Most People Don't Share, They Preach

Sharing is not Preaching. Most people don't know how to share, instead of sharing they preach and this angers people. Preaching is more than sharing, it is about trying to convince, persuade or move people to your way of thinking.

Sharing is about sharing from your heart what you sincerely believe to be true AT THIS POINT OF TIME. What Sharing is about:

What You believe to be true. However, if you already know that what you share is not true and you still share it, that is not sharing. That is cheating
Something that you may or not may have in interest in. I own the Amethyst geode here and like to share this with you.
What you think and feel. It is not about sharing what you know a lot and have expert knowledge in it. What you share may not be the truth. Many a times people share fake news for they don't know that fake news is not true, but they believe to be true.
Even when you did not own it or intend to own it. So I don't have to actually intend to buy iPhone 13 to share the goodness of iPhone 13
Regardless of whether people believe you or not. What is important that the person sharing it believes it. Many people said they don't want to share because they say others don't believe in what they share. This is a wrong understanding of sharing.

This is my sharing today. Do share it to help people. Thanks

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