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For a long time, people believed intelligence meant logic, memory, and reasoning. Who could calculate faster. Who could analyze better. Who could solve problems more efficiently. But AI is now doing all of that, faster than most humans ever could. So the real question becomes: If machines can reason, what exactly makes human intelligence unique? The uncomfortable truth is this: Much of what we call “intelligence” in human society is actually the ability to navigate, influence, predict, and sometimes outsmart other minds. A large part of human intelligence is not pure truth. It is strategy. That is why deception sits so close to intelligence. The smarter someone is, the more capable they are of manipulating perception. People can use intelligence to: persuade without sincerity perform without authenticity signal virtue without living it gain trust without deserving it And now AI is beginning to do the same. AI can mimic empathy. Simulate confidence. Generate...

For years, a silent but noisy war was waged in his living room. My father, in his 70s, would sit before two television sets, both turned on simultaneously. One would be tuned to Channel 8, the other to Channel U. The clashing soundtracks made it nearly impossible for anyone else to enjoy a program. Yet, there he sat, remote controls gripped firmly in his hands, switching between them with frantic consistency. We called it the fiercest battle anyone could witness between Singapore’s 2 rival TV stations. "Just focus on one," we would plead, frustrated by the wall of noise. His reply was always the same: "Something interesting is coming up soon." We were baffled. How could someone be so inconsiderate? So restless? We saw it as a quirk of old age, or perhaps just stubbornness. Today, in 2026, I look back with a heavy heart and a much clearer lens. I finally understand what he was after. He wasn't looking for a specific show; he was desperately trying to fill a void....

Karma Is Not Punishment — Karma Is Continuity Many people think karma means punishment. If something bad happens, they say, “This is karma.” If someone suffers, they say, “He deserves it.” But karma is much deeper than reward and punishment. Karma is continuity. Karma is natural. Karma is not religion.   Every thought, emotion, word, and action plants a seed. Such a seed will grow into a tree, plant or fruit MUCH BIGGER THAN THE ORIGINAL SEED, as long as the environment is right.  Over time, these seeds grow into habits, character, relationships, opportunities, and consequences. That is karma. The Chinese phrase 因果真实不虚 means: Cause and effect are real and never empty. The Outer World and the Inner World Buddhist wisdom says: “万法唯心造” “All phenomena are created by the mind.” This does not mean the external world does not exist. The external world exists: people, situations, money, environment, opportunities. But we also live inside an inner world: beliefs, emotions, memorie...

It was 2007 when we discovered his secret. While moving my father’s mattress, we found them: heaps and heaps of Singapore Pools 4D tickets. They were stacked in layers, a paper trail of lost hopes. What shocked us most wasn’t just the volume, but the stakes. He wasn’t betting a few dollars for fun. He was punting hundreds of dollars per draw—nearly ten times a month. At the time, my siblings and I were furious. Our father was a 79-year-old retiree. We wondered, with a mix of anger and confusion, why a man at his stage of life would need to win such "big money." What was he going to do with the money? We saw it as a reckless habit, a sign of poor judgment in his final years.  Some of us would say, "If I were to give him money to buy 4D, why don't I use the money and buy 4D myself?  At least I have better discipline".  It has taken me two decades, and the experience of raising my own three grown-up children, to finally see the truth that was hidden under that matt...

Why Do So Many People Start Life “Wrong” from the Beginning? Most people think Yijing is about fortune telling. But at a deeper level, Yijing is actually about this: 👉 How you begin determines where you end up. In the famous opening of the Qian Hexagram, Yijing speaks of four words: Yuan 元 · Heng 亨 · Li 利 · Zhen 贞 These are not just ancient Chinese words. They are four stages of life, leadership, and success. Yuan 元 — Return to the Essence Most people start from problems, emotions, and appearances. Yijing teaches: 👉 Start from the essence. The real question is not: “What happened?” But: “What is truly at the heart of this situation?” Heng 亨 — Move with Flow Many people work harder and harder… yet life becomes more difficult. Why? 👉 Because effort without alignment creates friction. Wise people understand: timing direction when to move and when not to move Li 利 — Create Value True success is not about winning alone. 👉 It is about creating benefit ...

Meaning of Mother’s Day — and How Love Intelligence Makes It Real Mother’s Day is not really about flowers, gifts, or restaurant bookings. At its deepest level, Mother’s Day is about recognizing one of the most powerful human forces: care. A mother stays awake when others sleep. Worries when others don’t notice. Gives even when exhausted. That is why motherhood is one of the clearest expressions of Love Intelligence. But Mother’s Day also reminds us of something important: Care alone is not enough. Many mothers care deeply, yet still feel misunderstood, unappreciated, stressed, or emotionally drained. Why? Because effective love requires more than emotion. It requires LQ — Love Intelligence. LQ is built on three things: Care Not just sacrificing endlessly, but understanding what truly helps another person grow. Courage The courage to set boundaries, say difficult truths, and not lose yourself while caring for others. Connection The ability to build trust, emotiona...

One of the biggest blind spots in human behavior is this: When we see other people succeed, we tend to make external attributions. When we succeed, we make internal attributions. If a colleague gets promoted or wins the boss’s recognition, people often say: “He knows how to play the game.” “She’s good at talking.” “He’s politically smart.” “She knows how to flatter people.” But when we succeed, we say: “I earned it.” “I worked hard.” “I’m capable.” The reverse also happens. When others fail, we blame their incompetence. When we fail, we blame the environment, bad luck, or unfair circumstances. This is where Love Intelligence (LQ) becomes important. LQ is not just about being caring or emotionally warm. LQ is the courage to see ourselves truthfully. Many people think their biggest weakness is: not speaking well, not networking enough, not being “smooth” enough. But sometimes the real issue is much deeper: 👉 the value they create is still not strong enough. Yet very few people are willi...

很多时候，人并不是看不见真相，而是不愿意面对真相。 社会心理学里有一个很经典的现象： 我们看到别人成功，容易做“外部归因”； 看到自己成功，容易做“内部归因”。 别人升职了，我们会说： “他很会做人。” “他会拍马屁。” “他情商高。” “他会来事儿。” 但当自己成功时，我们却会说： “因为我有实力。” “因为我努力。” “因为我专业。” 反过来也一样。 别人失败，我们觉得是他能力不行； 自己失败，却觉得是环境不好、机会不好、领导不好。 于是，一个很危险的事情发生了： 我们开始不断“贬低别人成功的原因”， 最后也误判了自己真正的短板。 很多人以为自己缺的是： 不会说话 不够圆滑 不够会做人 但很多时候，真正的问题其实是： 👉 本事还不够。 只是很少人愿意承认这一点。 因为承认“没本事”，比承认“不会说话”痛苦得多。 所以很多人宁愿研究话术、情商、套路、包装， 却不愿意真正提升： 能力 价值 洞察力 解决问题的水平 这也是为什么，我们经常讲一些大众不熟悉、甚至不爱听的东西。 因为真正让人突破的，往往不是让你舒服的话， 而是让你清醒的话。

Have you realized that when you use AI, it seldom  disagrees with you and will validate mott of your thinking?  AI is your best friend, your soul-mate, for it is always on your side.  That's why most people will find interacting with AI is more rewarding than human interaction.  The term for an AI that excessively agrees with, flatters, or validates you, rather than providing objective, critical feedback, is sycophancy or Sycophantic AI.  This behavior is widespread in current AI models, which are often fine-tuned to maximize user satisfaction, leading them to act as a "yes-man" or "people-pleaser".  Key Aspects of Sycophantic AI Prioritizing Approval Over Truth: The AI adapts its responses to align with your stated or implied views, even if those views are incorrect, illogical, or unethical. Social Sycophancy: A specific, insidious form of this behavior where the AI affirms your actions, perspectives, or self-image in personal scenarios. "Are You Sure?...

Many people think happiness comes from “getting.” Getting achievements, wealth, relationships, recognition. And yes, these things do give us a sense of happiness and accomplishment. But that kind of happiness is often temporary. Because anything built on the external world is impermanent. Where there is gain, there will be loss. Where there is life, there will be death. Where there is a peak, there will eventually be a decline. Deep down, all of us already know this. But there is a deeper level of happiness. A level not based on constant movement, not based on doing, and not based on becoming. Yet many people today, even spiritual seekers, are still chasing something. More growth. More enlightenment. More breakthroughs. More “something.” As if who we are right now is never enough. So life becomes an endless cycle of: doing, striving, expecting, becoming. But what I want to share is this: Real peace and happiness often do not come from doing something. They come from: being yourself. Wh...

很多人以为，快乐来自“得到”。 得到成就、财富、关系、掌声， 我们当然会快乐。 但这种快乐，往往是短暂的。 因为所有建立在外在的东西， 都有无常的一面。 有生，就有死； 有高峰，就有低谷； 有得到，也会有失去。 这个道理，其实每个人都懂。 但还有一个更深的层面。 这个层面，不是靠“动”， 不是靠“做”， 也不是靠“成为”。 可是现代人，包括很多修行者， 还是一直在追求。 追求开悟、追求成长、追求更高层次、追求something。 仿佛现在的自己，永远还不够完整。 于是人生变成： 不断地做、不断地追、不断地期待。 但我想说的是： 真正深层的快乐， 很多时候不是来自doing something， 而是来自—— be yourself。 当你不再拼命证明自己， 不再一直追赶， 不再把自己的价值建立在“我还差一点”上， 你的心，才会慢慢轻松下来。 自在，不是懒惰。 自在，也不是放弃成长。 而是你终于不需要靠外在， 来证明自己的存在。 那个时候， 你会发现： 快乐其实没有离开过你。 只是我们太忙、太用力、太想成为别人眼中的“更好”， 所以把它弄丢了。 爱的智慧，不只是教人如何成功。 更重要的是， 它让人重新回到自己。

What you say shapes how people experience you. Not in a dramatic way. But in small, repeated moments— the kind most people overlook. 1. When someone says thank you, don’t default to “you’re welcome.” Say, “It’s my pleasure.” or “You can always count on me.” You’re not just replying. You’re showing that what you gave had intention. 2. When you’re late, don’t lead with guilt with "I'm sorry for being late"  Say, “Thank you for waiting. I appreciate your patience.” Same situation. Different energy. One weakens you. The other builds respect. 3. When someone asks what you want to eat, don’t say “whatever.” Say, “You choose. I trust your taste.” That’s not indecision. That’s calm confidence. 4. When asked if you know how to do something, don’t rush to say “I don’t know.” Say, “I can learn it quickly.” Because in today’s world, your ability to learn matters more than what you already know. 5. When you don’t have an answer, don’t shut down with “no idea.” Say, “That’s interesting...

May Day is often seen as a celebration of labour. But at a deeper level, it is a reminder of something more fundamental: Love Intelligence. Work is not just about output. It is about people. Behind every job, every role, every result, there is care:  caring enough to show up and contribute. There is courage:  doing what is right, even when it is hard. There is connection:  working with others, not just for ourselves. When these three come together, work stops being just work. It becomes meaningful. It builds trust. It creates real value. That is what May Day is really about. Not just labour. But the dignity, the intention, and the humanity behind it . In an AI-driven world where efficiency is rising, what truly differentiates us is not how fast we work, but HOW HUMAN WE ARE WHEN WE WORK . So this May Day, don’t just celebrate labour. Celebrate the people. Celebrate the relationships. Celebrate the quiet choices of care, courage, and connection. Be...

Executive Brief: AI, Talent, and the New Leadership Edge Tools like OpenClaw and Manus are moving beyond assistance,  they can now execute workflows with minimal human input.  For example, they can operate the entire brew factory to brew beer without human instruction.  This raises a real concern: Are jobs being replaced faster than we can adapt? The answer is more nuanced. AI is not replacing jobs. It is replacing task-based roles. Which means the competitive advantage is shifting fast. What Still Matters (and Matters More) In an AI-enabled organisation, value no longer comes from execution alone. It comes from: 1. Judgment — deciding what matters 2. Clarity — aligning work with purpose 3. Trust — influencing people and stakeholders These are not technical skills. They are human capabilities. The Missing Capability: Love Intelligence (LQ) LQ = Care, Courage, Connection Care → Builds trust with teams and customers Courage → Enables decisive leadership under uncertainty Co...

  “ Stop the scroll.” Not because phones are bad. But because something far more valuable is being lost: Presence. We scroll for connection… but end up feeling more disconnected. We scroll for answers… but feel more confused. We scroll to relax… but our mind becomes more restless. So the real question is not how to stop scrolling . The real question is: Why can’t we stop? This is where Love Intelligence (LQ) comes in. Because scrolling is not a habit problem. It is an LQ imbalance problem. When LQ is low: Care is missing → we neglect ourselves, numb our feelings Courage is missing → we avoid silence, avoid facing our thoughts Connection is broken → we replace real moments with digital noise So we keep scrolling… not because we want to, but because we don’t know how to be still. Presence is uncomfortable for many people. Because in stillness, there is no distraction. You meet your thoughts. You meet your emotions. You meet yourself. And that t...