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The Course That People Truly Long For

I n today’s noisy world filled with quick fixes and empty promises, what people truly long for is real transformation —the kind that shifts your identity , not just your habits. AndyTheCoach doesn’t teach for applause. He trains to awaken the SuperME in every person—to ignite the part of you that’s been waiting for permission to rise. We’re not here to impress you for a day. We’re here to change your life forever . If you’re tired of going for trainings that feel good for a few hours and then disappear from your memory by the next week… Then you’re ready for what Andy delivers: 💎 Sustainable breakthroughs, not flash-in-the-pan hype 🔥 Instant shifts in energy, clarity, and action—right inside the class 💖 A deep imprint that echoes in your decisions, relationships, and inner compass—months and years after Upcoming Life-Shifting Courses by AndyTheCoach: 1. SuperME Unleashed Awaken your authentic self , break the chains of "Survival-Me", and rise to your truest ...

What Happens When You Become a SuperME

Bazi and Ziwei Doushu are NOT SuperME SuperME is about us being the BE, and with that we can DO and HAVE what we want. So Bazi and Ziwei DouShu are destinies, ultimately we can still decide what life we want, when we are SuperME.  SuperME is about us BE-ing our true self — aligned with Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG). From that state of being, we naturally do the right things, and eventually have what truly matters. This is the BE → DO → HAVE model — the exact opposite of the flawed modern chase of “Have more so I can do more and then be happy.” In Contrast: Bazi and Zi Wei Dou Shu They show your 命 (Ming): tendencies, strengths, timing, karmic lessons. They describe your patterns, but not your power. They are destiny maps, but not your final destination. The Key Linkage: Framework Core Message                                              ...

Bazi and Ziwei Doushu: Can You STILL Change Your Life?

You're touching on one of the most profound paradoxes in Chinese metaphysics — the tension between "destiny is fixed" (命定论) and "we can rise above destiny" (人定胜天). Let’s unpack it systematically: 1. Ziwei Doushu & Bazi as Fixed at Birth Yes, both 紫微斗数 (Zi Wei Dou Shu) and 八字 (Bazi) are destiny charts based on one's birth time and date. They describe: 命 (Ming): your blueprint — talents, luck cycles, obstacles, blessings. 运 (Yun): the unfolding of your life across time (decade/year/month luck). These charts are "derived from the Yijing cosmology", using Yin-Yang, Five Elements, Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches — just like the 64 Hexagrams and Bagua. They describe patterns, not predictions. 2. 人定胜天:Conviction Conquers Destiny The phrase “人定胜天” is a bold statement from Yijing philosophy: It means "what you decide with conviction can overcome what heaven has assigned." It places human will, awareness, and virtue above fatalism. It comes...

How to Make People Listen to You even when You Speak Badly

Why People Listen to Those They Like and Respect Let’s face it: We don’t follow people just because they’re right . We follow people because they make us feel safe , seen , and valued . And that’s exactly what a SuperME does — without trying to be popular, people-pleasing, or performative. How SuperME Earns Respect (Without Trying to Impress) They Lead with Purpose, Not Performance A SuperME doesn’t act to win approval — they act to honour their purpose . They say what needs to be said, even when it’s uncomfortable — but they say it with heart. That quiet clarity earns respect. “You don’t just talk. You live it.” They Love without Needing to Be Loved Back SuperMEs show care, presence, and empathy — without expectation. People feel safe around them, because there’s no agenda. That safety builds deep connection. You feel seen — and that changes everything. They Express Gratitude Freely and Authentically SuperMEs appreciate people — even in their flaws....

The Next Big Move is not about AI

  Andy is Ready for the Next Big Move — How About You? The next big move is not about faster tech, louder voices, or more data. It’s about something deeper — something we’ve forgotten in the rush: 1. Connection. On a human level. In a world flooded with AI , gadgets, and algorithms , people are more informed, yet more isolated. We scroll, swipe, and reply — but still feel unseen. Unheard. Unfelt. Andy Ng — AndyTheCoach — is ready. Because he knows: The real upgrade we need is not in software — but in Self . And that’s where SuperME enters. SuperME is not a theory. It’s a movement of returning to who we truly are: humans who lead with Purpose , relate with Love, and live in Gratitude . Andy has trained thousands, spoken across continents, and built programs that work — but today, his biggest move is to bring people back to themselves. Back to eye contact. Back to heart-centered leadership . Back to healing teams, families, and organisations from within. Are You Ready? You can ke...

Identifying Your SuperME

Identifying your SuperME involves reconnecting with your truest self—the version of you that exists beyond fear, labels, and societal expectations.  Here’s how you can identify your SuperME: 1. Understand What SuperME Is  SuperME is not a title, achievement, or role.  It’s your soul, your truest self, and your empowered self.  It’s the version of you that: • Leads with Purpose, Love, and Gratitude.  • Lives aligned with truth and serves with intention.  • Transforms wounds into wisdom and shines fully.  2. Recognize What Is NOT SuperME  SuperME is not active when you are: • Survival-Me : Driven by fear, avoiding discomfort, and clinging to safety.  • Protector-Me : Overthinking, building walls, and shielding yourself from vulnerability.  • Small-Me : Shrinking in self-worth, avoiding leadership, and fearing judgment.  These states are often reactions to external pressures, past trauma, or societal conditioning.  3....

How Can SuperME Earn Super Money?

How Can SuperME Earn Super Money? Super Money is not just wealth — it’s aligned abundance . It flows not from desperation, but from Purpose , Love , and Gratitude . A Survival-Me chases income. A Protector-Me saves out of fear. But a SuperME ? They attract wealth because they radiate value . The SuperME Money Flow: Purpose earns Trust When your work aligns with your deeper calling, people trust you. And trust opens doors to opportunities, collaborations, and loyal clients . Love builds Relationships You don’t just sell — you serve . You don’t manipulate — you listen . This creates lifetime value, not one-time transactions. Gratitude multiplies Wealth You bless every dollar earned. You give generously, receive openly. Your energy attracts more — not just money, but support, ideas, and unexpected gifts . SuperME and Passive Income? Passive income that exceeds your active expenses starts with one shift: “Let your value work harder than your time .” Exa...

SuperME: The Human Soul in the Age of AI and Sustainability

  SuperME : The Human Soul in the Age of AI and Sustainability   In a world racing toward AI efficiency and sustainable survival, we must not lose sight of the one thing that holds it all together—our humanity. SuperME reminds us: ✅ Sustainability begins from within — when we live with Purpose, we no longer consume mindlessly. ✅ AI without Love is just logic; SuperME adds heart to technology. ✅ Gratitude anchors us in humility—so we innovate not for greed, but for collective uplift . SuperME ensures we build a future that’s not only smart and green, but deeply human. It’s not about competing with machines or saving the Earth—it’s about coming home to ourselves, and from there, shaping a world worth living in. Be the SuperME . Be the change. Be the legacy.

How to Be a Ripple Without Doing Anything

  What is the Ripple Effect ? Are you a Ripple ? You don't to do anything special or extra, you just BE your SuperME , live as a SuperME and you are already a Ripple! The Ripple Effect, as described in the book SuperME Unleashed , is the transformative impact that begins with one person choosing to live authentically as their SuperME. ​ It emphasizes that personal alignment and healing naturally extend outward, influencing others and creating waves of positive change across relationships, communities, and society. ​ Key Components of the Ripple Effect: 1. Self: The initial shift starts within. ​When you align with Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG), you inspire others through your authenticity and energy. ​ 2. Inner Circle : Your closest relationships—family, friends, and colleagues—are impacted by your values and actions, often without direct effort. ​ 3. Community : Your alignment influences your workplace, social circles, and environment, fostering connection and collaboratio...

Using YouTube Premium with no ads is very much like how a SuperME operates in life

I have been using YouTube Premium for about 8 years now.  Many of my contents are from YouTube, the world's no. 2 website after Google.  Using YouTube Premium with no ads is very much like how a SuperME operates in life 1. SuperME Lives with Purpose — Not Distraction Ads are like the world’s noise: constant interruptions pulling you off track. SuperME, like YouTube Premium, says: “I know what I came here for.” “I choose what enters my space.” A SuperME lives with intention, not reaction. 2. SuperME Removes Unnecessary Noise Most people tolerate mental clutter — doubt, judgment, social comparison. But SuperME clears the inner screen. Just like Premium removes ads, SuperME clears: Ego noise (trying to impress) Fear filters (what will people think?) Old programming (I’m not good enough) And creates space for truth, presence, and flow. 3. SuperME Invests in Self-Worth YouTube Premium costs a little — but you pay for a better experience. SuperME lives the same way: They “invest” in...

What People Truly Want in Trainings

Trainings conducted by SuperMEs are what people truly want — even if they don’t know it yet — because they don’t just inform minds, they ignite hearts and restore humanity in the workplace. Here’s why: 1. SuperME Trainings Create Emotional Safety People don’t learn when they feel judged. They open up when they feel seen, heard, and valued. A SuperME trainer doesn't perform. They connect. They begin with presence, not PowerPoint. They allow silence, not just slides. “I felt like I could finally breathe in a training.” — Participant, Government Agency 2. SuperME Trainings Realign People with Their Inner Compass Most trainings teach skills. SuperME trainings awaken Purpose. When people remember their why, they stop dragging themselves to work they stop blaming others they start showing up from within That’s why SuperME sessions often leave participants saying: “I came for work. I found myself.” 3. SuperME Trainings Are Rooted in Love, Not Ego SuperMEs don’t stand on stage to impress. ...

Why Vulnerability is Good

What Is Vulnerability in the SuperME Context? Vulnerability is the courage to be seen as you are — not as who you think you should be. It’s: Speaking the truth even when your voice shakes Saying “ I don’t know ” when the room expects answers Showing emotion , asking for help , admitting fear Standing firm in purpose , not performance A SuperME doesn’t hide behind masks like the Protector-Me or Survival-Me . Instead, the SuperME says: “This is me — in truth , in growth, in love.” Why SuperME Is Not Afraid to Be Vulnerable Because vulnerability is a function of Purpose , Love , and Gratitude : ✔ Purpose gives you the why: “ I’m not here to impress — I’m here to impact .” ✔ Love gives you the safety: “ I am worthy , even in my imperfections .” ✔ Gratitude gives you the perspective: “Every challenge, every stumble, has shaped who I am today.” The SuperME Difference A Survival-Me fears vulnerability — it looks like weakness . A Protector-Me hides vulnerability — it looks unsafe . A Sup...

How to Touch Hearts with SuperME

How AndyTheCoach Touches Hearts with SuperME In a world where corporate training often feels transactional and templated, Andy Ng — also known as AndyTheCoach — brings something rare, needed, and unforgettable: A training experience that speaks not just to the mind, but to the heart. At the core of Andy’s signature programs lies a transformational force: SuperME — powered by Purpose, Love, and Gratitude ( PLG ). 1. He Aligns Strategy with Purpose Corporate leaders often chase KPIs , not knowing they’re off-purpose. Andy opens his sessions with one simple but disarming question: “Why do you do what you do — beyond the paycheck?” Suddenly, executives pause. They remember their why. And in that moment, Andy realigns performance with personal clarity. This is not theory. It’s activation. 2. He Connects Through Love in Leadership Andy doesn’t preach — he listens. He doesn’t impress — he connects. Whether he’s speaking to a team of engineers or C-suite executives , Andy brings a presence ...

From Trainer-Coach to Keynote Speaker and Transformational Leader with SuperME

How AndyTheCoach (Andy Ng) Turned from Trainer-Coach to Keynote Speaker and Transformational Leader with SuperME For over 25 years, Andy Ng — better known as AndyTheCoach — was a sought-after trainer and coach in Singapore and across Asia. With an MBA (UK), a Chartered Accountant background, and corporate experience as Finance & HR Director, Andy trained thousands in business skills, leadership, sales, and management. But something was missing. “People were achieving success, but not fulfillment,” Andy observed. Many clients had great results but felt stuck, burned out, or lost. That’s when a shift happened. In 2025, Andy partnered with Dr. Vivian Passion Koh, a visionary in human transformation, to co-create a new framework: SuperME — a powerful inner reset based on Purpose, Love, and Gratitude (PLG). What began as coaching evolved into something far greater. Today, Andy has transformed into a high-impact keynote speaker and transformational coach, delivering 45-minute to 1-hour t...

Is Giving Praise a Form of Charity?

Is Giving Praise a Form of Charity? Yes — but not in the way we often think of charity . Praise, when genuine and heart-led, is a form of emotional generosity . Just like charity feeds the body, praise nourishes the soul. It says: “I see something good in you. I honour it.” And for someone who’s unseen, unappreciated, or simply exhausted — that recognition can be more powerful than money. But What If We Don’t Know the Person or Situation? A SuperME doesn’t need full knowledge to express gratitude or kindness . Because praise isn’t about flattery — it’s about presence . You can say: “I admire your calm energy .” “I noticed how you showed up today — thank you.” “It feels good being around you.” You’re not claiming to know their whole story. You’re simply honouring the beauty of the moment. That’s what a SuperME does: Sees the good. Speaks the good. Spreads the good. Not to manipulate — but to magnify what’s already there. Does SuperME Give Praise Lightly? No. SuperME doesn’t fake pra...

Why SuperME Welcomes Compliments with Grace

Why SuperME Welcomes Compliments with Grace A SuperME doesn’t reject praise. It receives it — with humility, presence, and gratitude. Not because of ego. But because a SuperME knows: Compliments are not about proving worth — they’re about reflecting light. 1. With Purpose: A SuperME is grounded in inner alignment. They know who they are — and why they do what they do. So when someone says: “You’re inspiring” or “I love your energy” — the SuperME doesn’t say, “Oh no, not really.” They say: “Thank you. That means a lot. I’m just being true to who I am.” They know their purpose is to serve, uplift, and shine — so receiving that light back is confirmation, not inflation. 2. With Love: SuperME receives praise without guilt or self-doubt. Because they are not hungry for approval — but neither do they deny love when it’s given. They understand that when someone offers a compliment, they are offering a gift of the heart. Rejecting it would be like saying, “Your love isn’t welcome here.” So ins...

11 Steps in SuperME Journey

11 Steps in SuperME Journey The journey outlined in SuperME Unleashed by Dr Vivian Passion Koh follows these steps: 1. Recognizing Survival-Me and Protector-Me : First you identify the limiting versions of yourself, such as Survival-Me (driven by fear) and Protector-Me (driven by control), which hold you back from living authentically. 2. Choosing to Be a SuperME : You make the conscious decision to rise above these limiting states and embrace your SuperME — the truest version of yourself aligned with truth, courage, and purpose. 3. Transitioning into SuperME : Through the process of transformation, you reconnect with your inner self and step into your empowered state. 4. Facing the Mirror : You reflect deeply on who you are without the masks, roles, and expectations imposed by the world. This is the moment of self-awareness and authenticity. 5. Navigating Super Conflict: You confront the inner conflict between your Protector-Me and SuperME, making pivotal choices to align with y...

The Missed Train That Changed My Life

The Missed Train That Changed My Life 24 April 2025. China Zhengzhou East Station. 3:15 pm. I stood at the gantry, luggage in hand, thinking my journey was almost done. I had just completed a meaningful 5-day trip in Luoyang, and I was en route to catch my flight home to Singapore. My high-speed train to the airport was scheduled at 3:45 pm. No announcements came. At 3:43, I walked to the platform. And… I missed the train. On time, early, and still late.  Just like that. I stood there, stunned. No panic. Just silence. A missed train. A missed chance to visit the Zhengzhou Museum. A change in travel plans. But life — in its quiet wisdom — had other plans. Because that evening, at 6:45 pm, I settled early in my airport hotel room, I opened my computer. A message came in. “This song is created by SuperME Studio.” I asked, “What is SuperME Studio?” The reply came: “It’s from the book I’m writing… called SuperME.” And that was the moment the seed was planted. A missed train… became a de...