。 3️⃣ Connection 连接 → 机会主动找上你 机会不是“抢”的， 是 关系成熟后自然出现的 。 👉 这 3 个， 决定你一生能不能走“轻松致富”的路线。 五、终极结论 爱的智慧不是教你当好人， 而是教你： 在这个残酷又高速的世界里， 如何不靠消耗自己，也能富起来。

How Love Intelligence Creates Real Wealth in the AI Era 爱的智慧，如何在 AI 时代创造真正的财富 (Bilingual Talk / 双语讲座) 📅 1 March 2026 (Sunday) | 3月1日（周日） 🕜 1.30 – 3.30 pm | 下午 1.30 – 3.30 📍 Union Book Co 友联书局 Bras Basah Complex 百胜楼 03-01 231 Bain St, Singapore 180231 🎤 Speaker / 讲师 Andy Ng 吴林朔 Author · Trainer · Founder of Love Intelligence (LQ) Why This Talk Matters | 为什么你不能错过这场讲座 - AI can be faster, cheaper, and tireless. - But real wealth has never belonged to machines — it belongs to people who understand human value, trust, and connection. This rare bilingual talk reveals: - What AI can replace — and what it never will - Why love, trust, and human connection are becoming the new currency of wealth - How LQ turns relationships into results, and value into money 《爱的智慧》《Love Intelligence》作者｜资深讲师 如果 AI 比你更快、更便宜、还不累， 那你真正不可被取代的价值在哪里？ 这不是励志讲座， 也不是科技讲座， 而是一场关于人在 AI 时代如何不被淘汰、反而更富有的关键对话。 🎟 Fee / 门票： $8 only Includes $8 Book Voucher（送全额购书券） ✔ FREE book autograph session ✔ FREE photos with the author 作者...

Scandal, Strategy, and Love Intelligence Why do scandals spread faster than success stories? Because deep down, people are not interested in gossip. They’re asking a silent question: “How did this happen… and could this happen to me?” Recently, we saw a high-profile business scandal explode overnight. Strong brand. Strong sales. Strong confidence. And then — collapse. I’m not here to judge anyone. I’m here to extract the lesson. Here’s the uncomfortable truth: Scandals don’t start with bad people. They start with good people operating under pressure — with low Love Intelligence. And pressure reveals one thing brutally clearly: Your character Your decision-making And your inner strategy I teach two things that may look unrelated, but together they are lethal in business. One is Love Intelligence. The other is Sun Tzu Art of War Win Without Fighting Love Intelligence answers this question: How do you stay human, clear, and trusted under pressure? Sun Tzu answers this one: How do you win ...

Scandals trigger a cocktail of emotions: curiosity, outrage, superiority. They give people something to talk about, to judge, and to momentarily feel more moral than others. It’s easier to consume drama than to live with discipline. It’s safer to point fingers than to reflect inward. But scandals also expose something uncomfortable — that any of us can be ethically tested , and often it’s the silent, grey decisions (not the obvious black-and-white ones) that lead us there. ❤️ How the 3Cs Protect You from Scandal 1. CARE When you genuinely care — for people, consequences, and your own values — you become more attuned to ethical boundaries . You stop seeing people as tools or obstacles. You start asking: “Will this harm trust?” “Who gets hurt if I look away?” Scandals often begin where care is absent: apathy, neglect, ego. 2. COURAGE Scandals escalate because people don’t speak up,  they avoid the hard questions, the uncomfortable truths, the potential backlash. ...

How to Win Big in the Fire Horse Year & 9th Period of Li Fire Let me start with one honest question: Why do smart, hardworking people still lose money, burn out, or break relationships — especially in fast years like now? 2026 is a Fire Horse year , and we are entering the 9th Period of Li Fire . Fire means speed, visibility, pressure, competition . In Malay we say, “Api boleh menghangatkan, api juga boleh membakar.” Fire can warm you — or burn you. The difference is not luck. It is strategy and emotional mastery . I’ve worked with business owners, sales leaders, professionals for over 26 years. I’ve seen two types of people in fast, heated times: One type works harder, talks louder, pushes more The other type moves calmly , chooses battles wisely, and grows steadily The first group says: “Saya stress, semua orang stress.” The second group asks: “Where should I not fight?” That second group understands Sun Tzu . Sun Tzu said: “The supreme art of w...

When you operate from stress, fear, and frustration,  your energy is low.  Low energy = low creativity, low productivity, low  income.  But love raises your energy instantly.  When you feel love for your work, your team, your  customer, or your purpose:   you think better,   speak better,   connect better,   decide better.  High energy = high value.  High value = high income.  This is neuroscience, not philosophy.  Oxytocin increases motivation.  Dopamine unlocks creativity.  Serotonin stabilizes confidence.  Love activates all three. 

I. Meaning, Direction & Judgment Decide what problem is worth solving (AI solves problems; humans choose which ones matter.) Assign meaning to outcomes (AI optimizes metrics; humans define success.) Make value-laden trade-offs under moral ambiguity (No objective “right answer”.) Exercise judgment when data is incomplete or conflicting Know when not to act (Restraint is not an algorithm.) Bear responsibility for irreversible decisions Decide direction under existential uncertainty II. Human Trust & Credibility Accumulate trust through lived history (Track record beats pattern imitation.) Be morally accountable for harm Carry reputational risk Be trusted because of past sacrifice or consistency Stand behind a decision when consequences appear III. Curiosity & Question Ownership Originate deep, disruptive questions consistently (AI recombines; humans rupture frames.) Sustain curiosity over years without external reward ...