How to Be Happy Every day Every Time, Everywhere and with Everyone

How to Be Happy Every day Every Time, Everywhere and with Everyone

1. Lower your expectations and requirements of others.

When I serve my customers and prospects, I do not expect anything from them other than to try my best to answer their questions and clear their doubts.

I often tell people to go back and consider again before they commit. And when they are ready to buy, I ask them, 'Are you are going ahead?" Some will be shocked and ask me why I ask this question.

My answer is, "I want you to be sure of wanting to purchase this out of your own will, not because of me or anything else because I want long-term recurring patronage from all my customers, at least for the next 3 months to a year.

2. Face Everything in Life with a Normal Heart

Whether something is good or bad, I face it normally, as if I am not in the picture. When I won 2-years in a row for my company's top sales (individual and team), many people congratulated me. My reply was simply, 'thanks'. To me being the top or bottom is not important, what is important is are they in line with my values.

3. Don't care too much about other people's opinions about You, and you'll live a very relaxed life.

Even if people smog or ridiculed you for doing silly things, or they praise you out of nothing, just ignore because I know deep inside I am not silly and I am also not so special to deserve praise for nothing.

What do You think? How do you get to be happy every day, every time, everywhere and with everyone?

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